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Trusting Your Doctor While Pregnant

Trusting Your Doctor While Pregnant

Your doctor is the most important person when you are pregnant. Here is how to choose one you are comfortable with.


Reshma had gone to the same gynaecologist for years and continued when she got pregnant. She was taken aback when the doctor brushed her off every time she asked questions. The doctor said she knew everything and there was no need for her to bother. Reshma says, "It is not that I did not trust her, but I wanted to be reassured sometimes." For her second pregnancy, she chose a different doctor and was happier with her experience this time.

Finding the right doctor can have a big influence in how smoothly your pregnancy goes. To determine if a particular doctor is right for you, here are some questions to ask.


Where do you deliver?

Most doctors are affiliated to a specific hospital or nursing home. When you visit the doctor, ask her where she normally delivers babies. Visit that hospital and check the facilities for yourself to decide if you would be willing to deliver there. For example, you may prefer a hospital close to your house or one with an advanced neonatal care unit.

If you have already decided on a hospital, you will need to check if your doctor is willing to schedule a delivery there. If a doctor has her own team at a particular hospital, she may not be willing to work in another hospital or with a different team.


What tests do I need to do?

When you are pregnant, you need to undergo various medical tests to check yours and your baby's health. Before you actually do a test, your doctor should explain the nature of the test, why you need to do it, possible complications, etc. In the case of extra tests, a good doctor will also give you the option of deciding to undergo a particular test or not.For example, amniocentesis is recommended for women over 35 but it is not compulsory.

Whether you decide to have a particular test or not, your doctor should respect your decision. This is also important if a test shows up complications. While all doctors have their own opinions, they should not influence a patient's decision. When Malini found out her baby was deformed, she chose to have an abortion. When she told her doctor about her decision,the doctor was horrified and kept trying to convince Malini to change her mind. Eventually, the doctor performed the procedure, but Malini felt guilty and stressed because of her doctor's attitude.


When do you perform a Caesarean?

A caesarean or C-section is a surgical method of giving birth. It is unavoidable in a high-risk pregnancy or due to sudden complications. Sometimes, a normal pregnancy might culminate in a C-section due to prolonged labour. Check with your doctor how long she is willing to wait before opting for a C-section. The waiting time can vary from one to five hours after you start pushing.

If you only want a vaginal birth, ask your doctor what measures she takes to avoid a C-section, even after prolonged labour. Alternatively, if you have already had a C-section previously, is your doctor willing to allow you to have a normal birth i.e. VBAC (vaginal birth after caesarean)?


What do I do if you are unavailable?

No doctor is available 365 days of the year. If your doctor does happen to be out of town when you go into labour, another doctor will obviously have to do the delivery.Ask your doctor who is her backup and arrange to meet this person beforehand. Discuss the delivery procedures with her and see if you are satisfied. If not,ask your doctor if it is possible to arrange for someone else.


During your pregnancy, it is best to be open about the various options available to you so you can make an informed decision. By trusting your doctor, you empower her to take decisions that are bestfor your baby when you are not in a position to do so.

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Priyanka
Priyanka.5 years ago
Very true. It is very important that you get access to the best medical care during such a crucial part of your life. With so many options out there, it really can get confusing more often than not. I found medical assistance online (i understand this may be scary) but this portal http://www.qikwell.com/doctors/Bangalore/gynecologist helps get access to doctors; they act as a bridge to the best doctors in Bangalore by providing a provision to book confirmed appointments with them. I use their service, and they are rally very effective.
 
 
 
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Priyanka
Priyanka.5 years ago
Very true. It is very important that you get access to the best medical care during such a crucial part of your life. With so many options out there, it really can get confusing more often than not. I found medical assistance online (i understand this may be scary) but this portal http://www.qikwell.com/doctors/Bangalore/gynecologist helps get access to doctors; they act as a bridge to the best doctors in Bangalore by providing a provision to book confirmed appointments with them. I use their service, and they are rally very effective.
 
 
 
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Priyanka
Priyanka.5 years ago
Very true. It is very important that you get access to the best medical care during such a crucial part of your life. With so many options out there, it really can get confusing more often than not. I found medical assistance online (i understand this may be scary) but this portal http://www.qikwell.com/doctors/Bangalore/gynecologist helps get access to doctors; they act as a bridge to the best doctors in Bangalore by providing a provision to book confirmed appointments with them. I use their service, and they are rally very effective.
 
 
 
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Priyanka
Priyanka.5 years ago
Very true. It is very important that you get access to the best medical care during such a crucial part of your life. With so many options out there, it really can get confusing more often than not. I found medical assistance online (i understand this may be scary) but this portal http://www.qikwell.com/doctors/Bangalore/gynecologist helps get access to doctors; they act as a bridge to the best doctors in Bangalore by providing a provision to book confirmed appointments with them. I use their service, and they are rally very effective.
 
 
 
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Priyanka
Priyanka.5 years ago
Very true. It is very important that you get access to the best medical care during such a crucial part of your life. With so many options out there, it really can get confusing more often than not. I found medical assistance online (i understand this may be scary) but this portal http://www.qikwell.com/doctors/Bangalore/gynecologist helps get access to doctors; they act as a bridge to the best doctors in Bangalore by providing a provision to book confirmed appointments with them. I use their service, and they are rally very effective.
 
 
 
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Garima sood
Garima sood.7 years ago
Very good info. Very often we do not check out the credentials of the doctor and go as per our convenience. checking the facilities and experiences always helps.
 
 
 
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Rikhav
Rikhav.7 years ago
it is quite true. if there is no connect between the patient and the doctor, then it is difficult to trust. A doctor who is able to comfort you and give satisfactory answers is the best one.
 
 
 
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Nimrit
Nimrit.7 years ago
I think it is very important to have full faith in the doctor. While i was pregnant, i was going to a gynec closer to my place. she was very experienced and qualified but i was not satisfied with her approach. whenever i asked her about something, she would brush it aside. i changed my doctor.
 
 
 
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