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Schoolgoer's Growth and Development (8 Years, 10-Month-Old)

Thereareseveralissuesthatthe8year10-months-oldkidwouldfaceatthisearlyage.Parentshavetomakesurethatkidsfindagoodandamaturesolutiontotheproblemsandsortthemproperly.Readmoreaboutchildâ€™sdevelopmentatthisstage.Youmustbesohappytoseeyourkidgrowing.Youmustbecertainlyfeelingproudonthewayhergrowthlevelhasbeenincreasing.Talkingaboutyourkidâ€™sgrowth,thoughitisagoodthingthatsheisgrowing,butitiscertainlythefactthatyouwillhavetokeepanalertmindandensurethatduringhergrowingyears,herchildhoodandinnocenceisnothamperedinanywrongway.Talkingaboutthethingsyouneedtobeworriedforandhowyoucanactonitespeciallyforthekidswhofallundertheagegroupof8to9years,hereissomesolutionthatyoucanalwayskeepforyourkid.InthisarticleIssuesonWhichYouNeedtoTalkWithyourKidatThisAgeFightswithPeerandFriendsSexualAbuseDominatingTeacherCrushesandHeartbreak,AllWhichHappenAlwaysIssuesonWhichYouNeedtoTalkWithyourKidatThisAgeSoyourkidisgrowingandsoarethesituationsandproblemsaroundher.Yourjobistomakesurethatshefacestheseproblemsinawellmanner.Buttherearemanybigissuesthatsomekidsmayfaceattheearlyage.Followingaretheissuesthatyouneedtobeextracarefulaboutanddealwithsuchas:FightswithPeerandFriendsThisisextremelycommonthingthatyourkidofsuchagecancertainlycomeacross.Generallytheysolvetheissueswithinthemselves.Buttherearesituationswhereyourchildmightbegettingdominatedbyotherandwishsomebodytoholdherhandandsupporther.Atsuchtime,itisyouwhoneedtobethathandandbeyourchildâ€™sbestfriendsothatshecansharealltheconcernsandissueswithyou.SexualAbuseSexualabuseisyetanotherseriousissuethatyoushouldnevertakelightly.Yourchildmightnotevenknowwhoisdoingwhatwithherbutmustbefeelingscaredandsickaboutit.Hence,itisalwaysbetterthatyoutellyourkidduringsuchagethatsuchthingsdohappenandeducateheronhowtodefendduringsuchsituations.TeachherhowtogivebacktosuchpeopleandmakeyourkidrealizethatyouarealwaystheretosupportheratsuchsituationsDominatingTeacherSchoollifeforsomekidscanbefunbutiftheycomeacrosssomerealstrictteacher,thenitcanbequiteuglydaysforthem.Sometimes,kidsdogetscaredwithhowteacherreactstothewaytheybehave.Likehittingthemwithsomesortofstationeryhardenoughthattheyrealizenottocommitsuchmistakeorevencorneringthemandmakingfoolofthemintheentireclasstomakethemrealizesomething.Itisnotthatkidsarealwayswrong.Butsituationcanbeyourkidâ€™smustbedealingwithdominatingandstrictteacheratschool.Hence,alwayswarnyourkidsonhowtodealwithsuchsituationsandmakeatleastonceasurprisevisittoherschooltoseehowsheisfacingtheschoollife.CrushesandHeartbreak,AllWhichHappenAlwaysThisisquitecommonforyourchildtofacethesituation.Afterallsheisenteringtheteenage,andhormonalchangeshaveslowlystarteddominatingher.Nowitisyouwhoneedtotellherwhatallchangesmayhappenandwhysuchthingtakesplace.Makeyourkidrealizethatthereisnoharmifsuchthingoccursbutthereisnousetoencouragesuchthingsatthisage.LetyourkidrealizethedifferencebetweenwhatisrightandwhatiswrongOtherthanthis,forthegrowingkidofage8yearsand10monthscanneverbeaproblem.Butyouneedtoensurethatforhereverystepofherageisfunandhappyandgivesheralearningexperience.Are8years,10-month-oldschoolgoersabletosolvetheirproblemsontheirown?Howtosupportemotionaldevelopmentofschoolgoers?Howtocultivatesenseofresponsibilityinschoolgoers?Discusshere.

You must be so happy to see your kid growing. You must be certainly feeling proud on the way her growth level has been increasing. Talking about your kidâ€™s growth, though it is a good thing that she is growing, but it is certainly the fact that you will have to keep an alert mind and ensure that during her growing years, her childhood and innocence is not hampered in any wrong way.

Talking about the things you need to be worried for and how you can act on it especially for the kids who fall under the age group of 8 to 9 years, here is some solution that you can always keep for your kid.

Issues on Which You Need to Talk With your Kid at This Age

So your kid is growing and so are the situations and problems around her. Your job is to make sure that she faces these problems in a well manner. But there are many big issues that some kids may face at the early age. Following are the issues that you need to be extra careful about and deal with such as:

Fights with Peer and Friends

This is extremely common thing that your kid of such age can certainly come across. Generally they solve the issues within themselves. But there are situations where your child might be getting dominated by other and wish somebody to hold her hand and support her. At such time, it is you who need to be that hand and be your childâ€™s best friend so that she can share all the concerns and issues with you.

Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse is yet another serious issue that you should never take lightly. Your child might not even know who is doing what with her but must be feeling scared and sick about it. Hence, it is always better that you tell your kid during such age that such things do happen and educate her on how to defend during such situations. Teach her how to give back to such people and make your kid realize that you are always there to support her at such situations

Dominating Teacher

School life for some kids can be fun but if they come across some real strict teacher, then it can be quite ugly days for them. Sometimes, kids do get scared with how teacher reacts to the way they behave. Like hitting them with some sort of stationery hard enough that they realize not to commit such mistake or even cornering them and making fool of them in the entire class to make them realize something.

It is not that kids are always wrong. But situation can be your kidâ€™s must be dealing with dominating and strict teacher at school. Hence, always warn your kids on how to deal with such situations and make at least once a surprise visit to her school to see how she is facing the school life.

Crushes and Heartbreak, All Which Happen Always

This is quite common for your child to face the situation. After all she is entering the teenage, and hormonal changes have slowly started dominating her. Now it is you who need to tell her what all changes may happen and why such thing takes place. Make your kid realize that there is no harm if such thing occurs but there is no use to encourage such things at this age. Let your kid realize the difference between what is right and what is wrong

Other than this, for the growing kid of age 8 years and 10 months can never be a problem. But you need to ensure that for her every step of her age is fun and happy and gives her a learning experience.

Are 8 years, 10-month-old schoolgoers able to solve their problems on their own? How to support emotional development of schoolgoers? How to cultivate sense of responsibility in schoolgoers? Discuss here.