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5 Ways to Prevent Disrespectful Behaviour in Children




Disrespectful behaviour can harm the overall personality of your child. Such type of behaviour can never let your child grow into a good human being. Read on to find ways to prevent disrespectful behaviour in children.

Many parents get upset about their kids showing disrespectful behaviour in front of them and other adults. Back talking, being sarcastic, ill manners, using swear or cuss words and being blatant are just some of the ways children can be rude and disrespectful. If these traits are not checked in childhood the kid grows up to be an even more rude and disrespectful adult. Here are 5 ways to prevent disrespectful behaviour in children.

1. React Maturely to Rude Behaviour


The best way to deal with rude or disrespectful behaviour from children is not to respond at all or to say in a level tone of voice ”I am not going to be talked to at like that” or “in this family people do not speak to each other in that tone”. Never make the mistake of shouting back or talking rudely as this will set a bad example in front of your child. Do not make the mistake of laughing at rudeness as this will only reinforce this kind of behaviour.

2. Act as a Role Model

Children learn best by example and you can teach them to be polite and gracious to others by emulating these qualities yourself. Your children should know exactly what kind of behaviour is rude and what is not. Say categorical statements like “we do not swear” or “we do not ignore people when they talk to us”.

Social manners should be taught to children by continued feedback about appropriate communication models. For example “when bumping against anybody it is polite to say sorry” and “when somebody is talking you should wait before that person finishes talking before you talk”. Make sure that you act perfectly, politely and graciously with people in presence of your kids and slowly your kids will also follow your example.

3. Regulate Media Content

It is important to regulate the kind of media content that enters your home as often children often learn swear words or cuss words and disrespectful phrases from inappropriate media sources. Swearing and bad attitude display is common on T.V and sometimes rude behaviour is also displayed on children’s channels.

Check the kind of books, magazines, channels that your kid is watching and exercise parental control. Block inappropriate sites on the Internet as it is a potent source of potentially damaging content. If at any time you catch your kids watching inappropriate stuff or see someone talking rudely on TV explain gently and firmly why this kind of behaviour is rude.

4. Praise Your Kid in Appropriate Conditions

When your kid behaves nicely and politely it is your duty as a parent to respond genuinely with affection and warm approval. Kids love to be praised especially by their parents and when they see that a particular kind of behaviour is bringing in praise they will feel encouraged to repeat it more often. For example, you can say “it is good of you to ask your sister before you played with her doll; that was gracious” or “you really behaved nicely with the doorman today; I am proud of you”. These statements will teach your kids to behave nicely and earn more praise.

5. Point out Examples

In real life you must be facing various examples of good as well as bad behaviour from various people. Learn to point out positive as well as negative examples in front of your children so that they learn to differentiate appropriate behaviour from inappropriate behaviour. Say things like “I think that lady really spoke nicely to us” or “the way the salesman behaved was not very good” that clearly communicate your impressions without sounding disrespectful or rude.

You are the best guide to your kid, hence; make your little one understand the fine line that differentiates respect and disrespect.

Why do some children behave in a disrespectful manner? How to stop children from being disrespectful? How to handle back talking in children? Discuss here.

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Dhwani.4 years ago
We should help children to get rid of disrespectful behaviour in the childhood itself. Nice tips.
 
 
 
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Kaumi.4 years ago
Disrespectful individuals can never succeed in life.
 
 
 
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Hetal.4 years ago
Disrespectful behaviour can create a bad impression about child.
 
 
 
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