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Considering Boarding Schools

Considering Boarding Schools

Sending a child to a boarding school is a well thought of process and for some parents it is the last resort. When should you opt for a boarding school? Is boarding school the right option for your child? Read on to find the answers to such questions.

Your husband has a transferable job. Your work keeps you out of the house. Rather than changing school every few years you wonder whether you should move your daughter to a boarding school. Read on to find how boarding schools can become support systems for working mothers.

Why to Choose a Boarding School?

There are a lot of reasons to choose a boarding school over a regular one. There are families that have been going to boarding schools/raising-children/253_1375/boarding-schools.html for generations, with such happy results that they cannot ever consider regular schools as an option. There are also those families which are either broken homes or cheerless environments, either due to domestic violence, bickering parents or otherwise, where boarding school can be a refuge for the children.

Then there are homes such as yours, where there is a change of city every couple of years, so that the children from such homes constantly have to adjust to new schools, never staying long enough to make lasting friendships.

Since you both do not seem to spend time at home and your daughter will most likely be brought up by a stranger, it may be a good idea to send her to a good boarding school, if you can afford to, where she will have trained people looking after her, round the clock supervision and a whole bunch of school friends who will know and love her well. However, do please keep a vigil on whether she really likes it there and whether she has settled in and found happiness.

Overcoming the Guilt of Sending Child to Boarding School

There is no need to feel guilty over your decision to put your daughter into a boarding school. However, it is a good idea to talk about this to her. Let her not feel that she is being gotten rid of, or that her parents are choosing their careers over her. She should feel positive towards her new school. You may ask her to choose a school of her liking to get her involved in the decision.Once she is in boarding school, do keep up the communication.

Monitor how she likes it there. Give her time to settle in. Visit as often as you can. Sometimes, in certain schools, you get the option of having the children back home over each weekend. This might suit you better if your guilt is overwhelming. Then again, boarding schools do not suit all children. Your daughter might still prefer it at home, absent parents and all. Pay attention to her needs. If she is happy, you will know you have made the right decision.

There are many attributes of boarding schools such as the diversity of children, the wider curriculum, the 24 hour supervision, the increased independence and initiative of the children and the low teacher-student ratio. Do not be consumed with guilt, instead focus your energy in ensuring the happiness of your child.



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