Register | Login
Login
Sign in with:
---------- OR ----------
Create Account | Login
Create account
As a Member You Can:
  • Join clubs to discuss your interests
  • Connect with people like you
  • Share information, seek advice, get support

   
parenting
in Mumbai (change city)
Select City
  • All
  • Delhi
  • New Delhi
  • Gurgaon
  • Noida
  • Mumbai
  • Pune
  • Banglore
  • Hyderabad
  • Ghaziabad
  • Chandigarh
  • Ahmedabad
  • Kolkata
  • Chennai
  • Coimbatore
  • Jaipur
 
Peer Pressure in Teenagers Topics..

 
You are here : home > Peer Pressure in Teenagers > Dealing with Peer Pressure > Helping Child to Combat Peer Pressure

Helping Child to Combat Peer Pressure

With parent’s support is vital for a teenager to deal with peer pressure. Here are some parenting tips for helping teenagers combat peer pressure.


Adolescence or teenage is an impressionable phase in an individual’s life.
Peer pressure gets enhanced due to tender age and the inability to resist. The child ends up feeling confused as he or she suffers identity crises and becomes unsure what she or he really wants from life. It is an unfortunate situation when this phase gets prolonged as it renders a deep impact on the future professional and personal life as well. It is therefore important to combat peer pressure at the earliest so that the self confidence of the kid does not get eroded and he does not risk his physical and mental well-being due to it.


Tips for Helping Child to Combat Peer Pressure

Here are a few ways through which one can go ahead with this combat exercise.


Boost His or Her Confidence

This is an oft repeated tip, but nonetheless the most effective. It has been the best possible method to counter peer pressure in a successful manner. If you note around you will find that there are a section of people who set norms and other follow them willingly. The self-confidence of the said person is at play here; he knows what he is doing and imposes rules likewise. They are self assured and confident. This combination is a magnet that pulls people towards them and they are considered as natural leaders. So once a kid is helped to understand how important it is to be confident, the urge to ‘fit in’ will gradually subside.


Help The Kid Make Informed Choices

Explain to the kid that there are a lot of choices that he has to make in his life; and a choice is an action that is followed by certain consequences. Be casual but logical in your approach. You need to be starkly factual when you make the kid aware on both positives and negatives of the available choices. Once the situation is clear in the mind of the kid he will be equipped to make decisions that will benefit him. He will know where the benefit lies and whether it is desirable or not.

This way he can readily combat negative peer pressure and you can also encourage the child to make his own decisions. Tell him that he has the complete right to do what is good for him and should not allow anyone else to dictate on the influence his choices. This also includes choosing friends with care. Teach your child that one’s peer group should ideally comprise of people who share similar values and ideals and have common goals in life. Combating peer pressure would be incredibly smooth this way.


Help Him Develop Mental Toughness

This does not happen overnight. It is an exercise that needs to be practiced from an early age. As a parent it is important to condition the child in such a way that he learns failure is not the end of life. He should be easy with both success and failure, but at the same time be aware that it is important to carve a niche for oneself and performance counts in the long run. 

There is temptations galore but it requires strength of character to decline anything that he knows is not right. Instead of being boringly preachy, it works better if you place the matter in a way that anything is bad that is not desirable and harmful. This way they will be better able to resist peer pressure.

You may also be interested in:

Poor Immunity in Kids
(32214 views)
Fussy Eating Habits
(21214 views)
Combat Peer Pressure
(11688 views)
Cancel
Save Edit
parenting
Notifications
7 Comments
Sort by Newest

Payal.2 years ago
Children showing high tantrums or peer pressure must be dealt patiently with their parents. Caring for them will definitely help them to come out of the issue. This article has showed many good ways to deal with the children under peer pressure. A great help for many parents.
 
 
 
.
Reply
Marvin.4 years ago
Peer pressure is one of three major influences on teenagers and drug use.Teens would naturally want to spend time with their friends, but as a parent, make it a priority to spend time with your kids and get interested and involved in their lives.They will not fall into peer pressure.
 
 
 
.
Reply
Pavers Rand.4 years ago
Some teenagers try alcohol because their friends are drinking. Some start to smoke because its what the cool kids are doing
Most teenagers will resort back to their own ideas about smoking and drinking. All this can be combated with good parenting skills that can be accomplished by following the tips given here.
 
 
 
.
Reply
Shallock.4 years ago
very interesting article. Peer pressure is common cause of teens going into crimes or being addicted. Parents can help the teen to combat peer pressure by positive reinforcement.
 
 
 
.
Reply
Back to Previous Page   |   More on Peer Pressure in Teenagers Index

 
 
Discussion Forum - Recent Posts
Why one should combat peer pressure at the earliest? How one should combat peer pressure? What is the best way to combat peer pressure?
view more >>
DISCUSSION FORUMS ON
Peer Pressure
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action ...
- aanadi    read >>

RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure ...
- dhruti    read >>

RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
just handle this problem very patiencely and calmly , you ...
- archita    read >>

RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should make yourself strong and there is no need to ma ...
- neha    read >>



All tips on Dealing With Peer Pressure
You ever wanted in one place.
No need to go anywhere else. No spam.

*No spam only genuine emails
Follow us on:




Featured Articles - Infertility | Baby Development | Health and Fitness | How to Get Pregnant | Parenting Advice | Weight Loss | Pregnancy Advice | Name Numerology
Baby - Baby Photo Contest | Lucky Names | Lucky Birthdates | Horoscopes | Chinese Calendar | Compatibility Test | Fun Zone
Parenting - Message Boards | Planning a Baby | Pregnancy | Parents of Babies | Baby Names | Baby Name Poll | Birth Announcements | Parenting Quiz
Family - Cooking Club | Love & Relationships | Beauty Tips | Kids Weight Calculator | Recipe Maker
General - Calorie Counter | Personality Quiz | Love Signs | Compatibility Quiz
Home | Site Map | Privacy Policy | Comments or Suggestions | Indiaparenting News Articles | Contact Us | Advertise with Us | | RSS
Copyright (c) 1999 - 2017 India Parenting Pvt. Ltd.