My son seems to do everything that his friends tell him. He does not question them for even once. As a result of this he has started telling lies. How can I help him stand up against peer pressure? Please advise
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My son seems to do everything that his friends tell him. He does not question them for even once. As a result of this he has started telling lies. How can I help him stand up against peer pressure? Please advise
disha replied. hello karuna,
behave like his friend, make strong bonding of friendship with him, and try to find out what his mind says, what he think and all, what is his expectations from parents. try to find out.
harpreet replied. hello karuna,
you should spend as much as time with your kid, its good for you, also you dont think negative may be there is nothing like you thought so keep patience and stay calm.
ratan replied. hello karuna,
in this case there is no need to get scold on him, also no need to get panic, he is your son, and peer pressure from friend because his parents may be didnt give him time.
adarsh replied. hello karuna,
dont get tension in this time, and dont get panic not at all, you try to spend more and more time with him, also the time you spend with him, show him that you are care for him, you love him lot.
aarti replied. hello karuna,
you should keep trust on your kids, he is your son, so you cant listen other things and put pressure on him, are you sure that he behave as per his friends told him, so check this first.
aanchal replied. hello karuna,
dont put any extra pressure on your son, you should boost him in new advance things which is related to activity and related to study, if he wish to do any activity take admission to him.
varsha replied. hello karuna,
first you are sure that your son used to heard friend thing, and behave in same way, first you should check this then you can try to find out solution on that, so you should check once.
kaushlya replied. hello karuna,
dont get angry on him, and dont start give lecture to him, give him some time, and then see some changes in him, if changes occur in his nature, then you are on right track.
neha replied. hello karuna,
you should make yourself strong and there is no need to make issue of this things, its small period of peer from friend after certain time period he also know what he was done.
archita replied. hello karuna,
just handle this problem very patiencely and calmly , you should try to give him comfortable space at home only, and spend good and free time with him, make him talkative.
dhruti replied. hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure on him, or cant scold on him, because its useless things this time, better you try to keep more and more connectivity with him.
aanadi replied. hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action on that, now what is his age, you didnt mention here, but dont put pressure on him, take it in very nice way.
roshan replied. hello karuna,
try to be friendly with your kids, and dont make any unnecessary argument with him, try to give him comfort at home when he is present at home, and try to spend more and more time with your son.
neela replied. hello karuna,
this post you had posted long time back, so now how is the situation, is your son is best friend of your, or till now situation is same or what, if yes then you should try to solve this soon.
varun replied. hello karuna,
i read your post and really feel so scared because my daughter not listen me from last month, she want to go out with her friend only, and whatever they done she also ready to do that.
ujwal replied. hello karuna,
dont react over on this issue, and dont get panic also, you know its a peer pressure of his friend, there is not a situation like you dont know anything, so just keep patience on your thinking.
pooja replied. hello karuna,
dont get panic in this situation, your situation under control till now, so dont get panic, its all of your control and you try to solve your problem but think on that go steady.
rupal replied. hello karuna,
if your know your son under peer pressure of his friends then why dont you go and meet the parents of his friends, and tell them everything about them kids,
ganesh replied. hello karuna,
as a parents, you have right to get angry on kid and also get shouted on kid, but its with perfect and right reason, but its not compulsory to do on kid misbehave or mistake.
ramesh replied. hello karuna,
dont get angry or dont get shouted on your kid, if they was done some mistake, you try to understand his point of view, try to look at that situation with his views, you will get answer.
2017-06-16
#1
Name: disha Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
behave like his friend, make strong bonding of friendship with him, and try to find out what his mind says, what he think and all, what is his expectations from parents. try to find out.
2017-06-16
#2
Name: harpreet Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should spend as much as time with your kid, its good for you, also you dont think negative may be there is nothing like you thought so keep patience and stay calm.
2017-06-16
#3
Name: ratan Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
in this case there is no need to get scold on him, also no need to get panic, he is your son, and peer pressure from friend because his parents may be didnt give him time.
2017-06-16
#4
Name: adarsh Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get tension in this time, and dont get panic not at all, you try to spend more and more time with him, also the time you spend with him, show him that you are care for him, you love him lot.
2017-06-16
#5
Name: aarti Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should keep trust on your kids, he is your son, so you cant listen other things and put pressure on him, are you sure that he behave as per his friends told him, so check this first.
2017-06-16
#6
Name: aanchal Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont put any extra pressure on your son, you should boost him in new advance things which is related to activity and related to study, if he wish to do any activity take admission to him.
2017-06-16
#7
Name: varsha Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
first you are sure that your son used to heard friend thing, and behave in same way, first you should check this then you can try to find out solution on that, so you should check once.
2017-06-16
#8
Name: kaushlya Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get angry on him, and dont start give lecture to him, give him some time, and then see some changes in him, if changes occur in his nature, then you are on right track.
2017-06-16
#9
Name: neha Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should make yourself strong and there is no need to make issue of this things, its small period of peer from friend after certain time period he also know what he was done.
2017-06-16
#10
Name: archita Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
just handle this problem very patiencely and calmly , you should try to give him comfortable space at home only, and spend good and free time with him, make him talkative.
2017-06-16
#11
Name: dhruti Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure on him, or cant scold on him, because its useless things this time, better you try to keep more and more connectivity with him.
2017-06-16
#12
Name: aanadi Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action on that, now what is his age, you didnt mention here, but dont put pressure on him, take it in very nice way.
2017-02-28
#13
Name: roshan Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
try to be friendly with your kids, and dont make any unnecessary argument with him, try to give him comfort at home when he is present at home, and try to spend more and more time with your son.
2017-02-28
#14
Name: neela Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
this post you had posted long time back, so now how is the situation, is your son is best friend of your, or till now situation is same or what, if yes then you should try to solve this soon.
2017-02-28
#15
Name: varun Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
i read your post and really feel so scared because my daughter not listen me from last month, she want to go out with her friend only, and whatever they done she also ready to do that.
2017-02-28
#16
Name: ujwal Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont react over on this issue, and dont get panic also, you know its a peer pressure of his friend, there is not a situation like you dont know anything, so just keep patience on your thinking.
2017-02-28
#17
Name: pooja Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get panic in this situation, your situation under control till now, so dont get panic, its all of your control and you try to solve your problem but think on that go steady.
2017-02-28
#18
Name: rupal Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
if your know your son under peer pressure of his friends then why dont you go and meet the parents of his friends, and tell them everything about them kids,
2017-02-28
#19
Name: ganesh Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
as a parents, you have right to get angry on kid and also get shouted on kid, but its with perfect and right reason, but its not compulsory to do on kid misbehave or mistake.
2017-02-28
#20
Name: ramesh Subject: RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get angry or dont get shouted on your kid, if they was done some mistake, you try to understand his point of view, try to look at that situation with his views, you will get answer.
hello karuna,
its not normal thing, you should take some serious action on that, now what is his age, you didnt mention here, but dont put pressure on him, take it in very nice way.... - aanadi [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
if your son is enough matuared then you cant put pressure on him, or cant scold on him, because its useless things this time, better you try to keep more and more connectivity with him.... - dhruti [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
just handle this problem very patiencely and calmly , you should try to give him comfortable space at home only, and spend good and free time with him, make him talkative.... - archita [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
you should make yourself strong and there is no need to make issue of this things, its small period of peer from friend after certain time period he also know what he was done.... - neha [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont get angry on him, and dont start give lecture to him, give him some time, and then see some changes in him, if changes occur in his nature, then you are on right track.... - kaushlya [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
first you are sure that your son used to heard friend thing, and behave in same way, first you should check this then you can try to find out solution on that, so you should check once.... - varsha [View Message]
RE:stand up against peer pressure
hello karuna,
dont put any extra pressure on your son, you should boost him in new advance things which is related to activity and related to study, if he wish to do any activity take admission to him.... - aanchal [View Message]