As a woman, you could be attacked at any time. Learn how to remain safe, by fighting back if the need arises.
Every day, newspapers and television news
are full of reports about crimes committed against women. A perpetrator
generally targets a woman because she is perceived as being physically
weak. While this perception has some truth to it, a woman can still
fight back to free herself from the clutches of an attacker. With a few
well-placed blows, she has a greater chance of escaping her attacker.
Here are some tips to follow in a dangerous situation.
Use your body as a weapon
You will usually not know when you are going to be attacked. The most important rule to remember is to 'never panic'.
When you panic, you are giving your attacker more opportunities to hurt
you. If you stay calm, you can strategically target your attacker's
vulnerabilities. Even if you are unarmed, you can use parts of your body to hurt your attacker.
Hands: Movies show that the best way to cause harm
is through a punch. In reality, a punch is not very effective. If you
punch your assailant, you are less likely to cause pain. In fact, a
badly aimed punch can actually damage the delicate bones of your hand.
If you are assaulted from behind,
try to use your hands to grab or pull at the soft areas of your
attacker's body like the throat or inner portions of the thighs. You
could even use your hands to scratch or tear off delicate flesh,
especially around the face region. Use your fingers to poke your
attacker's eyes. This is an excellent way of causing damage.
Elbows: The elbow is a powerful weapon because of its bony
nature. You can use your elbow to great effect especially in situations
where you are grabbed from behind. Your attacker will usually grab you from behind
around your waist. In such a scenario, hold your arms out, twist your
upper body, and then use the gathered momentum to bring back your arm
so that your elbow makes contact with your attacker. Aim to connect
with a delicate portion of your assailant's anatomy. This attack works
best if you manage to hit areas like the throat, ribs, groin, etc.
Knees: Your knee is a valuable weapon when you are attacked.
The knee is considered to be one of the strongest parts of the human
body as it is made up of bone. The best way to cause pain is to bring
your knee up, in the forward direction, and plant a hard blow in
between your assailant's legs. Not only will this hurt your attacker,
but you will also have some precious time in which you can escape and
seek help.
Feet: Even if you have small feet, you can still turn them into weapons if you are attacked.
Use your heel to smash down hard onto the instep of your assailant's
foot. You can even use this technique to target your assailant's ankles
or calves in the event that you are lifted up off the ground. If you
happen to be wearing stilettos or heeled shoes, you will definitely be
able to cause your assailant great pain.
Head: The human skull is extremely hard and when used properly, can be a very powerful weapon. You can use your skull if you are attacked from the front or from behind.
Move your head in the opposite direction of your attacker and then
bring it back as fast as possible to make contact. Aim to connect with
your attacker's nose if possible. This could actually shatter the
delicate cartilage in your assailant's nose. This way you can make your
escape while your attacker is left gasping for breath.
Teeth: Your teeth are capable of biting with great force.
You can also bite any part of your assailant's body and cause intense
pain. This makes your teeth one of the deadliest weapons when it comes
to your body.
However, you may also harm yourself if you bite your attacker. Remember
that you have no way of knowing if your assailant is suffering from any
disease. There are a number of diseases that spread through blood, such
as AIDS and Hepatitis B. Bite your assailant only if you have exhausted
all other options available to you and still have not managed to free
yourself.
There is no reason why you should play the part of a helpless victim if you are attacked. Being able to defend yourself could sometimes mean the difference between life and death.
Have you ever been assaulted? How would you try to free yourself in case you are attacked?
Nalini
I like this article. I think self-defense should be taught in all schools. Nowadays, even children are attacked. So they should learn how to defend themselves. At least this way we know our children w...
Preeti
My mother has had this experience. She was walking to her friend' s house and suddenly someone attacked her. Luckily she was able to escape and run away but her attacker stole her mangalsutra....
Vishwas
Its not only about self-defense. It is also about punishing the people who do these things. What is the point of only taking care of yourself? One day you may not be as lucky....