At 40, people reach their prime in all most every aspect of
their lives. They climb the career ladder and even in relationships, they tend
to settle down. This is true for both men and women. As they tend to settle
down in happy family life, women realise the need and desire of children if
they have not given birth to a child yet.
After achieving money, authority and job satisfaction, they
are not willing to let go of the other most satisfying feeling, the feeling of
becoming a mother. Some years back, people used to frown with the idea that getting
pregnant in the 40’s is next to impossible. But with the advancement in
medical technology, getting pregnant in your fourth decade is not an
unthinkable task.
Today there are a number of diagnostic options and
technological modalities, that can be effectively combined together to make
your desire of giving birth to a baby come true. They allow you to shun the
biological clock as one can make the optimum use of the modern science that can
guarantee successful conception and fertilisation. What is required is a fair
amount of determination and patience. Here are a few steps in this regard:
Discontinue all Birth
Control Methods
Women who desire to get pregnant in their 40’s are usually
believed to be practitioners of the common birth
control methods. You need to discontinue each of them like condoms, oral
contraceptive pills, spermicides and IUDs. This is the first step towards
possible conception. And you also need to realise that your menstrual cycle will
not return to normal immediately after you stop your birth control. So exercise
patience and relax.
Focus on a Healthy
Lifestyle
Fertility is directly related to the health of a person. So
concentrate on maintaining a healthy weight and develop a habit of regular
exercising. This will help to clear the body of the undesirable toxins and free
radicals that are known to create considerable impediment in your fertility
status.
You further need to ensure that both you and your partner
take sufficient amount of nutritious food, which are readily available from
vegetables, fruits and garden products. Make sure that they are high in
anti-oxidants. Sea-food should be avoided as they are liable to be contaminated
with mercury – a toxic element. Abstain from smoking,
alcohol and caffeine.
Go for Regular
Checkups
Make sure that you visit your healthcare provider
frequently. You need to be well aware of your health and discuss every single
development with your doctor. This is important so that she or he can guide you
through the procedure. An expert advice can always prove to be beneficial when
you are trying to get pregnant in your 40’s.
It is also vital to understand that when a woman wants to
get pregnant in her 40’s there is a potential risk of miscarriage, still birth
or the baby might be born with a few congenital defects. So it is necessary
that you duly consult your doctor and obtain advice on how to prevent them and
deal with them. Often it is found that with a bit of care and medication, it is
possible to deal with these potential problems quite effectively.
A few regular tests can ensure that your reproductive system
is functioning properly or undertake medication to normalise it. A series of
fertility drugs are usually prescribed by the doctor to women who are trying to
get pregnant
in their 40’s, and this ensures that their ovulation is normal. And there
is nothing to lose heart if you find a few tests yielding negative results. You
can always resort to in vitro fertilisation if the situation demands.