The Bed-Wetting Problem

Name: shah s
Country: India
my child is two years & sixmths. he will start nursery soon.he is still not toilet or potty trained. i have tried all sorts of coaxing & cajoling. it does not help.

Name: aa
Country: India
try to make them understand where to go for toilet and potty

Name: lata
Country: India
good article, particularly, no mistakes in spelling! except almost at the end, it should be their, not there. thanks.

Name: Sona D.
Country: India
my daughter does not like to go to the toilet todo the big job.she is 5yrs. old she will hold on to her stools for 2or 3 days & then do it quietly do it under the table or in a corner.sometimes it is painfull as the stools are very hard ,but she bears it.we have shown her to the pedeatrician but there is no respite

Name: gillian
Country: England
my son is 3 years old and wets the bed he was dry for 1 yearand now he not

Name: Aiza
Country: USA
my daughter is 13 1/2 yrs old but she still bedwetting, as she can not get up to go to the bathroom, especially when it rains.

Name: mom 0f 5
Country: USA
my son is 9 and is wet every night unless i get him up. my 21 yr old daughter wet until into college. i don't want to see this happen to my son. we have tried the buzzard that attaches to the underware, but it is more of a hassel than anything else. any other suggestions?

Name: Lalita Chugh
Country: India
this article is very good. my son is also 3 and half years. he also wets his bed. i have tried to wake him up in the midnight. when i want to take him to the toilet, he says, no. please suggest any solution.

Name: Tara
Country: USA
i have a 6 year old son who had a few dry nights when he was wearing pull-ups. i took him off about 2 months ago per my husbands orders, but now he's wet every night. i make him urinate before bedtime, but he still wakes up wet. please help!!!!

Name: Mom Of Three
Country: USA
my oldest which is 8 has never had a promblem 'but my 6year old wets about 1 time a week. i hope my 3 yeart old dont. i think it is a phase some children go through . mare if they are a middle child.i believe they will grow out of it; it is part of being a kid.

Name: Rekha
Country: India
can anyone suggest how i can prevent my 8 year old son from wetting the bed without scolding him or making him feel ashamed and harming him psychologically?

Name: eena
Country: India
you haven,t discussed about kids living in joint families i have that problem.where no amt. of reassurance helps.sibling rivalry is a precipitatory factor but one cannot avoid it.my son is 12 we never put him to shame,onlytime will help.

Name: Ambica
Country: India
this article is superb.but there is one drawback.there are no suggestions as to how to deal with this problem.i would really appreciate if there is some guidelines as to how the parents should deal with this situation.

Name: Arti Tandan
Country: India
my daughter is 2 years old she is still bed wetting at night can you tell how long will it continue, she also has a habbit of thumb sucking i do not how to get rid of that problem also. please help

Name: deepti
Country: India
it is sad that the child is teased and screamed at when she herself is feeling miserable..i did that till iwas 14yrs but as soon as i got my periods i got rid of my peeing in bed. same goes with my nephew he used to wet his bed till he was 15 but then it stopped. i used to feel so miserable that it was a shame ful thing i used to hide it from everyone. i specialised in picking up my beddings and dry them in sun i was lucky i was in rajasthan,we need to tell our kids that it is ok that they wet the beds but very soon it will be over.i think i used to wet the be djust because i was tense not to wet the bed every night.be a patient mom my 4 1/2 yrs old daughter wets the bed but i try and be as cool as possible with her. i don't want her to feel bad at all.i remember it very clearly what it was to wet the beds.i never lived happily

Name: mala
Country: India
my sister is overweight and she has the bed wetting problem she says that she first dreams that she wants to urinate she does not find a place and finally she finds a place and thinks that she is urinating in the toilet but for on the bed and she also says that during the sleep she thinks wheather it is on the bed or in the toilet, she realises that it is on the bed only after she feels wet. please give me a solution for this

Name: swati
Country: India
my daughter is 3yrs old and when ever she wants to go for potty she hides behind the curtain or table and it seems she's shy.how can i overcome this shyness of her's.

Name: Lucy ann
Country: India
my child is a nine year old boy and he wets his bed every night and i have used the buzzered that attaches to underware and is taking medication to stop it and the buzzered only help for about four months and then he starting bed wetting again. he is a very hard person to wake up to go to the bathroom. he will not wake up at all. he is fustrated and so am i. please help!!!!!

Name: vishakha
Country: India
my son is 6 years old. due to my health problems ( disturbed sleep spoils my day) he was on diappers till last 6 months. now i have to wake him up and take to toilet, otherwise he wets the bed and feels bad though we console him please advise

Name: Nan
Country: USA
my niece is seven years old and stil wets the bed every night. her mom puts large diapers on her every night and does not seem to care about the problem. will she out grow this?

Name: THK
Country: Australia
i am a 29 years old who have been refused to join the defence force because i wet my bed up until the age of 15. i have not wetted my bed for 14 years but i can not change the pass. i did ask my mum when i was less than 10 years old about my bed wetting but she said i am just a lazy boy nothing wrong my phychology so, the problem never been look at. any parents out there please take the phychology affect of your child seriously because the circumstances will stay around for the rest of your child life.

Name: PDM
Country: Other
my 7 year old son is still wetting bed if i do not wake him every night to go to the toilet. doctors have said he will grow it out, but it does not seem to be happening. our home is a two-parent home, happy at that. he has a 5 year old brother and there is sibling rivalry a bit, but as a mother i show equal love to ensure one does not feel more loved.

Name: HOUSEWIFE
Country: Other
my son is already 4years old &still wets his bed, both during afternoon & night time.please suggest how to stop him.

Name: Bernadine
Country: USA
my younger sister had a problem with bed wetting at age 5 that was for her easy to fix. the doctor told my parents nothing to drink after 6 pm and wake her up around 11 or 12 and physically take her to the toilet. it was not until she was 10 years old that the reason for the bedwetting came out. she was being sexually abused by the our care givers boyfriend. fortunantely it was only outside toucing and her virginity is still intact.

Name: mel
Country: Other
i have twinn girls ho are 12 and they still wet bed what ever you do dont shut at them fo it it could gp away on its own my daughter have been givem desmopressin tabletts for it also a alarm to wake them tha didnt work but tablet do sometimes hopeing they will stop shortly i have some dry nights make surethey are relxed bforegoing to bed chat to them make sure they are happy before slee this does help them love mel

Name: cut-chemist@online.ie
Country: Other
well i live in ireland, i am a 21 years old male, that is working full time in a retail shop like alot of other people and i have wet my bed all my life. now i have tried everything to get rid of this cause really when you reach 13 and are still wettin the bed you have no life with your friends cause you cant stay in anyones house or anything. it is a horrible thing to have but there are so so many people out there that have it and no one ever talks about it cause really, my parents helped me as much as they could but nothing helped, i am doing a relaxsation thing for the past 6 months, it is workin the odd time which is better than never working. but please to all the parents that have kids under the age of 12 please!!!! stop saying help my son/daughter is 2 years old and still wets the bed, more than likly your child will stop by 15 the latest! but do go to the doctor and ask as many questions as you can with your son or daughter. and please if anyone would like to ask me any questions about this i will be more than happy to help cause i know what it is like to wake up in the morning with this problem. thank you for reading. gerry.

Name: Emilia
Country: USA
i have a daughter who is 13 years old. she began wetting her bed at age 5 and was on and off ok. however, for the last 2 years or so she is wetting her bed often and medicine will not help. i am searching for ways to help her as she is not sleeping well and i feel that it is to think of wetting her bed again. she wears pull-ups at night and i do not put her down for this problem. i need to find a way to help her and that is why i am writing and studying much more about bed wetting desorders. any input will be greatly appreciated.

Name: Ashok
Country: India
bedwetting control is like learning driving.it takes time to be the 'master of the bladder. for any art to be learned one needs support.bedwetting alarm helps.can anybody tell about the avaiability of the alarm in india.

Name: anonymous
Country: Canada
my 14 year old wets the bed still. she's still wearing pull-ups to bed. what should i do?

Name: other
Country: Other
i need a cure for me that dosent need money

Name: dddd
Country: India
my daughter is 7 years old and she is still bedwetting. if i wake up her in mid-night she does not wet her bed otherwise she is gloomy in the morning. she herself tries not not drink lot of water since evening and is alert herself about bed wetting. she gets very happy when she has not wetted her bed and proudly tells me but othersiwise she is sad. however, we have never been annoyed with her for this act but she herself wants to stop it. our younger child has stopped doing bed-wetting since 2and half years. but he does it sometimes. how can we help our daughter to stop bed-wetting, please help me.

Name: divya
Country: India
my daughter who is 3 years old had stopped bed wetting after taking homeopathic medicines.

Name: verna
Country: USA
i have a 9 year old and 7 year old twin daughters and they all are still peeing in the bed the odd thing about it is my 6yr old doesn't. i am in tears must of the time because i'm constently washing and buying pull-ups. someone please help!

Name: Tracy
Country: England
i am so relieved that i am not the only one with a bedwetter. nobody i personally know has this problem with their child so to find this website is such an enlightening feeling. my son is 6 and has a nappy every night and in the morning it weighs a ton. i think i shall leave it to nature to sort out in its own good time. thankyou all.

Name: GENI
Country: USA
i have two children. ages 6&8. they both still wet the bed i believe it is hereditary. i have a brother who did it and i believe my dad did too.

Name: ashish
Country: India
nite watch is the name of bedwetting alarm that is availabe at delhi.do use it.

Name: arya
Country: India
i used nite-watch alarm. i am very happy to recommend to others.try and dont be a sufferer!

Name: depressed!
Country: Other
im almost 16 years old and still wet the bed.i dont like being teased which is very often.even my mom scolds me.its so embarrasing!can any one help?

Name: colleen
Country: Other
i wet the bed all the time and sometimes when im staying at my friends i have an axcident its really embarrising i dont tell them what am i ment to say.

Name: jakey
Country: England
my son is 11 and still wets thje bed i personally think it is an emotional problem i suffer from depression and unknowingly always seem to be cross all the time when i answer a question or speak to my son

Name: very frustarted
Country: USA
my son is 8 years old and smart as hell and he wets the bed like 4 nites out of 7, and its like i can just pick what nites he is gonna do it. i also have a 4 year old son that stpped wetting the bed when he was just about potty trained and that was when he was lik 2 almost 3. i have my 8 year old on ddavp and i am thinking they need to up the dose cause he takes 3 pills a nite and still manages to wet . i also think i need a second opinion he might have a problem that is more than the bed wetting . i mean it really breaks my heart to have such a genius son that can not control his bladder. the other day he wet himself trying to get in the house from school because he waits til the very last minute and he cant hold it anymore. i need help!!!!!!!

Name: Other
Country: Other
i'm 12 and still wet the bed.... i have no friends and i wet the bed 5 times a week... i wear dry nights and they help a little but i sometimes leak through... on camp with my school i wet my bed once and got teased alot.. can anyone help me.

Name: frustrated
Country: Other
i am 14 years old and i wet my bed sometimes, it is very embarrasing and my mom makes a big deal out of it. i need to stop

Name: Eisle
Country: USA
i am 18 years old and i still wet the bed and i will be moving out soon and i will have a room mate and i have made it my whole live with out anyone finding out but i cant take it anymore i really want to find a cure i cannot get married and still be wetting the bed its rediculous

Name: confused
Country: USA
i'm 14 years old and i still wet the bed every night. sometimes i just want to disappear,or just go to bed without having to put on diapers.i'm afraid if my friends found out i wouldn't have any. also my mom is so great about i don't know what i would if i didn't have her support. but she can never fill the void.and i'm so glad to know i'm not alone.

Name: kyle ?
Country: USA
my child is 14yrs has wet his pants since 4yrs. what do we do?

Name: timothy
Country: Other
hi im 13 years old and in jr.high.i was dressing down for p.e class and every body saw that i was wearing a pull-up. they all laughed and i was scared and i didnt notic it but i was peeing my pants and allmy closed were soaked .is there any diaper that wont leak easily . i wear luvs over depends at night it works but not durring the day is there any thing that will

Name: Seema
Country: Canada
remember to be kind, patient, and loving when toilet training your little one. keep in mind that ever since they were born, diapers are the only thing they have ever known. while some children are toilet trained by 2 years of age, there are others still in diapers full time at 4 years of age. every child is different and each will progress at his or her own speed.

Name: Seema
Country: Canada
if you do have an older baby or younger child suffering from bed-wetting, ask the child if he or she minds wearing diapers. you would be surprised at how many newly potty trained youngsters will openly accept wearing a diaper to bed. another hint is to not make a big deal over putting the diapers on. whenever i babysat my nephews or neices i would have all their diapering needs right beside their baby cribs ready to go. when it was time for bed i would simply undress them, pin on their diapers and pull on a pair of rubber pants over top of their diapers. if you keep things fuss free and don't make a big deal over it, children are usually ok with it and it saves a lot of wet, soiled bedding.

Name: Veneeda
Country: Canada
as a mother i have found that making a deal with my pants wetting children really works. just recently i finished toilet training my toddler and for the first little while afterwards he would always have accidents both during the day and night. after over 2 months of putting up with wet pants, crib sheets, and outer clothing, i began making him a deal. i told him that whenever he peed his bed at night-time he would have to wear diapers the next night. same as throughout the day. after only a hand full of embarrassing episodes of being put into bulky diapers along with rubber pants, he quickly began making an effort to keep his pants clean and dry.

Name: Chelsea
Country: Canada
for grandma, your 10 year old grandson may respond to a bedwetting alarm. a sensor is fastened to his underpants and an alarm goes off as soon as he starts to wet. i hope that he is wearing something to bed now to help keep him comfortable when he does wet.

Name: GRANDMA
Country: USA
i just need to know what to do to help my grandson to stop wetting the bed he is 10he doesnt all the time but he does some

Name: Chelsea
Country: Canada
we have 2 bedwetters a girl 9 and a boy 7. i use the old fashioned flanelette diapers with rubber pants over them. they are heavy wetters so a triple diaper is necessary under the rubber pants. they both wake up soaked every morning but thanks to the diapers and rubber pants the beds are dry.

Name: Seema
Country: Canada
although i may sound a litle old-fashioned when i say this, it really is so true that cloth diapers make a baby or child feel more uncomfortable than thin disposable diapers do, which is the reason why so many mothers switch over to pin on diapers and rubber pants once they begin to toilet train their toddlers. if you are finding that your child is still waking each morning with soggy disposable diapers, i suggest trying old-fashioned flannelette flat fold cloth diapers with diaper pins and baby rubber pants. chances are good that your child won't at all like the bulky feeling of cotton diapers nor the babyish rustling sound of rubber pants and will make more of an effort to stay dry through the night. i know it worked for all of my baby nephews and neices.

Name: Seema
Country: Canada
to tracy from england. congratulations! it's nice to see that there are mothers out there who don't get excited over the "potty training" issue. as my mom has always told me, they won't go to school wearing baby's diapers. just for the record i have two neighbours who still have older children wearing diapers at night, and both mothers admit that their children wake up drenched each and every morning.

Name: Talya
Country: Canada
i have been a register nurse for over 18 years, and a mid-wife for almost 12 years now and have seen many an older bedwetting child past the stage of diapers. so many mothers i talk to today tend to make such a big issue about the fact that their 3 or 4 year old child still wears diapers or wets the bed. bedwetting is extremely common in many children past babyhood and the continued use of diapers either disposable or cloth during the night is more common in households than many of us could ever imagine. i have personally dealt with children particularly throughout my days as a neighbourhood babysitter who had to be changed into diapers before bedtime to help prevent overflowing pyjama bottoms and drenched crib or bed sheets. so for all those mothers who constantly and continually fret over a bedwetting child, stop. it's perfectly natural and in most cases will totally end within a year or two after the child becomes toilet trained. in the mean time a night-time diapering routine may be needed. for those mothers who have raised their children in cloth diapers, i suggest sticking with your cloth diapers. if you used diaper pins and rubber pants, continue with diaper pins and rubber pants. if you used disposable diapers continue with those. diapering should be done right before bedtime and in a non humiliating way. explain to the child being diapered that the diapers are just a safety measure to keep him or her comfortable and dry till morning, not to treat them like a baby.

Name: For Talya
Country: Canada
i thank you for your contribution about using cloth diapers and rubber pants for bed wetters. we have a girl 9 and a boy 7. both wet their bed nightly and so they wear cloth diapers with diaper pins and rubber pants on to keep their beds dry. i frequently talk with them as i diaper them just before they go to bed in private. i have them go to the bathroom befor i put their diapers on. i have told them that the diapers are for protection and not because they are baby's. when their diapers and rubber pants are on they put on their pj's and go to bed. you mentioned having dealt with older bedwetters and diapering them. were there any as old as mine? chelsea

Name: To Chelsea
Country: Canada
absolutely chelsea. i was in my second year as a nursing student and had answered an add for evening babysitting. the mother who i started babysitting for had two older children aged 4 years and 7 years as well as a 20 month old baby who at the time was in cloth diapers and rubber pants. the two older children, bedwetters as well, wore cloth diapers and rubber pants with diaper pins to bed at night-time. sometimes the mother already had them changed by the time i arrived, and other times i had to change them. it's important to keep in mind that a majority of mothers raising young children and babies continue the use of diapers at night-time long after daytime dryness has been achieved. although this is something that has only been socially acceptable for the past 20 years or so. before this time mothers contending with an older bedwetting child wouldn't have remotely considered or even dreamed of putting a fully toilet trained child back into babies diapers again for fear of backlash and criticism from other mothers. however this does not go to say that there wasn't more than a mother or two pinning up their toddlers behind closed doors in bulky diapers and rubber pants throughout this time. i remember one particular neighbourhood mother who would always wait till late at night before hanging up her daily load of freshly laundered diapers and rubber pants in hopes of hiding the fact that her 4 year old son was still wearing diapers. today however it's nice to know that society is more accepting of this and as a direct result, less emphasis is being placed on toilet training children by the age of 18 months as it was throughout the 1960's. question: did you use cloth diapers and rubber pants with pins on your children when they were babies? talya

Name: For Talya
Country: Canada
this will be quick as we have had an emergency within out extended family and i will be busy for a bit. dealt with gather rash and regular old fashioned diaper rashes, washed clean each change, let them run without rubber pants on whenever possible and used corn starch on the diaper area. chelsea

Name: For Chelsea.
Country: Canada
being the old-fashioned type mother that i am and adding to the fact of being a nurse and midwife meant choosing only cotton cloth diapers and rubber pants full-time. even during camping trips i religiously used diapers and rubber pants. i remember how i would fashion a makeshift clothesline from our trailer out to one of the trees nearby so that i was able to hang up wet rubber pants, baby bibs, and beach towels. during these camping trips i usually kept the kids in plain pinned cloth diapers without rubber pants, usually reserving the use of rubber pants strictly for naptime and overnight. this worked wonders in keeping down the occurances of tidemark diaper rash. as for helping out mothers with toilet training the answer is not too much. i do receive occasional telephone calls from mothers concerned over the fact that their baby has a diaper rash, but usually i never get to the point of actually making a house call to deal with it. the only time i do deal with diaper rash and toilet training outside of being a nurse is during my post natal visits to those mothers who have recently given birth. quite often those mothers with more than one baby wearing diapers does use cloth diapers and it is at these homes where i change diapers regularly. to answer your question regarding babysitting and bedwetting my answer is yes. i don't actually remember ever babysitting for so much as a single mother who did not night-time diaper her daytime toilet trained children. i think this is the household standard right accross the entire board. even in our house we continued diapering our children for several months during the night in order to stathe off wetting accidents. in the morning rubber pants were simply removed and diapers un-pinned, and the earlier replaced with the latter being thermal knit soaker pants sometimes with rubber pants over top. question: did your children ever get tidemark diaper rash or elastic gather rash? if so, what did you do to cure it up or prevent it? talya

Name: stella
Country: USA
my daughter is 4 yrs now already potty trained but she still wets her bed at night and during day naps. is this gonna stop soon?

Name: For Talya
Country: Canada
sorry i did not get to answer you at any length but have been quite busy for a few days. as far as rashes were concerned we left the diapers and rubber pants off when possible or used only a diaper. i preferred to let them run around bare bottom and let the air circulate throughout the diaper area. this seemed to clear up rashes quickly. as for the 2 bedwetters you mentioned, ages 4 & 7, you mentioned their mother sometimes had them in their diapers and rubber pants when you got there. was it normal the these children were put into diapers and rubber pants awhile before bedtime?

Name: Cathy
Country: USA
i am 18 and i have babysitted a kid who was 10 and still wore diapers at night. he wore pampers and he needed to be changed into them. he woke up wet and with a little mess in his diaper. dont worry if your kid wets at night, a lot of parents have it worse.

Name: Navya
Country: England
i use traditional terry towel nappies and waterproof pants in our home all the time, and also have a 4 year old wearing then during the night. i think when all the mothers quit worrying about what other people think and just do what you feel is best, our children will grow up to be more adjusted.

Name: To Chelsea
Country: Canada
regarding your question about diapering, it all really depended on how the children were behaving, what time i arrived to babysit, and what time i changed the baby for the last time during the night. on evenings when i had to babysit early, say around 5:30 p.m. or so, change time usually took place for the most part no later than 7:00 p.m., which was usually about the same time i changed the baby for the last time during the night. however on busy nights when the mother had me washing laundry or cleaning up the house, i would normally change the two older children around 6:30 p.m. this allowed me time to get the household chores done without having to worry about watching the clock. however it really boils down to personal preference as i have babysat for other mothers who promptly diapered their children right after the supper dishes were done. sometimes this meant by 5:00 p.m. with my own children i was quite content if they were diapered by 7:30 or even 8:00 o'clock p.m. talya.

Name: Chelsea
Country: Canada
yes it is i agree that there is no need for it.

Name: meow
Country: USA
can someone help me stop peeing the bed?!!!!

Name: For Talya
Country: Canada
i gather that we think a lot alike on the use of cloth diapers and rubber pants issue for bedwetting as well as for regular use. as uou wrote i to knew of many mothers who would pin their kids into bulky diapers and put the rubber pants on over them. was the mother you sat for able to use the regular toddler rubber pants or did she have to mail order larger ones? i have to mail order for my 2. it is nice to see a website that has other mothers who have bed wetters and use cloth diapers and rubber pants and know what they are talking about. thanks to all chelsea

Name: bobby
Country: USA
when growing up i suffered from secondary enuresis. this started after my parents divorce.i was about 6. it was most embarrasing and added to my moms already stressed life.i was soon taken to a doctor and put through a most embarrasing examine. he suggested diapers for a while and soon i found myself being diapered every night by mom. i fought and cryed many nights but soon realized that the diapers and plastic panties really beat a wet bed. soon things were much calmer in the home. mom and i started to get along much better and i realized that diapers would be ok till my bedwetting stopped. well it stopped, but 3 years later, except for a few very embarrasing events, i think this was the best way to handle the situation. i had a girl cousin my age that wet also, she was not diapered and she was very restricted in activities and the home was always in termoil over her wetting, never mind the smell in her room. it would be helpful if other previous bedwetters were able to share experiences to help us all learn. by the way my son wet his bed, we just kept him in diapers and made no fuss about it until he stopped at age 7.

Name: GeeBee
Country: USA
when i was a little kid, 3-4 years old, i was a serious bedwetter. my mother took me to a doctor and he told her to have me sleep on the other side that i was sleeping on. that is, if i was sleeping on my back i should try sleeping on my stomach or vice versa. it worked right away. i'm 77 now and i can remember that very clearly because i never had to use a rubber sheet again. just sleep on the side that you don't usually sleep on. it worked!

Name: shah
Country: USA
my child is two years & sixmths. he will start nursery soon. he is still not toilet or potty trained. i have tried all sorts of coaxing & cajoling. it does not help.

Name: helpless
Country: India
where do you get bedwetting alarm in india

Name: For Talya
Country: Canada
talya just to let you know. one of my bedwetters has become dry. 6 weeks without wetting and 4 weeks without the diapers and rubber pants to bed. i thank you for your help in the matter. chelsea

Name: Christa
Country: USA
i was a mothers helper when growing up and in high school. the woman i helped had 7 children and 5 of them wet the bed their ages when i started sitting were 4 - 11. when the mother interviewed me she informed me that she had bedwetting children and that pinned on diapers and rubber pants were worn by all who wet at night. after talking for a bit she offered me the job for the summer if i wanted it. i agreed and she started explaining to me about the kids and what would be expected of me. after she had covered just about everything she took me to the laundry and as we walked in there on a clothesline hung about a dozen pairs of rubber pants. she told me that the diapers were wshed and dried in the dryer but that she hung the rubber pants up to dry so they would last longer. i noticed that the rubber pants were of different sizes, larger sizes for the older kids and regular toddler size rubber pants for the younger kids. she explained to me that each child had about 6 pair of rubber pants and she had to order the ones for the older kids through the mail. she explained that after supper and dishes were cleaned up she began the diapering, the younger ones wore double diapers and the older ones wore triple diapers. she showed me how to fold the diapers for each of the kids so that they would have a good absorbant surface under the rubber pants. over the weeks i would myself have to diaper the kids for bed so i would start by getting 2 stacks of diapers and putting one stack in the girls bedroom and one stack in the boys bedroom. i would then fold the diapers together and put them along with a pair of rubber pants at the foot of each bed so that when it came time to get that child ready for bed it was simply a matter pinning the diapers and pulling on the rubber pants before the child got into bed. in the morning i would remove the kids wet diapers and rubber pants,do the wash and get things ready for the next night. when i graduated from high school and left to go to nursing training there wer still 2 of the kids that were regular bedwetters. so the use of diapers and rubber pants for bedwetting is still very much a part of things today.

Name: subb
Country: Zambia
my son wets the bed relly baddly he is 12 and wairs relly thick dipers what to do

Name: layla
Country: England
its a simple fact that children and some adults wet the bed. my 8 yr old is still nappied on an in case basis as she wets a couple of times a week. we use terry nappies and plastic pants. when she is very constipated and has tried unsucessfully on the toilet she wears plastic pants so she doesnt soil her knickers. she is also allowed to do her poo in her nappy.

Name: Christa
Country: USA
hello jeannine and laylai understand that it is not unusual to have a bedwetter and to have the child wear protection to bed as is layla's case. i remember at the time thati was suprised i guess you could call it at the fact that this woman had 5 bedwetters and the fact that she put diapers and rubber pants on the older ones as well at bedtime. i did not have a problem with it as every morning all 5 woke up with wet diapers, so i feel she did what she could do. jeannine the woman you sat for seemed to know how to use what space she had and quite well. and yes i also sat for mom's who use disposables and some who used cloth.

Name: layla
Country: England
hi jeannine, thanks for your message, i dont believe in letting her poo in her nappy(or pants) as a substitute for using the toilet but as she wears a nappy and plastic panties each night for bedwetting sometimes it is the most practical solution when she cannot do her poo on the toilet. when she is very constipated she seems to find it easier in her nappy,usually she is only poo her nappy or dirty her panties if it is 2 or 3 days since she had a poo ( her bedwetting is worse as well when this happens).when she is at this stage she oftens soils during the day so wears plastic panties with her normal knickers over them - they are so much easier to clean than cotton ones and the mess doesn't get on her clothes. she was not a difficult child to toilet train- she is quite happy to sit on the toilet and strain untill she produces poo and does this every evening before getting her nappy on. i know of a couple of other mums who follow this routien.for the past 4 days she hasn't managed to poo, but today she was wearing plastic panties under her jeans and when she sat on the toilet this evening i noticed she had made quite a mess and managed to do some in the toilet - the remainder will probably be done in her nappy.so i am expecting a birty bum to change in the morning.

Name: layla
Country: India
hi christa, what protection does your friend use on her daughter at the moment. i usuually help mine put her protection on - its easier and does help to prevent leaks which dont happen very often. i bought some youth sise nappies and plastic panties there are many suppliers of these on the internet. sometimes her protection is put on in her bedroom just befor getting into bed others straight after her visit to the toilet

Name: Greg
Country: USA
hey i am 13 and i wet the bed and it is so humiliating my friends would make fun of me but i dont tell them i cant stop i hate it

Name: Jeannine
Country: USA
hi once again christa and layla. i'm not all surprised for after i got married we were living in a quiet little neighbourhood and i remember a couple of times a week that our neighbour (during the warm months of the year), would bring a round laundry basket full of diapers and rubber pants outside early in the morning and pin them up on her outdoor washline while the whole time holding a long filter tipped cigarette in her mouth. i remember seeing her two older toddlers maybe around the age of 2-1/2 and 3-1/2 years of age wearing only puffy white rubber pants displaying the tell-tale outline of thickly padded diapers underneath. most babies do have to wear diapers for a time after daytime training has been completed and chances are good, if the mother is strict, old-fashioned, or just a "no fuss" kind of caregiver, everyone under the age of 4 years will be diapered for bed. i have come across it a lot over the years.

Name: Christa
Country: USA
layla,my neighbor has a 7 soon to be 8 year old daughter who wets the bed and she is interested in using protection like what you use. she wants to know if you help your daughter get ready for bed, how long before bed are the nappies and plastic pants put on and have there been any problems with leaking? also do you need to get a youth nappy or can you use a baby nappy?thanks so much. christa

Name: ....to layla
Country: USA
how old is your daughter?

Name: layla
Country: England
hi christa,my daughter doesn't mind wearing plastic panties in bed

Name: Christa
Country: USA
hi layla and jeannine,i agree with diapers on 4 year olds and younger at bedtime, i to have seen it many times over the years. the mom's were strict and they used diapers to help with the odd accidents. the summers i worked for this mom i remember many times seeing the kids in the evenings with the padded and rubber pants on. layla, does your daughter mind the plastic panties for bed?

Name: mick
Country: England
hi i was a bed wetter till i was 17 im now 34 no problems i had an xray on my back for back pain and was told i had signsof previous scheuermanns diesease i had now back problem or any other health problems as a child but its a disorder in the spine and iv now found outr on the net that it can cause wetting problems if id have had an xray as achild would thay have found my wetting problem idont know but i now how hard it was 4 me so go get checked out it could be the ansure my son is 12 he wettes the bed and inlight of my findings im having his lower back xrayed it could give him better qualaty of life now and in futuer hope this helps all the best i now wat its like been there mick....

Name: Christa
Country: USA
layla,my neighbor was over and i showed her your thoughts and she and i looked through many internet sites for nappies and plastic pants, she made some phone calls and did place an order which should be coming soon. currently she uses disposables which are getting to be to small. has your daughter always wetthe bed?

Name: Layla
Country: India
hi christa, what sort of nappies and plastic panties has your neighbour ordered? my daughter has always wet the bed and wets every night - hence i use terry towelling nappy and plastic pants. i dont know if you read the earlier posts about my daughter but we also have a little poo problem to deal with also - occasionally my daughter does this in her nappy also. when i expect her to poo as well ie when she is constipated and hasnt been able to do it on the toilet, she wears plastic pants with the thin leg elastic that is also tighter to prevent the poo squashing out around her legs. when she does this there is so much that it is difficult to keep it contained unless the elastic is very tight.when she is constipated she wets more aswell. you need to ensure you have enough absorbency to cope,this prevents wet leaks. i use different thicknesses and sometimes a booster pad aswell depending on the situation.if its just for wetting i use 1 terry and a booster. this is put on just befor bed. sometimes she has her nappy on earlier and then i will use 2 terrys and a booster,i usually do this when for example she has been sitting on the toilet to do her poo and after a long time of straining cannot produce it,i will then nappy her in the bathroom. once a nappy is in place it is not removed untill the next morning -hence the greater absorbency.when she hasnt been for a couple of days i put a disposable liner in the nappy aswell and after her sit on the toilet she is nappied but is encouraged to continue trying to poo into her nappy. layla

Name: layla
Country: India
hi christa usually its just a longish top like a t shirt. we are used to seeing her in a nappy anyway and she is used to it so no extra effort is made to cover it up. how does your neighbours daughter feel about plastic panties ? i ask because sometimes my daughter wears them as her panties particularly when she is having pooing problems. layl a

Name: Christa
Country: USA
layla, the nappies and plastic panties arrived and are in use. does your daughter wear pj's over the plastic panties?

Name: jason stevens
Country: USA
i am 16 and still wet the bed, and when i do my parents yell at me and sometimes ground me , but i cannot help it someone help me please

Name: Christa
Country: USA
layla, again showed your thoughts to my neighbor. she is most appreciative of the information you provide. she is dealing only with a bedwetting daughter and so she ordered 4 gauze prefold nappies and 2 pair of plastic panties to start with. now the nappy goes on somewhere in the half hour before bedtime after her daughter has gone to the toilet, brushed her teeth and so on. like your daughter she wets every night and if she stays home from school ill and stays in bed and sleeps she also needs to have a nappy on. the nappies and plastic panties she ordered are youth size and should fit for awhile. who knows how much longer the wetting will go on.

Name: Layla
Country: India
hi christa,pleased to hear things are going well and your friends daughter is getting used to plastic panties. when my daughter wears plastic panties in the day timeshe does not wear a nappy. sometimes the plastic panties are over her normal panties but usually, like today, she is only wearing plastic panties. this is because she is very constipated and is soiling her panties, the plastic ones prevent her shorts getting soiled with poo.when she has done her poo she will wear normal panties.her nappy is wet but not soaked unless she has had lots of juice drinks in the evening, it has been more wet than usuall for the last 3 mornings as she is constipated. i put booster pads in her nappy last night as she hadnt been able to do her poo on the toilet again even though she tried and strained for long time so i told her she had to try to get her poo out in her nappy, doing this makes her much more wet. does your friends daughter wear plastic panties during the day time or is her mom planning to use them daytimes? layla

Name: Christa
Country: USA
hi layla,my neighbors daughter seems to have gotten used to the nappy and plastic panties now. my neighbor said that the first time her daughter saw the plastic panties she thought she would just wear them over her panties for bed, her mom had to explain that her panties would not be enough and she needed the extra padding so that the plastic panties would not leak. when it came time for bed the nappy was put in place and pinned the plastic panties were being pulled up and her daughter asked should i wear my panties to? mom explained that it wasn't necessary. the next morning her daughter came to her and said she felt wet. with the disposable she didn't feel wet. the plastic panties were pulled down the nappy unpinned and she went to take a shower. my neighbor has been checking the diaper in the mornings to see if a booster is needed as with your daughter. does your daughter usually soak her nappy or only when constipated? also when your daughter wears her plastic panties during the day do you put a nappy on her or is she just in her panties under the plastic pants. my friends daughter had a very wet nappy the morning after a family party where she got to drink a lot. also now when the nappy is pinned my friends daughter pulls on her own plastic panties so i guess things are going quite well.

Name: christena
Country: India
hi i have a boy and a girl thay are 9 they both are still in pampers and still have big cots i dont no what is going wrong

Name: Baby J
Country: USA
don't think of it in a bad way i have to wear diapers all day and night even at school because i wet so much os just don't think of it linda.

Name: Christa
Country: USA
layla, my friends daughter only wets the bed and will wear plastic panties with a nappy underneath during the day if she stays in bed because she is sick and staying home from school and will be in bed sleeping. when she sleeps she is apt to wet and so the nappy and plastic panties will be on her then. otherwise no as she is fine during the days. like your daughter her nappy is wet in the morning but so far there have been no leaks and my friends daughter is happy about that as the disposables would often leak. the only thing my friends daughter has said about it all is that the plastic panties crackle when she has them on and walks or moves in her bed. she also now gets her plastic panties and nappy from the closet and brings them to her room when it is time to get ready for bed. so i guess you could say she is getting used to the plastic panties.

Name: Julie
Country: USA
i believe this is a real problem and shouldn't be made fun of. some of these comments are sad.

Name: Irene
Country: England
i have an 8 year old little girl who wets so much at night i have to put two terry nappies on her and two pairs of plastic pants when she goes to bed. no matter what i try, she's soaked in the morning. sometimes she goes through periods of wanting her nappies during the day at weekends - i think she feels safer in them. what can i do?

Name: Grzes
Country: Other
hi im boy 12years old and still wet my bed every night and wear diapers but my friends are ok nobody makes fun of me

Name: Nasreen
Country: Other
i think it is a shame that a lot of people posting here seem to have a sort of fetish about bedwetting and wearing diapers. i can't believe that these stories about teenagers being forced to wear diapers are true. i think they are posted by perverts. i am 17 and have had this problem all my life but my family are loving and caring people. all my friends know i wet myself in my sleep and they know i can't help it. true friends will never make fun or be cruel about this problem. there is no point trying to hide it and it is nothing to be ashamed about. i would be ashamed if i told lies about people or stole or took drugs but i am not ashamed about wetting in my sleep because i can't help it. maybe i am lucky to have such a good family and kind friends. also in wales you can buy a product called dry-nights pyjama pants in supermarkets. you can get them for ages 10-15 and although i am older than this i am quite slim so they are quite big enough. with these special pants there is no need to wet the bed and you can sleep at friends houses without worrying about it. i also wore when i was doing my gcse exams just in case. i now have a boyfriend who is the brother of one of my best friends. i was worried when he first asked me out because of my problem but my friend told me not to worry and to tell him, and when i did he said he knew already and he said it didn't matter at all. we have been going out for more than a year. so it is possible to have this problem and still have normal life.

Name: anna car
Country: denmark
i have a dauhter (11) and refuces to use speach walk or tolietand will only use baby stuff help

Name: me!
Country: usa
i am 11 years old... i don't wet the bed very often...like i have wet the bed once before but the last time before that i was like 3 years old... i just wet the bed and i don't know how to tell my parents. someone help me!!!!!!

Name: cheyenne rose
Country: usa
i wear pullups and i am going to science camp.but am not afrade beacouse i dont care what other peaple think and when i deside to stop weting the bed i will stop weting the bed.i know how it

Name: Yasmine
Country: australia
to the people who think there so good.i'm a 15 year old girl who is doing an assessment task for my childcare class at school. the assessment task is on bedwetting in children and i find it very rude that people think its funny to make fun of somthing like that.your life must be very boring if all u can do is rip people off that have a problem.

Name: chalotte
Country: united kingdom
i am 10 years old and i wear nappies all the time but mum won't let me sleep in my bed she puts me in my travel cot just in my nappy

Name: Lunden
Country: usa
im am 7yrs. old and i wet the bed. i don't know what to do to stop it.

Name: andrew
Country: canada
i am 12 and wet the bed what do i do

Name: Dana
Country: usa
i'm a 13 year old girl, and i wear disposable diapers nearly all of the time. this because i was born with a birth defect and couldn't control my bladder. it has inproved some during the day, but when i have to pee, i have to go right then. this has led to some embarrassing accidents, but my friends understand, and my teachers know if i raise my hand, they had better let me go so i don't wet myself in class. at night i have no control and wear diapers to bed every night.

Name: sarah
Country: iran
hi.i wet my bedd every night.my mother put me in diaper always.i ashamed of this subject in ront of my family and my friends.i am 19 .

Name: ricky splinter
Country: canada
hi nikkki go to the store that sell them and ask for sizw 9 or 10 ok hope this helps

Name: Bed wetter til 10
Country: usa
i was potty trained at an early age but started to wet the bed around age 4. my parents were frustrated about the bed wetting and after a few visits to the doctor, nothing was found wrong and the doctor said at my age it was not uncommon to have weak baldders and have wetting issues at night. he said i would grow out of it and there were different ways to control it like bedwetting alarms or even diapers. i am a heavy sleeper so the bedwetting alarm was not good for me because by the time i would wake up enough to go to the bathroom, it was too late and the bed would be wet. so my parents tried the pull-ups but the tend to leak so i was put back into a diaper and i wore diapers at night until around age 10. no one made a big deal out of it, i was happy to have a dry bed and a good nights sleep and mom did not have to change sheets all the time just dispose of a wet diaper. some of my friends knew i wore diapers at night and they were okay with it, there were some baby comments growing up (jokes of me in diapers) but it was no big deal because i knew they were kidding. i don't understand what the big deal is about a diaper. so many people think it is such a bad thing to wear a diaper. come on people its not a disease, its a diaper. for the person having a wetting problem, it is such a releif no to worry about waking up with wet smelly sheets and have a bed ruined. if parents would get there head out of their a@@, not make a big deal of it, talk to the child first and explain that it is only plastic underwear and put the child in a diaper. i do and will still admit to wearing a diaper until age 10. i had a problem and thats how my family and i chose to deal with the problem. diapers are not a bad thing as long as they are abused. now some of these comments on this site of the kid wearing diapers to school and having their moms change their diapers at school is a big joke. no parent is going to do that. that just tells me there are a bunch of perverts spelling out a fantasy of a diaper fetish.

Name: janelle
Country: australia
hi im 13 nearly 14 and i still wet the bed i scared of telling my friends like they will laugh at me behnd my back i need some help i dont know wat to do. and i have a sleep ova party soon at my friends house and no bodys knows that i wet the bed if anyone can help me email me at nellyviney@hotmail.com plz i need your help

Name: Ben
Country: canada
iam 11 and have wet the bed on occasion. lots of this here is from sicko people. can't even think of why anyone would like to poop and pee in a diaper. or moms that go to schools to change a kids diaper. there are pullups and other things that kids can put on themselves.

Name: THOMAS
Country: usa
my son is nine years old and has never had a dry night. he has worn cloth diapers and plastic pants all his life. i took over the job of getting him ready for bed when he turned five. at that time i let him know that i too had been a nightly bedwetter and grandmom kept me in diapers at night. this created a bond and it gives us a special time each night to talk or read a story. i asked him if he wanted to be taught to diaper himself and he said no. i told him i didn't diaper myself until i was 15 so he had plenty of time to learn. if you don't make a big deal about the bedwetting and need for diapers, most children accept it. believe me, it is alot easier on my wife to not have to deal with wet sheets and blankets and it does feel alot better to wake up in a dry bed especially for children who wet 4 or 5 times a night.

Name: Jenny
Country: australia
i'm almost 9 and i still wet the bed. mum put these large towelling nappies, probably about 30 and pink safety pins on my bed and said they were for me. she changes me and folds 3 nappies and puts plastic pants on me. i wee my nappies every morning. but i love them and have been wearing them secretly to school- for 3 days now under my skirt- no one has found out. mum dosen't know.

Name: help me:(
Country: usa
i am 12 turing 13 and i still wet the bed i wear good nights to sleep but sometimes it leaks through i dont want to go to a doc about it bc im embarrssed is there anyting i can do i dont tell anyone at all

Name: sara
Country: united kingdom
i have a 8 year old daughter who wears nappies because she dosent like wearing her knickers she wont go to bed until she has a bottle of milk her dummy and a nappie on . we have to bribe her with sweets an other items to wear knickers to school an during the day at weekends, she comes home from school at 3 in the afternoon has dinner then at 6.30pm she calls mummy bed time she go an gets her pj's pulls down her knickers lays on the changing mat on her bedroom floor that we use for her younger sisters an then asks to be powdered with baby powder before i put her nappy on she also wets at nite time and 3or4 times a day we have tried every trick in the book but she aint having none of it how can we stop this.

Name: thomas rayment
Country: hungary
hi i have bed wetting problems. i am 12 and i wet the bed every night. one night i wet my bed and i was upset so i went into my parents bed and accidently wet thier bed too i wear nappies now but one night i ran out and i didnt wet myself i pooed myself.

Name: Rachelle
Country: united kingdom
recently i caught my 8 year old daughter wearing nappie secretly. her bedwetting stopped about 7 months ago so she wore normal panties to bed. prior to that we had to buy lots of terry nappies for older children (bigger and thicker like the zorbit babycare stuff) and plastic panties. even now i make her wear them on large car trios- but it's rare. back to the story... half of the stuff were new so i packed them carefull and hid them ontop of her wardrobe. nearly every single night, i caught her wearing her nappies secretly when she could esp. at bedtime. she folded 2 or 3 and slip them under her with pins. although i haven't said anything yet, she even wore them with plastic pants over her knickers to schol but her long skirt concealed most of it. is it normal for childre to not outgrow babyhood and regress into the protection of nappies and plastic pants ?

Name: cj
Country: usa
hellow my name is cj i keep weeten my bed so my dad tells me to put pullups and i try not to do it but i just can't stop.

Name: David
Country: canada
for those aged 8 and over that think if fun to wear diapers and pee an dpoop in them, you are lucky iam not your father. a good lesson with the leather strap at to your age example at 10 i would give you 10 on each side of your bare little bottom and every time you thought about it you would get more . you would soon learn.

Name: Barry
Country: usa
i been a bed wetter all my life i wear cloth diapers and rubber panties for this the only thing that works for me and will still wear me 49 it helps me dont care what other people thick or feel i enjoy it.

Name: Jennifer
Country: united kingdom
my 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. she insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. she is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. we originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. anyone suggest any solutions ?

Name: nappy boy
Country: united kingdom
i have to nappies i hate it. my mum changes me anywhere

Name: lls
Country: united kingdom
my son is 13 and wets the bed it is a problem and should not be made fun of,he has bladder problems you who make fun ought to be ashamed of yourselves!remeber what comes around goes around and one day you could have a child with the same thing

Name: tarry
Country: usa
im 14 years old and still wear diappers , i sometimes do when just seeing tv, with not knowing that i wet my pants.

Name: jordan
Country: usa
hi my name is jordan i'm 9 years old and i weet my bed and i weared dipers everevey night people call me bed weeter what shouid do?

Name: THE TRUTH
Country: usa
you guys are incredibly lucky people. b4 i came to this site i intended to potty train my child(nr) omg wtting a daiper is the best option.. be glad! guys love it (i am)and you dont have to run to the bathroom when u wake up you can have orgasms.. i think we should all stay in daipers.. make it last and besides.. when you get just as old as forty you have to go back to them wether u want to or not! stik withit

Name: yes all 4 were me..
Country: usa
ok if yur still confused there are 2 final options.. when your depressed(mentally) often times your muscles relax so long they lose their stregth.. a anti-dpressant pill should work. if your a parent sometimes the only option is agression do not i repeat do not beat your child!!! positive reinforcements or spanking with loud noise will usaully work(cussing could be worse than daipers) if any of my comments moved u an any way please send an "e-m@il" to hyperdyne@netscape.com (if it doesnt get sent i may have spell ed the "y" wrong ty

Name: for mothers in difficulty
Country: india
change their daipers once in an isolated area(some people) in school. garanteed stop.

Name: if u wish to quickly lose craving
Country: germany
if u wish to quickly lose the want for girls or daipers simply look up female anatomy on google.. quit skirting around it and it won't cause u pain!

Name: ONE MORE THING
Country: japan
for those that truly want to lose incontenence try holding just the tineist bit over the ptti like leek a little with yur btt. thats a surefire why for pleasurable recovery! (bows and silently farts)

Name: hunter
Country: Other
i have a couzin and wets the bed

Name: john murphy
Country: usa
i live in scocth plain new jersey and im 11 years old i go to park milldle school and pea in the bed everday

Name: akgirltx
Country: usa
my 9 year old wets the bed, and keeps it a secret, and this may sound weird, but the other two chilred are getting in trouble for things that she does. also, i think this is a very big sanitation problem (sheets, clothes, mattresses) since she doesn't tell us about it. i have no clue what to do or where to go.please e-mail me at lnbtexas@hotmail.com

Name: no one
Country: usa
iam 13 i dont wear a diaper to bed but i wet the bed. i dont tell my parents enless i wet 2 to 3 times at night. i seen a comerichal on tv about pull-up goodnite underpant so i might ask my parents to buy me them. what do i do.

Name: kaleb
Country: usa
i love to pee in diapers and poop in them to if you would like to takl to me go to yahoo.com and get messeneger. tammymullens @ yahoo.com

Name: william
Country: united kingdom
hi im will i have a bedwetting problem and i havent told my parents cause they will take me to the doctors and all i want is a diaper to help me were do i get them low price to fit a 13 year old without my parents nowing (im not on this website a lot so please email an answer to my problem i was be most gratefull, my email adress is gunnerfan0506@aol.com thanks)

Name: peter
Country: united kingdom
i like to wear pampers,i buy my pampers by my self and later on i poo and wee.

Name: anuatamus
Country: malaysia
my bed wets are so bad my mother makes me wear a diaper and a tampon to bed:(

Name: anuaumus
Country: Other
the pantyliners i wear to bed are at least a inch thick.i may be a night blatter leaker but thats just uncorfortable

Name: monika
Country: canada
hi im monika i wet the bed and i pee in my pants i dont wear diapers because im to skared to tell my mom every day i come home from schoolmy pants are allways wet.

Name: jacuilene
Country: india
i dont know what to do i wet the bed and i pee my pants i have daipers and im 11 my bladder gets rashes and i cant stop im gonna use good nights.

Name: Big Baby
Country: usa
when i was a child, i got whipped for wetting. it didn't help. i'm 50 now and still wet. by brother wet as well. my mom made us sleep together, so the bed was always soaked. she thought that if we were made to sleep in it, it would make us stop. we had to leave the blanket down during for the bed to dry, then at night, back into the stinky bed to do it all over again. that lasted through my teenage years until i left home. i have wet the bed in hotels, at relatives, in a sister's chair once when i fell asleep. i sometimes wake while i'm wetting, but usually i just wake up cold and soaked. tried alarms, no fluids after 5:00 pm, you name it. nothing helps. i am too ashamed to go to the store and buy diapers, so i just live with it. the place always smells like stale peepee, so no company. the shame is incredible at times. the actual wetting part no longer bothers me too much, but the feeling of being a failure and of not being mature enough to grow up are something else.

Name: john
Country: india
i started weting the bed so my mom got me some pampers nappies ond di i cam home from school and told me to get undreest and she put me in to a pampers nappie and evry day i get home now she puts one on what do i do

Name: patsy 322@aol.com Or Sgfesta102@aol.com
Country: usa
hey im steve im 13 i wet teh bed it has just started recieanlet i told my step dad and he bought me diapers and im looking into rubber pants. the diapers i have arent that absorbant ant they leek alot because i pee alot i love wearing diapers because i feel like a baby. i love being a baby so much he buys me bottles, pasafires, bibs and baby pajamas he even gives me a baths like a baby all the time espeial when i poop my pants and i wipe it all over my crib an me (i got a personal king sized crib). he wats o bring meto docter to see if i have an infection if so it can be treated with meds thats not good i love to be a baby nd ee in my pants. see ya around babys

Name: whaaa
Country: australia
hello im 11 i wet the bed a fem months ago and now i did it again 2 times in a row its so bad luke i have a giant bed that takes forever to dry.my mate luke bed wets all the time to and has a alarm thing it so loud if i wet the bed again i hope i dont get an alarm thing....................im a boy to

Name: emmbarrased
Country: usa
im 12. and then i just started soiling and wetting my pants and bed. i haven told my parents yet. i buy myself diapers. once at school i accidentally soiled my diaper and that time i had an upset stomach. i burst into tears. i said i was sorry. then i accidentally fell i was so emmbarrased because i also got it on the floor when i fell. i ran out the classroom and hid myself in a bathroom stall. that was the most emmbaraing moment of my life!!! i just dont feel it comming when i have to go. at night i always wet my bed and sometimes soil it. i dont why this happened. it started when i turned 12. e-mail me at emmanueldc878@hotmail

Name: nobody
Country: canada
this is an interesting article

Name: Philip
Country: united kingdom
hi it is me sume one repli abut my pull up nappies probulum

Name: Philip
Country: united kingdom
i am 13 and i poo and wee in nappys [estra large huggies pull ups]it is so embarsing at home my mum changis me, at ferist i wore nappies with out telling my mum but she fowund out ta school [ i go to a speshule school] the teach will not chang me and i strugule on my wthen it happunds sometimes all the poo squishis up my bumb and it is reaerle hard to wipe my sellf at school with out my mum to wipe me also when i cume bach today with out thinhing i sat down nest to a populer gierl and she seid er i have ot sit nest to a boy hwoo has [pooed him sellf] everone tesis me plese help

Name: 12 year old
Country: usa
hi i'm 12 and i do not wet the bed that much i wet about 2 times a month and i do not were good nights because i'm a big girl not a baby and my friends make fun of me plese help.

Name: the king
Country: australia
hello i started weting the bed again after a few years now i have a king size bed that stinks cos i did not tell my mum but i told her yesterday cos it stank.what would you think be better dry nights or a alarm thing plz tell me (im a 11 year old boy to) plz help!

Name: sam
Country: united kingdom
i always dream about me wearing nappys and a teacher changing me and that i have to sit in a potty do you know where i could get 1 nappy that will fit me what shall i do and i come from london

Name: Debbi Casper
Country: usa
tammy, our only child is 6 now. she is wet 5 out of 7 nights a week. using disposable diapers she was wet 7 out of 7 nights. using thick training pants and a pair of plastic pants over the top seems to be the only solution for real progress for her wetting problem. at bedtime, everything goes well until i get the plastic pants out of her dresser and she sees them. i feel so bad as she pleads with me " no mommy, no plastic pants! the plastic pants are the only thing keeping her bed dry at night.am i on the right track for my daughter?

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
debi, perhaps the plastic pants are the wrong size and to small for her. they might be hurting her. i would say that you are on the right track. i to have a bedwetter and wears the same things your daughter does and is wet most mornings.

Name: jamesbur2
Country: usa
i would just use plasic pants with a diapper that help you stop wetting the bed

Name: Dain
Country: canada
i like to wear pampers and sometimes huggies, i also like to use a onesie some days...

Name: layla
Country: india
to samantha and debi, my 8 yr old daughter still wears terrys and plastic pants in bed,i buy a sise that fit so they are fitting her legs without making red marks there are some available with wider elastic - getting this right prevents leaks. when she is having poo problems and is sore from straining to relieve constipation she withholds untill she is less sore and often does a poo in her nappy.at these times we use the sort with thin elastic and a smaller sise so they fit very tight around her legs to contain the amount she does. layla

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
layla my daughter is the same age as your 8. has your daughter always wet or did she stop and start again later? also do you get your daughter ready for bed or does she do it?

Name: layla
Country: india
samantha, the terrys work fine -however we put an additional soaker pad inside the terry,this is very effective and we dont usually have any leaks. how old is your bedwetter? la yla

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
layla, do the terrys work well for her bedwetting or do you need to use a double diaper. i've been thinking about getting terry's.

Name: mini
Country: india
my son also in deep sleep during the night, if i don't wake him up he wet the bed, is any body ever try bed weting alaram if yes, i want to know if its work. if u guys can help me out

Name: Amrita
Country: india
dotors tell this is common n no medication can help... it will heel on its own.. my son will soon be 4yrs ..if i dont take him midnight to toilet he wets n doesnt realise ... can u help n tell me how long will it continue

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
layla, no poo problems in our house only bedwetting.

Name: layla
Country: india
samantha, yes my daughter went through a phase recently of not wanting to be nappied and we had battles at bedtime. i started to put her nappy on sooner and just kept telling her that 'when she stops wetting the bed then she can stop wearing a nappy' does your daughter go poo in her nappy?

Name: Samantha
Country: usa
layla, my daughter has also always wet at night as did an older sister who no longer wets as did their mother until age 12. my daughter gets herself ready for bed although she was able to get the idea of the pins pretty soon it took awhile to get the idea that the plastic panties have to cover the diaper completely to keep from wicking into the bed clothes. she gets heself ready in the hour before bedtime. usually her sister and i will sit at the table with her and we play a board game or just talk or read or watch tv. at bedtime she gives all a hug and a kiss and she's off to bed. in the morning she removes the diaper washes the plastic panty hangs it on the line in the wash room, showers gets dressed and off to school. does your daughter ever object to diapers and plastic pants? samantha

Name: layla
Country: india
hi samantha, my daughter has more or less always wet, occasionally going a few nights without wetting.untill recently i have nappied her at bedtime as she had difficulty in fastening the nappy so it would stay in place, however recently she has managed this herself. she has removes the wet nappy herself each morning and puts it in the bucket and rinses the plastic pants herself except when she has done a poo poo and i help her to change then- this avoids gettin a mess anywhere else and also i get to see how much she has done and if she is very sore etc. do you get your daughter ready and does she wet or poo or both? layla

Name: rach
Country: united kingdom
i am eleven and i have never wet the bed but my uncle dis until he was 11

Name: To Irene from England
Country: australia
re: your eight year old who wets monstrous amounts at night. have you had her seen by a doctor to exclude medical causes of polyuria (lots of urine), most particularly diabetes (as she will require insulin), but potentially also problems with the pituitary gland in her brain (rare tumours; even rarer lack-of-function syndromes). if she's producing vast amounts of urine quickly, all the best intentions in the world may not be enough to keep her pants dry; my guess is that her wish for a daytime nappy when she can get away with it (weekends) is probably motivated by fear of wetting, and it must be pretty bad if she's willing to go back into nappies. exclude the medical causes first; then and only then start looking at psychology (stress, divorce, bullying, or - god forbid - abuse?).

Name: Chris
Country: united kingdom
i like pooing and weeing myself in bed because i like the feeling. somtimes, when im wearing my triple diaper, the poo sqwidges up and ends up in my mouth. please help me. i havent got any friendsbecause one day, they saw me wearing my extra large diaper (i have to wear this because it gets filled up so much during the day. when i get home. my mother makes me eat it for being a bad boy. also i wear my mums bra and fill it up with tissue so it looks like i have man boobs.e-mail me to give me help on how to stop pooing when i dont want to: chris-wakeling@hotmail.co.uk and please tell me how to stop.

Name: concerned medico
Country: australia
difficult problem. the picture i'm getting is of a girl who's never dry and never has been dry, despite her age. am i correct? if so, there may be an anatomical problem with her 'plumbing', so to speak - one of the ureters (the tube from kidney to bladder) may be 'plugged into' the wrong place, not her bladder, and dripping urine directly into the vaginal entrance, for instance. on the other hand, if she's dry during the day for at least some of the time, can hold a bladderfull for a while and pass it, that's a different matter. she may have some sort of bladder instability problem. of more concern are the psychological issues; has there been, or is there ongoing, some sort of family trouble or stress (divorce, bereavement etc)? the most frightening possibility is that she is being/has been abused, and is "infantilizing" herself to make herself 'less of a target'. i'd be off to a specialist paediatrician with her and get the medical things excluded first - sometimes surgery is called for - and then attend to potential psychological problems. she's clearly 'adjusted' to wearing nappies; maybe there is a medical problem and she's too scared to talk to you about why she's wetting at school, doesn't dare wear nappies there in case she's teased, but is comfortable to wear them at home so she doesn't make a mess everywhere. > name: jennifer > country: united kingdom > comment: > my 7 year old daughter is still a baby and wets her pants at school. she insists me to changer her nappy on the changing mat into 3 terry nappies with the baby pins. she is not ashamed of them and likes to wear them in the house. we originally bouht them for her to use because of her bedwetting and now she wants them as well. anyone suggest any solutions ?

Name: jhon
Country: india
i whet the bed i haved tried every thing no i just were nappys is ther eney sites that do bigger nappys

Name: HELP
Country: india
i've wet the bed agin and i hate it can some won help!

Name: HELP
Country: india
amanda help i wet the stared to wet the bed last year and i hadent stopet i need help plz. im 11

Name: amanda
Country: canada
spankings are always a good try for older children that wet. most i have found stop after 3 or 4.

Name: ling
Country: japan
hi i'm 19 years old and i still wet the bed i don't like it.someone plz help

Name: minfant
Country: usa
i am a 15 year-old girl, i wear diapers for bedwetting, i like to feel like a little girl of about 2 years, i really like the baby thing, i love bottles and pacifiers, and baby-clothes...anything baby turns me on. mary

Name: Shaun
Country: united kingdom
hi im shaun i still wet the bed and wet my pants at school. so i have been put into a nappy and im only 11 at that age i should not be wetting the bed i get teased at school by all my freinds.

Name: diapers for life
Country: usa
i'm 15 and everynight i wet the bed.my mom changes me and lets drink out of a bottle before bed. (love it). when i go to friends houses i make them wear a diaper and i put in on them i'm a guy and so are they. they really like it.

Name: matty
Country: canada
i'm thirteen and i don't have to but wwhen i go my friends house we play truth or dare and i'm always to wear a goddnite pullup

Name: mprloo1
Country: united kingdom
i have a 3 year old son and for a while he did not wee the bed but now he wees the bed and he always wees himself during the day time. what can i do to prevent this and how do i stop the bed wetting

Name: pamper
Country: united kingdom
i still wear nappies to bed and all the time bcaues i wet my sefl if i do not i like huggies superfix the best nappies are the best they are better than pull up

Name: jack
Country: united kingdom
i am desperate to wear dippers to bed but i am to scared to do it incase my brother or dad find out plz plz help me someone they sound so good

Name: ww
Country: usa
i used to wet my bed but have not for years and my mom still makes me wear nappies and plastic pants and i just started wetting again and mom spanks me with a ping pong paddle if im wet then makes me wear anothor one for the rest of the day in 12

Name: Meggin
Country: united kingdom
hello, we have 3 girls 2 of whom constantly tease thier younger sister who wets the bed and needs to wear diapers and plastic pants at night. we have tried everything, including spankings,but nothing so far has worked. we were wonderiong does anyone else have this problem, and if so how do you handle it, possibly if they are put bck in diapers,at night, too for this it may help them to stop this horrible behavior? any suggestions would realy be appreciated. thank you very much.

Name: Cheryl
Country: canada
meggin, i had the same problem with my oldest teasing her younger sister who wore diapers and plastic pants to bed for bedwetting. finally i had enough and one day i was ordering new plastic pants for my youngest and on a lark i also ordered a pair in a size to fit the older sister. when they came i told her they were to be put in her drawer with her panties and that if i caught her teasing her younger sister that she to was going to wear plastic pants to bed for a few nights. not to long after that i caught her teasing her sister who had just been put in diapers and plastic pants for bedtime. i took her to her room and had her get the plastic pants out of her drawer and put them over her panties and told her she to had to wear them to bed for the next 4 nights. each night at bedtime she had to show her father and i that she had the plastic pants on when she was getting into bed. we did this about 5 times and she stopped teasing. in the morning we also made her show her younger sister that she was wearing them.

Name: Jennifer
Country: germany
i'm 14 and from the us. i'm doing a church exchange in germany for 1 yr living with a host family. well i started wetting the bed soon after i got here and now my host "mom" is making me wear diapers to bed.

Name: B
Country: india
some kids dont respond to cures just put them in diapers wen they sleep and wait

Name: tom
Country: united kingdom
hello its not good to know there is more people with the same problem, but it dose help. i have 2 grandsons who wet the bed ( 9 & 11 ) they both wear nappies and plastic pants for bed, and only there bedwetting friends know of this, its not a big deal they have never been out of night nappies. you can get terry nappies and plastic pants from drylife uk to fit any child or adult and they do save you a lot of money on the washing up and beds . hope you all get dry soon.

Name: some one
Country: usa
hi in the last couple years i have been stressed i dont have parents ne more and wet the bed i need diapers but am embarrassed to ask or wear them what should i do

Name: emily
Country: U.S.A.
i was a bedweter till i was 12 and i stoped and i started to wet agen and my mum has put me stait back in to diapers what do i do

Name: to baby j
Country: usa
hi iam aaron can you get me some extra large diapers please? thank you

Name: Jennifer
Country: germany
emily i'm 14 and i wear diapers to bed too. it's embarassing but i don't know what to do either. i just let her put the diapers on me at night.

Name: james
Country: canada
hi i think this is so funny because of some of the storys are so funny i am 10 almost 11 and i wet day and night i were elmo pull ups and when i go to sleep overs only 2 people know, vallyn and kassidy some of this storys are so funny i am wetting wright now!!!

Name: Lisa
Country: India
i am from arizona. my nine yr old boy is peeing the bed off and on and i am just wondering that if it has alot to do with the upset around the house

Name: ryan
Country: U.S.A.
im desperate peoples. ok im 12 and wet the bed at night. my mom says "oh dont worry u'll get over that problem in a few days." but its not true i've been wetting the bed for years now. i told her about maybe a diaper or something but she wont do that because "it will end in a few days" yea right i need someone to send me a pack im dessprate

Name: Ashlee
Country: U.S.A.
hi i am ashlee and i am 13 3/4 yrs and i have a bed wetting problem and i dont know how to stop its hard for me because i get teased and i try not to tell anyone of my problems so they wont make fun of me if you can help please contact me

Name: Ellen
Country: U.S.A.
hi i'm 15 i don't wet the bed but my little sister does. she's six years old and wears diapers night and day. she is very shy and gets teased at school. when girls come round to play they tease her for having a binky and a baby blanket. she also is scared of babysitters cause she has to tell them about the diapers. is there any thing i can do to help her????? she's soooo cute and her name's lilly

Name: connor
Country: Canada
i can't stop peeing the bed

Name: from Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl of cananda, hello, i read your reply to my question about our girls teasing their lil sister for wetting the bed and having accidents. thenks for tip. i took your adivce and did what you suggested, the only porblem is it worked for a while, then they started teasing thier lil sis again, and when they wre told tolto get thier plastic panties out at beditme , they told "no to make thema nd protestested until we made them put them on before they went to bed. so thier dad and i sat down and talked , and we diecided that we would sit both girlsdown adn talk to them and warn them about contining to do this to thier lisl sis, and that if they kept it upwhenever they repated this behavior they would each be changed into diapers and plastic pants (we use cloth dipaers pin -on ones and platic panties as we now have 5 girls 2 new twin girls,) thier younger sis and them and plasitc panties wheas soon as they come home frorm school until the next morning, with the 1st offense eaerning them 3 days in diapers to start, and eah time the misbehavior occurs more time will be added to the time which they have to spnd in diapers. also, they get cnaged before bed, but they are not changed again , or do not get out of diapers until the next morning after breakfast, then they must get a shower and get ready for school. if they are in didscipline on a friday or over the weekend they are in ddiscipline 24/7 from friday after school until the following monday morning, and if at home they can only weear a tee shirt and diapers, they also cannot have any firneds over when in ddiscipline, but if we go out they cna wear rregular cltoes over thier didies and plastic panites, so as to proeserve thier dignity and privacy,also this way their punishment is kept just between them and us. we have found that this semms to be more effective in helping them to stop teasing thier lil sister, esp as they know when in discipline what it is like to feel wet and uncomforatable, we will see how this works, what do you think of this? do you have any other suggesestions istead of this? or does anoyne else?have any suggestions as to how to handle this we would rally appreciate it. thank you very much, again. cordially, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, i'm sorry the plastic pants are not working for you. what i did was i would wait until just before the oldest girl went to bed for the plastic pants. if the girls don't want to put them on then you put them on for them. there were a couple of times that i had to put the plastic pants on my daughter as she refused to do it herself. i would simply tell her that her teasing her sister about her bedwetting was not going to be allowed and that she was going to have plastic pants on to. i don't know if this will help as i think you may have to back off for awhile. try diapering the bedwetter just before she gets into bed, that way it will all be private. might help.

Name: to Cheryl of canada
Country: Canada
dear cheryl, hi . thnak you for the advvice. we do dipaer our lil one who has a bedwetting problem in private already. we tried what you suggested in your last posty, but both girls still protested having to waser platic panties to bed. so we sat them dwon again, and explained to them that theasing thier lil si for bedwettin is a very serious thing and is not funny (especially as when she is wet and wakes up she is vry embarrassed and cries about this, evne though she knows it is not her fault. we toldthem that this behavior is not going to be toleaerted any longer.we warned them that if it keprt up the next time it happened that euthter one or both of them would get an immediate spanking and would beput in pin on diapers and plastic pants, and that thye would have to wear thme to bed for 3 days, each time this happens. we aslo told them that they would have to show thier lil sis and thier daddy thier didies and plasitc panties, before they went to bed. we also showed them everything needed for this, and told them that if they do not tease thier sister anymore that this wil not happen.we asked thme if thye understood they said yes, but a few days later , they tesed thier lil sis again. they each got an immediate spanking and had to go to bed in diapers and plastic pans for 3 nights. unofrtuntaely this seems to be the the most effective form of discpling and getting the point across to them as to not tease thier lil sis, as when they are in diapers and are wet they know how she feels. it semms to be working so far, as the youhnger of them has not rpaeted this misbehavior, and her older sis has only repated it once so far. what do you think of this solution so far? if anyone has any other suggestions for how to heffctively handle a sibling who teases a bedwetter, any adivce would be greatly appreciated, as we have tried just a bout everthing else and nothing else has worked. if so please help. thank you again erymuch! cordially, megg in.

Name: To Cheryl
Country: Canada
dear cherly , hi again, i forogt to tell you that we decided to use cloth pin on diapers, like thier sister wears. to empasize to them what it feels like to be wet, when one cannot help it. also the girls had to put on thier pj's over their diapers and plastic pants , but when they are disciplined for teasing thier lil si this way , they have to show her and thier daddy that they have thier diapers and plastic panties on under thier pj's, this also helps their dispciline to be effetive , too. ps they bopth know and were also told that if they keep up thier teasing of thier sis that in the future as proviously mentoiined that they will be in diapers each time this happens they will be in diapers right after they come hoime form school until the next morning, and in anddition from fridrday right after school unitl the following monday morning after breakfast, to emphassixe thier very babyish behavior . again, fi anyone has any mor esuggestions, please let us know, ok? thank you agin verymuch! cordially, m eggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, you may be getting somewhere as your younger one has not repeated. i would keep the diapers and plastic pants somewhere where she can see them and be reminded of what happens when she teases her sister perhaps a dresser drawer. make a point to the older one that ther sister stopped teasing and is not wearing diapers and plastic pants to bed anymore. ask her to promise you that she won't tease anymore and you will let her sleep in only her pj's, but like the other one keep the diapers and plastic pants in a place where she can see them and be reminded. try backing away from it for a while.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
dear cheryl, hello, thank you for your idea. we have placed everything needed on the girl' s dressers whe they can see them to remind them that they will be used if needed. we also tried talking to our oldest daughter, and proppsed what you said. she said shw would think about promising to do this. until she promises , though the next time she steases her lil sis she will defenitely be back in diapers, and as she was previously told each time she teases her lil sis, her time in diapers at night will aotuomaticall y be extended a few days wach time she teases her or makes fun of her again. we are hoping that she will pronise not to tease her anymore, but we wait and see , when we sak her again in a few days. wish us luck. cordially, meggin we will see if she she continues to tease her sister or not.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, looks like the older ones are getting the idea not to tease the younger one about her bedwetting. it's a good idea to talk with them explaining that their sister can't help bedwetting and the diapers and plastic pants keep her comfortable and the bed dry until she outgrows it. where do the older ones get their diapers and plstic pants put on? is it done just before they get into bed?

Name: to Cheryl of Canada
Country: Canada
dear cherly, hi , we have sat the girls down may times and explained everyting to them and talked to them about thier lil sis's problem. to updat eyou on thins our oldest girl promised not to tease her lil i=sis again, but after 3 days, she did it again and was disciplined for this. toansower your questions as to when the girls get thier diapers put on, it depends on how manay times they ease their lil sis each time, and if they keepit up after they have been told to stop it, it also depens id thye keep repaeting this behavior. the last time they did this, they were chnaged into thier diapers right after school, as they had been unrelenting u=in teasing thier lil sis, and earned one week in them including all weekend until the following monday. if they have earned them right after school , though they may go to the tolilet first before getting thier dides put on. i don;t like to do this , but this seems to be working better than anything else we have tried, and we were at our wits end for months before trying this. i wil keep uyou updated with our sucess. talk to you soon, cordially, meggin.

Name: To Cheryl of Canada
Country: Canada
dear cheryl, hi i read your reply. we alrady do what you suggested , only in addition the girls have to bring everything needed over to us from thier dresser. the younger one has not misbehaved again since a few weeks ago, her older sis sems to be the one who keeps on teaing thier lil sis. hopefully she will get the message soon,andhopefully they wil both learn eventually from tha not to tease their lilttle sister. this is the only thing, so far that has worked. cordial ly, meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
try using the diapers and plastic pants for bedtimes only. if they tease their sister tell them that they will be in diapers and plastic pants for bed tonite. when bedtime comes take her to her room and take the diapers and plastic pants off the dresser and sit on her bed, tell her to get undressed and while she is doing that you take and fold the diaper and get it ready for her to wear put it on the bed. take the plastic pants open them up, shake them out and put them at the foot of the bed ready to be put on. do this while she watches. have her lay down on the bed and diaper her then put the plastic pants on. do the same with the other sister as well. let them see you getting the diapers and plastic pants ready for them to wear. maybe you already do something like this. try not to overdo it to much.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
cheryl, hi hi thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.this seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. we also told her that if she repats this behavior, she will also get a antoehr spanking in the morning before school for teasing, ach time this happens. wish us luck. meggin.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, it seems like it might be helping. you might try talking to her when she has the diapers and plastic pants on, doing that may help you make a point. for the bedwetter you might try motherease bedwetter pants. i use these and they are a well lined pants, absorb a lot and the child can pull on and off themselves and can pull them down if they wake up to go at night.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
cheryl, hi hi thank you for your suggestion for bedwetter pants for our youngest girl. also, our oldest one in addition to everyhing else also gets a spanking before she is put in diapers at bedtime for teasing her lil sis.this seems to be the only way to get the point across to her, not to tease her sister. we also told her that if she repeats this behavior, she will also get a another spanking in the morning before school for teasing, each time this happens. wish us luck. meggin.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
to all of you who are 8 yrs and older and claim you love to wet your pants or the bed, i think you have a real problem , and need to get help, and if you parents don;t punish you for this you are very lucky. meggin

Name: wet in kodiak alaska
Country: U.S.A.
can any body give me any bed weting tips i feel so alone like im the only one that wets.what do i do?rmondocota@aol

Name: Madhurjya
Country: India
could you tell me exactly where the nite-watch bedwetting alarm in delhi is available?

Name: wetter
Country: U.S.A.
does any feel like me? im 18 and feel bad that i wet one more time

Name: jennifer
Country: U.S.A.
to michael radcliffe why are you thirteen and sill wet the bed and you should where diapers and i'm thirteen and don't do that

Name: help! in kodiak alaska
Country: U.S.A.
im 18 and an only child,and i alway think of how itd be if i had a bro,or sis.so lots of the time i cry my self to sleep and when that happens i always wet heavy.so you kids out ther with bros & sis,s be nice to them,even if they wet the bed.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
helen, why do you leave plastic pants out? they should be taken out only when needed. i guess it's okay, but explain a little more.

Name: Helen
Country: United Kingdom
hi cheryl i've tried a simlier punishment of leaving plastic pants out for my two daughters. so in the satin lingerie drawer is a pair of semi-transpaernet plastic pants. the only problem is i caught one of them wearing a pair of plastic pants without anything underneath. is this a concern or should i just leave it.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
cheryl, i forgot to tell you that when the grils tease thier sister, we took yoursuggestion, and they have to show thier sister that they are wearing diapers and plastic pants, before they get ashowere and change and get ready for school. this is hioefully to remind them that they shouldn't tease thier lil sis. cordially , meggin

Name: to ...
Country: U.S.A.
your like really mean and god just..how would you feel if they said that to you? hmm? well i wet the bed but ur mean >

Name: whatever....
Country: U.S.A.
god!!! people lets stop critizizing eachother!!! and frankly i dont care that people wet the bed!!! so just live life and have fun! ...well bye

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, how are things going with your girls? are the 2 oldest ones still teasing their younger bedwetting sister? do you continue to diaper them at bedtime to? my bedwetter is still wearing the bedwetting pants. did you ever get them for your bedwetter? would like to hear if things are going any better? cheryl

Name: sigh...
Country: Other
can anyone give me tips i like just started weting and i dont know if i should tell my parents or what plzzzz help! thanks bye =)

Name: Jeremy
Country: Australia
my name is jeremy and i am 11. i began to wet my bed few days ago, and mom forced me to waer plastic pants and spanks me hardly after i wet my bed

Name: meeria
Country: U.S.A.
has juvanile diabetese got any association with bedwetting?

Name: some one please help me.
Country: U.S.A.
does any body want to chat with me about bed wetting? i feel so alone cause i wet last night and my whole family hates me now,my sister lafs at me,my brother makes jokes.and mom and dad are mad at me for wetting.i feel sooooooooo bad,help

Name: wetter7
Country: U.S.A.
im 18 and i like to wet,i where diapers my size too!!

Name: Sheila
Country: U.S.A.
i have 3 bedwetters and diapers and rubber pants are used on them at bedtime. the beds stay dry and the kids sleep all night.

Name: michael
Country: U.S.A.
my name is michael and i am 24 years old.i was 9 years old when my dad passed away and shortley after this i started wetting the bed.my mother had a fit she called me a baby and made fun of me in front of my family she realy thought that i was doing it on purpose. this went on for a few weeks then she started making me wear diaper when i got home as a punishment and she would change me just like a baby.i wore them after school for a few more weeks then she got even more mad at me and started making wear them all day and night,she would pull down my pants anywear to check my diaper and if i was wet she would change me in the public bathrooms.i hated it this went on until i was about 17 when a concerned family freind talked my mother into bringing me to see a doctor about the problem and come to find out it was a mental thing over the death of my father and the punishment made it worst.this is not one of those peaple who have one of those sick fetishis.to all of you who are on here fore those should try to put yourselfs in my shoes i went through that sick stuff that you want i hate i still wet the bed and i will not put on a diaper because i have been scared away from them.if ther is any one who has been in the same place i am now please tell me how to finaly put this stuff behind me.

Name: bamewqe
Country: Malawi

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
hey y dont u either buy thiker diapers for her or in the middle of the night check her nappy and if shes asleep change it or double up the nappy or put a tery toewl napy over the top

Name: alexander
Country: U.S.A.
i wet the bed alot

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
have an 8 year old bedwetter and we use disposable pullon pants. we are having problems with leaking and wondering if anyone has any real suggestions. thanks

Name: TOSIGH...
Country: U.S.A.
first.how old are you? if you have a wetting problum you should talk to your mom and dad.thay well not make you feel bad,thay well try to help.and you well fell better if you talked to some one in person. like tell a close friend,or some one that you have told secerets to in the past.it worked for me!!!

Name: Bette
Country: United Kingdom
i did switch to terry nappies and plastic pants for bedtime. there have been no leaks at all.

Name: mn
Country: U.S.A.
i wet cause it tunrs i on

Name: cristopher joseph healy
Country: U.S.A.
hi my name is chris and i wet the bed. i do it because i get scared at night i try hard not to but it just happens. i am 13 years old and live in ulysses,pa

Name: whywhywhy
Country: U.S.A.
does any body got any ancers?every body ask the same thing,but no body nows what to do! just jack off!

Name: Cassidie
Country: U.S.A.
my daughter is also putt into diapers when she gets home from school because she teases her sister on bedwetting.

Name: edward hale
Country: U.S.A.
i am almmost 30 years old and i am still wetting my bed i go into a very deep sleep and do not know that i need to go and if i have to wait til i can go to the bathroom during the day i sometimes i have accidents i wear adult breifs but i wish i could get away from them is there anything that could help me or am i stuck

Name: i know why you wet
Country: India
cause your a vergin

Name: nottelling
Country: Kazakhstan
somebody help,,, i don't like my plastic pants aaaaaaaaaaaaahhh

Name: why hide it
Country: U.S.A.
if thay are a real friend thay well try to help,not heart them more. right? look,we all been there,where you wet at night right? so we all are the same.

Name: sad mum
Country: United Kingdom
my daughter has just gone to bed crying her eyes out because one of her friends wanted her to sleepover and she cant in case she wets the bed. shes nearly 13 and cant trust anyone enough to tell them due to telling a so called friend a few years ago who told everyone. she thinks her new friends from senior school will think she doesnt like them much if she keeps making excuses not to sleep over. doctor no help at all.

Name: Jennifer
Country: U.S.A.
what r we s'posed to say? i wet at night so mom says i have2 wear diapers so what?

Name: To cheryl
Country: India
dear cheryl, i forgot to tell you that when the girls are in dipaer punishment they stil ahve to go and show thier sister that they are in diapers for teasing her to hoepfully help them learn from thier punishment. and she also knows this way that they are being punished for teasing her, and wee think this helps her to fel better about things, and not cry so much over herproblem which as you know she cannot help. cordially, meggin.

Name: Meggin
Country: India
dear cheryl, hi.i am psoting an update for you. since we last talked i took all of your suggestions and used all of them with our girls. our younger one has only teased her lil sis twice so far, as it has been explained to both of them that each time they tease thier lil sis for wetting the bed or having accidents thier total time in diaper punishmen is increased. the first offense earns them 3 nights or days in diapers the 2nd offense one week, the third offense 2 weeks and the fourth offense is one month.this has seemed to work best wiht our youngest daughter, except a few dasy ago she repeated her misbehavior, so she will be back in diapers for 3 days to start, and if she does not repaet the misbehavior this will be the end of this. if she does repaet it her punishment will be increased, hopefuly she will not repaeat this behavir. our older one teased her lil sis once then, and we thought that her discipline was working, and she stopped for a few months, but then started up again, just recently, and she has also teased her lil sis twice in the past 2 weeks so she hs been told that she will be back in diapers again, for a while now, each night right after school and 24/7 on the weekends for a month, for tesing her sister. hopefully she will learn from this. we will see. again cordially, meggin

Name: to Cheryll
Country: Canada
dea cheryl, hello, aagin, good to hear from you we also keep everything in the girl's rooms just in case it is needed, but where they can see it to remind themof what will happen if they tease their sister. to udpdate things our older one teased her sister other day again, so as this is the 2nd time in less than 2 weeks, her punishment will be extended(doubled) for this. our younger one has not tesed her little sister since early april , but as she also teased her little sister, with her older sister the other day, she will be back in diapers for one week. normally it would only be for 3 days, but as they both boht were teasing thier little sis and would not stop when they were warned but inisted on teasing her, thier punishment has been lengthened. jus to let you kno they will also be in diapers 24/7 on all weekends form friday right after school until the follwoing mondya morning. when at home they will be in just diapers and a tee shirt but if wehave to go out they can wear regular clothes over thier didies, this way the punishment remains just between then=m and us. keep in touch, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
hi, i am just catching up on reading posts, and it is good to know that other parents punish siblings for teasing a bedwetter. dipaer punishment is the only thing which has seemed to help our older two girls realize what their younger sis feels like. cordially, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, glad to see that there is improvement. my oldest has stopped teasing her sister, but i keep the diapers and plastic panties in the drawer with her undies so she sees them and knows she will wear them again if she starts teasing again. the last time she had to wear diapers and plastic panties was in march.

Name: loulou
Country: United Kingdom
hi i am 11 and i go to school with my nappies on and when i need the loo my mum comes in and changed it my mum says when will you grow out off them i am scared of the loo and my mum cleans it and my mum and dad friend watch and my friends i love them alot they r nice to wear i wear them every day any wear.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
dear cheryl, you said that you keep your daughter's diapers and plastic pants in a drawer just in case she teases her little sister. i forgot to ask you if you don't mind, do you use cloth diapers or disposable ones with plastic panmts? as i think i said before we think that cloth pin on diapers and plastic pants make much more of an impression on our girls especially as then they know and feel what thie sister feels like when she has an accident. email me back if you get a chance, ok? cordially, meggin cordially, meggin

Name: Michelle
Country: U.S.A.
we read your article and would like to help. at the enuresis treatment center we have helped thousands of people overcome bedwetting. bedwetting, or enuresis, is actually a problem based upon abnormally deep sleep, one that is so resistant to arousal that the bedwetter's brain cannot automatically keep the bladder shut during sleep. our experience shows that one should not wait until the child outgrows the problem, because then they are still left with a sleep disorder that can no longer be treated. we have put together a guide to help people evaluate which treatment would work best for them.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello, i just read your reply,and i was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her little sister, and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. coridally, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
last night she had to wear diapers and plastic pants to bed for the 1st time in a long time. i heard her tease her sister just after i had put her in her diapers and plastic pants for the night. she went to her room to get ready for bed and i followed her and in her room i said to her you have to get your diapers and plastic pants out because your going to wear them for teasing your sister. so out came the diapers and plastic pants, i got the pins and she had to lie down on her bed and on went the diapers and plastic pants and she went to bed after showing her sister she to had diapers and plastic pants on. yes i do use cloth diapers fore the same reason you said.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello, i just read your reply,and i was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. coridally, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello, i just read your reply,and i was wondering if you don't mind me asking, how long is yourdaughter in diapers for this time for teasing her little sister? have you thought about setting up goals and rewared and consequence system,and/or possibly extending the number of nights she has to wear diapers to bed for teaisng her each time she teases her little sister and placing a copy of the rules and possible consequencesin her room? just mentioning this may help her not to tease her. hopefully she will think twice before she teases her again soon. email me back when you get a chance. coridally, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, in the mornings the oldest girls diapers are removed and she has to put them in the diaper pail and she has to rinse out her plastic pants and hang them up to dry so she sees her plastic pants all day and knows that if she teases again she will have to wear them again. i have at times put the 2 of them in diapers and plastic pants at the same time so the bedwetter can see her sister having the diapers and plastic pants put on. generally the older one only wears them for one night. she went a long time earlier in the year without teasing, so maybe were getting there.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, currently it is quiet in our house the oldest is not wearing diapers and plastic pants at this moment but they are in the drawer in her room so she sees them every day. are yours still in them? also when you are putting them in diapers do you do it with them lying down on their beds?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, i forgot to mention that this weekend both in diapers 24/7 until tuesdaythey are morning before school for repatedly teasing thier sister recently. cordially, meggin.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello again, i forgot to ask how are things going with your daughter, hs there been any more teasing since the other day. in case you didn't realize it our girls are still in diapers as punishment for a total time period of 2 weeks for recently tesing thier little sister email me back when you get a chance ok?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello, it is nice to hear from you. we do the same thing with our girls, since you suggested it, now also when any of them is being punished everyone watches them or mommy get thier diapers out and watches mommy get them ready for them, and watches them being put in diapers and plastic pants,even if it is one of them who is not in diaper dicipline at the moment as a reminder of what will happen if they tease thier little sister, and thier little sister is allowed to watch too so that she knows that they are being disciplined for teasing her. also eaach morning they have to rinse thier diapers and plastic pants out and put them in a diaper pail, and hang thier plastic pants in the shower to dry. they also have to do laudry ( help wash thier diapers in the washer) and diapers out when we do laudry every week, and put them in the dryer, and also fold them and put them away in thier rooms, when they are in ddiscpiline,they do not like any of this at all being done, but we do this to help reinforce why they are being punished and to hopefully help them stop teasing thier sister and become mature young ladies. cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl, hello. after the girls have thier diapers and plastic pants on, on they usualy go to bed in a short pj top, a short top or a short tee shirt and thier diapers.none of their tops cover thier diapers and plastic pants. we have also recently triedsomething new for teasing thier sister using snap on plastic pants when they are being punished for teasing thier sister as they are very babyish, to reinforce the fact that they have been acting like big babies. we ususally get our youngest daughter ready for bed anywhere between 15 minutes and 1/2 hour before bed. we also get her ready for bed in private. how are things there? write back when you get a chance, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, once the girls have the plastic pants on do they wear pj's over them to bed or do they go to bed in just the diapers and plastic pants? also the youngest, the bedwetter, how long before bed do you get her in her diapers and plastic pants and do you do hers in private?

Name: Meggin
Country: India
cheryl, hi, yes both of our girls are still in diapers, our oldest one will be in them for another week for recently repeatedly teasing her little sister.even after being warned not to.our next oldest one is still in diapers until monday morning,for teasing her sister again monday. they are both in diapers 24/7 again this weekend, until monday morning before school. they both have to come home right after school, and can go to the bathroom, and then they have to get ready for mommy to put on thier diapers. we also put thier diapers on them lying on either thier bed or in mommie's room, depending on if they are coperative or not. also, everyone watches wheter they are also being punished or not,form gathering ererything needed and getting the diaer ready, folding them and putting them powder and their plasitc panites on, so that they know what will happen if they tesase their little sister or anyone who is in ddiscipline (curently being punished for teasing). thier little sis also always gets to watch, we feel that this helps her to feel consoled and better, and she also knows that the other girls are being punished for teasing her. we think that having everone watch the one or ones being punished is one of the berst deterrents to misbehaving. keep in touch, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello, how are things going with your daugher? email me back when you get a chance, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: I hate wetting the bed.
Country: U.S.A.
i'm 14 i have wet the bed my whole life olny at night. it puts so much stress on my family. my mom,sister, and little brother are moving out because of the smell. i feel so bad, and embarressed. my sister openly mocks me infront of her friends. tonight i'm going to start sleeping in the bathtub. i don't care i just don't want to be yelled at.

Name: kyle
Country: Canada
hi im 8 year old boy. i wet the bed alot. my mom gets realy mad at me wen she wakes me up in the morning she pulls my pants down and spanks my bum with a paddle. i dont like geting spanked wat can i do to stop peeing the bed becuz i get spanked almost evry day

Name: Simran
Country: India
my daughter is 9 years,but still bedwetting.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, things have been quiet here for now. my youngest was having dry nights for awile now she has returned to wetting every night. does your youngest wet every night? how have the older girls been doing? i get our youngest ready for bed about a half hour before bed to but i usually get things ready earlier, do you?

Name: moxham
Country: U.S.A.
bed wetting still at 12 what can we do

Name: kyle
Country: U.S.A.
i am kyle. i am 8 year old boy. i need help. i peed the bed agian this morning and my mom spanked me again. she is going to take me to the store and by diapers. she also said that she is going to spank me longer and harder if i don't stop peeing my bed. how can i stop ?

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
well it's happened again and now my mom went out and actually bought diapers for me. she says if i wet again tonight i'll have to start wearing them to bed. what can i do? i need help fast.

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
i'm 11 and i'm wetting the bed for like a month now. i can't wake up until i'm already peeing and then it's too late. my mom gets mad then says shes sorry and it's not my fault. but she's talking about getting me diapers now what should i do?

Name:
Country: Other
i was in nappys until i was 5 oh and by the way bed wetters if you need help go to a school nurse or a gp. good luck

Name: Dani
Country: U.S.A.
i am 14 years old, and i am still wetting the bed every once and a while.. usually about 1 every 2 weeks, and if im lucky, once a month. is this going to keeping happening to me? it is soooo eembarassing because im going into high school now!!! i shouldnt be wetting the bed? what should i do? - dani

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
i'm now wearing diapers to bed every night. mom puts them on me right before i go to bed. it's humiliating but i'm starting to get used to it. at least there aren't wet blankets in the morning. has anyone else been put back in diapers?

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, yes sometimes she is wet and she knows how her sister feels. right now she is being good and is not wearing her diapers and plastic pants. when they have to get everything out and watch mommy get things ready is it then time for them to have them put on or do you do it earlier so they can think about them. i get them out earlier and she watches me get them ready and then later she gets them put on. cheryl

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear chheryl. hello again, i forgot to ask you, when your older daughter is punished, iif i can ask, is she wet in the morning, so she knows how her sister feels. i am assuming yes,/ meggin oh also in case i forgot to tell you now we have 5 girls, the two oldest, their younger sis, and two twin girls who were born last july.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl. hi, nice to hesr from you. to answer your questins, things have been quiet here, until judt the other day. both gitls teased their younger sis again, after beung warned what would happen ig they did this, so they are both in diapers for a month, and as our oldest still insisted on keepimg on teasing her sis she has been told she will be in tem 24/7 for the 1st 2 weks for this, and ropld her if she does not stop teasing her lil sis she will be in thrm 24/7 for the rest of the summer. her suster was also told the same thing and warned about the possible consequences of teasing her lil sis. to answer your question, our youngesthas had a few more dry nights lately, but still has mosly wet nights, as she has an underdeveloped bladder, that she was diagnosed with at birth. we also get things ready early for our young one, but if the older girls are being punished for teasing their sister, we wait until it is time for bed,or time to be changed duting the day and they have to help get everything needed out, and watch mommie get everything ready,9eg. fold rhier didies and put theie plasric panties out on their beds. if they are punished they are also reminded each time this happens of why they are in diapers, to try and help reinforce their disciplne,and hopefully help to learn to be more mature and grow up. also, i don'y know if i told you this before or not, but both older girls have to help rinse out their didies when in punishment and and also have to help do their laundry and fold and put it away. write back when you get a chance. cordially, meggin

Name: laura
Country: United Kingdom
hi evry one im 13 and i started to wet the bed about a month ago and 2 weeks ago my mum got me some nappies and a changeing matt and baby powder and nappy cream and after school she babys me all up and only lets me ware my tea shirt and my nappie and washes me in the bath its so humilating help please !!!!

Name: rachel
Country: United Kingdom
hi i wet the bed and my mum makes me ware nappies and even tho i only wet the bed she still makes me ware nappies all day and as soon as i get home she gets a nappy out and changes me its soo embaracing i ware a scirt at school so no one nos i ware a nappy but it makes so much noise im worried some one will find out and she dosnet let me ware panties over them and i dont have any more help mee !!!!!

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl, hi, how have things been going there lately with your daughters? also is the youngest one dry more nights now, or is she still wet most nights as our one girl is? write bck soon, ok? cordially, meggin

Name:
Country: India
recently i have been wetting and soiling the bed at night and sometimes my knickers. so when i came home from school the other day my mum told me to go over to her then she got out a bag of nappies and told me to take my knickers off. she layed me down on the floor and put me in a nappy. now i have to wear them to bed and all day during the weekend and i am 11 years old.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl. hi, we do things the same way you do, we get everything ready while they watch and then everything is put on later. we also do this so that they have time to think about things, as you do. cordialy, meggin

Name: Annnoms
Country: U.S.A.
it really is embarrisng but i still wet the bed and im 11 and somtimes...i wet myself in public and i gotta wear dipers! what do i do i am already wearing them.

Name: adam
Country: United Kingdom
a lot of parents here should be ashamed of themselves! by embarrassing, punishing or ridiculing your children you will only make the problem worse. kids/adults dont wet the bed on purpose and most will grow out of it! go to parenting classes before you spank your child idiots

Name: dawn
Country: United Kingdom
hi evry one my dauter has a weting problem and i need to get her some nappies what type can you get in the uk and where do u get them shes 13 almost 14 thanks alot dawn

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hello again, how have things been going l;ately with your daughters, i 'd love to hear form you. write back, soon, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, checking in to say that right now they are both wearing diapers and baby pants to bed. the youngest is wetting pretty regularly and wears diapers and plastic pants to bed every night. does yours still wear them? the oldest one is spending a few nights in them for teasing. how are your older ones doing? cheryl

Name: THE HELPER
Country: U.S.A.
every one asks the same thing. well i know how to stop wetting. clarsenbay @aol

Name: Christine
Country: U.S.A.
amanda, pull a pair of your regular daytime cloth panties up over the plastic pants that will quiet them, it works.

Name: amanda age 15
Country: U.S.A.
some good articles.i am a bedwetter and wear a thick cloth diaper and plastic pants to bed every night,my mom put them on me at bedtime.my plastic pants fit blousy and crinkle under my pjs how can i prevent this?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hi again, i forgot to tellyou that yes, the girls' younger sister stil is in diapers as she still wets the bed most nights. she may be dry for 2 or 3 nightsand then be saoked (wet) for the next 7 nights, or she may be soaked for 2 weeks in a row. she still has some daytime accidents too. but at lest we know that this is due to her having a medical problem of an immature and weak bladder. and she still cries and gets embarrased about wetting the bed and having daytime accidents,too. and as you know the girls like to tease her at times, this is why they are in and out of diaper punishment. i do know one thing, using cloth diapers and plastic panties, is very uncomfortable for them, so hopefully , sooner or later they wil get the message no to tease thier little sister. and of course they haven't started to tease the yougest tow, the twins yet, as they are only 14 months oldand they know that they are babies and need mommie to take care of them. cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl, hi, it is nice to hear from you again, things have been quiet for a month until just last night, our oldest teased her little sister again, so she got a aspanking and was told that she will bein diapers each night right after school each day until the next morning for a weeks for teasing her little sister again for wetting the bed. if she teases her again, the next time she wil be in them for 2 weeks. the youngest one started tolaugh at her older sister, but was warned that if she does this again, she will also be in diapers for one week, for tesaing her older sister, about being punished. we are alos waiting for mid term progress reports form school, as our older daughter does not sem to think that it is important to do well in school,and has gotten 0's on her homework in thepast. the girls are very gifted and hve been told that they need to get a grade of at least a c in all of thier subjects, or they will be properly disciplined. eachgrade on thier progress report or grde on thier report card below a c earns them a good spanking and time in ddiscipline. we have treid everything else , but have found that this is the only thing which works. we are hoping for the best. we will see in a few weeks. cordially, meggin

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
anyone else here kept in diapers all day when you're home sick from school?

Name: cheryl
Country: U.S.A.
meggin: i was thinking that maybe thats why thay make fun of eath other, so we will put them in diapers and plastic pants.ect.. nothing is working for me any more,theres lots of yelling and crying and makeing fun,.things are wild right now. good luck.

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
anyone else here kept in diapers all day when you're home sick from school?

Name: lees mum
Country: United Kingdom
hi im lees mum he is 15 im very upset he wet him self everynight he resontly has swung towards boys and a result of of to much erm fun in the bed so bcoz of this hes bein pooing him self more i feel bad for making him eat it

Name: warrior
Country: United Kingdom
i have 3 sons age 6,8 & 11 all 3 sons are bed wetters they all wear nappies to bed as they dont like waking up in wet pyjamas & sheets i was also a bed wetter so i know it runs in families & that in time all 3 boys will become dry at night

Name: i was wondering
Country: United Kingdom
meggin and cheryl; how old are your oldest daughters? plz reply

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, things are still the same here to. nightly diapers and plastic pants and wet mornings for the younger one. the older one seems now to be getting the idea maybe about teasing her younger sister. she doesn't like being seen in the diapers and plastic pants. cheryl

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
hi i were diapers at night i hate them my mum changes me when i get in from school and have to were them all night and all the time on the weekends help !

Name: wetter 19
Country: U.S.A.
yeah i wet too.

Name: give me some tips please
Country: U.S.A.
hi i went to sleep for a half hour,and i wet my self, what do i do? it happend 4 times now. does anybody have any ideas? this is not a joke. i need help! soon.

Name: wetter
Country: U.S.A.
hey, iam 19 and still wet my self

Name: its still cool
Country: U.S.A.
hi i am 19 and i were dipers,its still cool 4 me. and my friends know too,and thay some times join me and put on diapers for the knight too. and wet in them!!

Name: lee wakeling from summerset
Country: United Kingdom
hi im lee wakeling im from summerset i have a really small pecker its 3 inches wen big sumtimes its dry wee myself to make it funner to have fun my mum never feeds me so i am forced to eat my poo im normally fed three pieces of bread a day

Name: to amy
Country: U.S.A.
hi, you know what helps stop wetting? if you tell some body you know well.tell them how you feel about wetting the bed,then just were a diaper at night and take it off in the day.but if anybody puts you down for wetting, dont think anything of it cause wel all have done it at one time or another. i was a heave wetter when i was younger, now its not so bad, but i still wet my self at night, and i am 20! i know its stupid, but it happens. dont be emberased about it. thats the main thing!

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
no i dont wet in days just night

Name: to amy
Country: U.S.A.
oh thats hot, i got a idea for you, 1st, do you need them? do you realy wet in the day.or just at night?

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
to just wondering> our two oldest daughters are 10, and 8, then thier younger sis is 6, and we also have twin girls 16 months old. meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: India
dear cheryl, hi, how are you? how have things been there lately? things with the yougest are still as yours are here too, wet mornings, ect... the two older girls have both been in and out of diapers for teasing thier lil sis, but the younger has only been in them once in the past month for teaing her little sister and we think she may be making progress,we will see. i waa thinking lately and have a suggestion for you if your older one tease her lil siter again you can try and it might work, it seems to work better than anything else for us. below is an idea of what we do, with the girls. when she teases her little sister, tell her that she has earned time in diaers, but tht beginning the very next day, when se gets home right afer schol, she may use the bathroom once, but then she has to go upstairs immediately and will be in diapers, every night as long as she is currently in diaper discipline for and that on firday night, right after school, as part of her punishment she will also be in diapers 24/7 until the following monday morning before school. our girls also have all privilidges taken away during this time, computer, phone,palying with friends, ect, but if their firends come over for something special or wannto to see them, or do schoolwork togehter, they may for special occasions, be told they but with the understanding that they must wear diapers under thier regular clothes, all weekend, and wherever we go, unless it is a spcial occasion, or a special holiday. they just have looser fitting clothes on over thier didies, we have bouhgt some things which are a bit looser, eg, sometimes they weasr looe fitting pants or shorts, or a blouse and a long skirt, also this way the punishmetn is kept just betwen them and us, uless any family members know about this.you can also have her help you with chores, we do this, by having her do such things as each time she is changed, rinsing her wet and messy diapers out and putting them in thier diaper pails to soak, and she cn help you take her laundry after it is washed and she can help you by helping carry it to her room, and placing everything where it is needed. also, as part of her discipline she can also help by washing out her plastic pants every morning and rinsing them and putting them someplace to dry. we do these things as long as the discipline lasts, esp for many repeat behaviors in a short period of time. and of couse each time they repeat the misbehavior, the punishment is extnded in length. also, if they have misbehaved realy badly, or many time in a short period, of time, we have on occasion, in addition to everthing else made them say in bed, and do thier homework in bed, too, all weekend, beginning on a friday night,as part of thier punishment. this seems to work best of all for teaing we have found.i hope it may help. p> s> i forgot, we also make them watch us get everything ready and when thye are in diapers as punishment, they have to have mommy get them ready for bed before thier little sister,is gotten ready, in addition thye mhave an automatic earlier than usual bedtime, and still have thier little sister wathc them while thye are put i in diapers, as this seems to help email me bcak when you get a chance. meggin

Name: thinker
Country: U.S.A.
i think its fun to were diapers,cause i dont remember what it was like when i was a baby.so now i know what its like to be a baby, yay!!!

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
there cheryl, hi again, i forgot to ask how are things there currnetly, any improbement with your older one? i hope you didn't mind my recent post or suggestions, but after tring many things, we found that what itold yoou works the best for the grils when they tease thier little sis. email me back and let me know how tings ae going, ok? meggin p.s. we are still waiting for progress reports form school, we will get them next week, ans see how the girls grades ae, and if their grades are still poor or have imoproved, eps as not misbehaving ing or rebelling and doing good in school is very improtant for them both mow and in the future. meggin

Name: yeah
Country: U.S.A.
why do i want to wet my self? like when i need 2 go 2 the toylet,i think of weting myself

Name: hey you
Country: U.S.A.
do you know how hard it is to put on your own diaper? try it some time,its not easy as you might think. if you wet at night,its best to just relax and try not to get upset,cause it wont help,it well only make it harder and you well wet longer.

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
yeh i now how it feels kim

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
hi amy. i wear diapers to bed every night. my mom puts them on me like a baby and it's really embarassing. i have to lay down on my bed while she picks my legs up, wipes, lotions and powders me, then puts a thick disposable diaper on me. this has been happening for months now. it's worse when we have company staying over (like now). my little cousin is staying in my room for the weekend and she sees me get put in my diaper at night. i usually wet a lot, so i get changed in the night too. last night she was awake to watch. i've been diapered by my mom, my aunt, and my big sister. just remember you're not the only girl going through it.

Name: ZARIA JOHNSON
Country: U.S.A.
i love the way you are made people have babys thanyou

Name: Cheryl
Country: U.S.A.
hahaha day dremer.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl, hi, did you read my latest message? how are things going there with both of your daughters? our oldest is in diapers again for teasing her sister for one week. how is your younger one doing? ours is soaked most mornings lately, as it has been much colder here, and sometimes we have to change her 2 times during the night,as she gets so upset and cries when she has an accident, but i don't mid as she can't help it. write back soon, ok? cordially. meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, our younger is still wet each morning, wears a double diaper with a soaker keeps her dry all night. the older one is being quiet right now. the last time i had younger sis help me get the diapers and plastic panties ready for older sis. older sis has been quiet since.

Name: doing great
Country: U.S.A.
hi, i been weting for a week and last night i put on a diaper,and it felt good to wake up with a dry bed! it works!!!

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
i've been in diapers at night now for 6 months. that's how my mom decided to deal with it. i don't like it but i have dry bed & blankets now.

Name: the saddle club fan
Country: India
yeah i wet, its bad, wet beding,wet pants. i am tierd of it. help me somebody!!

Name: doing great
Country: U.S.A.
it feels so good to wet my self.

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, yes she if behaving ever since i had younger sis help get the diapers and plastic pants ready for older sis. how are yours behaving? cheryl

Name: charlie
Country: United Kingdom
i am a black boy and i love the smell of curry (and my mothers semen)

Name: Meggin
Country: India
dear cheryl, hi. it is nice to hear from you again. how are things going?is your older girl still behaving? i hope she is. write back whenyou get a chance, ok? meggin

Name: amy
Country: U.S.A.
kim how old are you ?

Name: Meggin
Country: India
dear cheryl, hello, it is nice tohear from you again. our youngest one has been behaving lately, but our older one still gets in trouble a lot. we have also been having problems with her helping out with her chores and laudry,which is part of thier discipline to teach them respoonsibility, our older one hates to do laudry, so we are trying something new, if either of the girls run low on thiier supplies, that is if they have 2 or less changes left, then their discipline is extended a week. so far our younger one has only had her total time being disciplined ext4ended once so far,while her olkder sis doesn''t seem to care about anything, and has had her discipline time extended twice. she has also been in trouble as she has not been trying at all in school, and brought home a very poor report card lately, with most of her grades below a c-.she does not ususally get disciplined if her grades are a cor above, which we think is only fair, but she dowsn'teem to care, even though sboth her and her sister is gifted and in all honor level classes. so she is in trobule right now, need i say more? i hope things get better. write back when you get a chnace,ok? cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl or anyone else, hello, i was wondering if anyone can possibly answer a quewtion about a problem whioch we have been having ately. do you know why platic pants might leak when thye are used with cloth diapers during the day. our older one has recently been soaked and everything has leaked a few times lately, whle she was wearing either snap on plastic pants or pull up ones, and this is confusing, especially as her didies are tucked inside of her plastic pants, and as they completely cover her didies, we use cloth pin on diapers or cloth pull ups. does this happen to others children? meggin

Name: Kim
Country: U.S.A.
hi amy i'm 12.

Name: jake
Country: U.S.A.
hi,iam 13 i wet my self at night,and i use diapers and it works good,and i am very happy with the out come. just try it and you well be happy.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
hello again, everyone, i just posted a question and made a mistake in my post, we are having the problem which was mentioned with the younger one of our three oldest daughter, who has a medical problem, and has a underdeveloped bladder, and has accidents and wets the bed, butr also needs to wear didies during the day, as she has some accidents then, too. we recently noticed this problem of her plastic panties leaking, in the daytime. if canyone knows why this maight happen, or can possibly tell us how to try and prevnt this i would appreciate it very much. cordially, meggin

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hi, how are you? i was wondering, how are things going with your youngest one? is she still soaked most mornings? i have found that ours is more wet in colder weather, and also has more frequent day accidents when it is cold outiside. i really think that in addition to her problem, that the weather really afects her problem. by the way how are things going with her older sister lately? write back when you get a chance ok? p.s. thanks for the tip, our younger one already wears thicker diapers in the colder weather, and we wometimes use doublers, too. also her platic panties do not seem to be too small,i recently checked them and we alway try to make sure that her didies are totally covered, that is why i was wondering why in addition to her being soaked, things leaked and her clothes were wet, too. any other ideas form you or others as to why this may be happening wound be greatly apppreciated. thank you again, very much! cordially, meggin

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, you might need to add diaper doublers to the diaper. this adds more padding to the diaper area. also you might try the next larger size pastic pants.

Name: Experienced Mom
Country: U.S.A.
bed-wetting has been accepted as a common problem for young children. however, when the wetting continues after 5 years old, testing for kidney condition should be done. my oldest son wet the bed until his adulthood. he was born a sleepy baby and know experiences urinary tract infections which are uncommon for males. please do not spank or embarress a child or let other people tease them about this problem. the child will become shamed or angry. be patient and concern for their feelings. weak bladder can be heritary. would you punish a person with an disability...a bed-wetter is not able to control their bladder while sleeping; usually the wetting occurs while in deep sleep. love and compassion is the best treatment. follow through with a medical check-up,the condition could be more serious than you want to believe.

Name: bre
Country: Libya
cool cute sorry adout the frist one

Name: bre
Country: Libya
stped hait it

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, i recently had to get larger plastic panties for y younger one as i was having leaks and could not figure out why. so i put her in the bedtime diapers and plastic panties earlier and let her play and run around. after she did this for awhilr i chescked the plastic pants and found that they rode up over the edge of her diapers at the back of her legs and that caused the leaks. larger plastic panties did it. yes she is wet in the mornings still. the oldest one has been behaving well since the last 2 times i had younger sis get the diapers and plastic pants out when it was time for them to be put on older sis. cheryl

Name: Armand
Country: Canada
my boys wet the bed a few times a week they wear 12ply training pants made for them. they each have 2 pairs of tight plastic pants on. if they have a dry night i take one pair off. if they have a wet night i put two pairs on no questions asked. some times one has 9pairs of plastic pants. leg cutters leaves red marks on legs tight. dry nights comes very soon. on week ends at home long tee shirt with no pants. can see the rubber pants for this is their pants. to go out on week ends just tight short pants with rubber pants showing out of legs if possible. not too much but a little. this is the rule for bedwetters at my house. when they will be dry off will go the rubber pants butthe training pants will stay on for a while. when i was a boy i had to wear playtex rubber pants with pin on 4 diapers. 24/7 they were very tight the rubber pants but not leg cutters very easy on the legs. later when i out grew the playtex rubber pants i wore super size tower plastic pants leg cutters. but not for long i did stop bed wetting. put your children in diapers pull ups. good nites teen throw away diapers and 2 pairs of plastic pants but not leg cutters. they make very nice teen plastic pants to day. day.

Name: hehehe
Country: India
i wet my self today when i was talking to my boyfriend.

Name: joey
Country: U.S.A.
hi my name is joey. i am 10 years old. i wet the bed alot. when i do my mom gets real mad at me. this morning when she woke me up and saw that i wet the bed again she yanked me out of bed pulled my pants down and spanked me realy hard. she said if i did it again that she would use the paddle on me. i don't want to get the paddle how can i stop wetting the bed ?

Name: wet one more time
Country: U.S.A.
when is it going to stop? i am 19

Name: howits easy.
Country: India
were a diaper. whats worng with that?i wet,and diapers are the only thing that helps.

Name: joey
Country: U.S.A.
it happend again this morning. i wet the bed and when my mom came in to wake me up she pulled me out of bed. then she got the paddle off the wall. she sat down in the chair and pulled me close to her. then she pulled my pj bottoms down and pulled me across her lap. then she started spanking me with the paddle and it realy hurt.

Name: rachel
Country: U.S.A.
hi all i started weting the bed a few weeks ago and im 12 my wee sister and brother ware diapers to bed and now my mum makes me where them so i get changed with my we brother and sister and she keeps me in them in the week ends in puplic places its so embarracing does any one elce get this treatment

Name: try this
Country: India
mas-ter-bate

Name: Sadie
Country: U.S.A.
jane i dont think you should put your daughter in diapers. my mom puts me in diapers at night and its not fair!!!!

Name: sara
Country: India
hi k.muralidharan have you tryed a nappie ?

Name: K.Muralidharan
Country: India
my son 10 years old having bed wetting problem. i am studying many behavioural ways to find solution to the problem. wake up during night again a problem for both and not able to follow, is there any other solutionn please share . i am fearing to go for medication because of side effects.

Name: sadie
Country: India
jane i just wet. and diapers aren't any fun either.

Name: jane
Country: India
sadie do you wet the bed or soil it well if you do then a diapers the best thing because to wash the sheets evry days no fun for any one

Name: jane
Country: U.S.A.
hi all my 11 year old girl has started to wee the bed at night i am trying to get her diapers i got her dry nights but i want to get her diapers does any one no the best kind to get thanks all

Name: Megen
Country: U.S.A.
i have a 10 year old dauther she alway wet at night and in the day she shold i put her in diapers ?

Name: alf
Country: U.S.A.
what's so bad about wearing diapers. i'm 11 and i like them. they feel good. alton

Name: Ashleine
Country: U.S.A.
dear megan, i think you should put your daughter in diapers. my daughter is 13 and she started wetting day and night so she is back in diapers 24/7 until she outgrows it. i'm not trying to be cruel to her, it's just to keep her protected from wet sheets and underwear.

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
dear cheryl, hi. how are you? how have things been going with your older daughter lately? has she teased her sister lately? our yunger one hsn't done thisin a while, esp as they both know that if they are in ddiscipline, that they have to wash and dry thier own laundry and put it away as part of thier punishement. also if one of them is in ddiscipline, thier lil sis still gets to ehlp get evrything ready, and everyone who is not being punished watches so that they know what wil happen if they do the sasme thing. write back, soon, ok? cordially, meggin

Name: MAYBE
Country: India
could bedwetting have something to do with puberty?

Name: nate
Country: U.S.A.
i am a 22 year old male, i wet the bed until i was ten years old. my parents tried everything to get me to stop. i went through months of hypnosis and years of therapy neither of which worked. my parents tried one of those bed wetting alarms, the device got shorted out and i was electrocuted in my sleep for like an hour until my brother woke me up. they gave me medication, and would not let me drink anything after 5pm. if you are a parent trying to stop your child's bw, stop and ask yourself what you know about it. if you never wet the bed you don't know anything about it, so stop acting like you do. your child is the one carrying the burden not you, the child want's to stop more than you want them too. i quit on my own around age ten. i got a quite alarm that would wake me up every 2 and a half hours or so throughout the night. and just talk to your kids. the reason why we wet the beds as kids is because most kids are scared or stressed out about things. me and most the kids in my group therapy who wet the bed were also molested at early ages. the key is to not talk directly about the bed wetting don't even mention it.

Name: melanie holt
Country: U.S.A.
im 13 and i dont wet the bed i dnt no why but my mum makes me wear a nappy and i hate it i have a pram a cot and a dummy i have to wear the nappies at school to and my teacher has to change it if i go in my nappy then i have to stay in my cot all weekand and i have to get bottle fed im not aloud to use the toilets though. if i poo my nappy i have to go around all day in the same nappy im only aloud to have my nappy changes one a day thats it and if i go out im not aloud to were trousers just my nappy its so embarrasing and my mum changes me in the middle of a restuarant some1 help me

Name: Cheryl
Country: Canada
meggin, nice to hear from you again. all remains quiet in our house. the older one is being good. for the younger one i still pad her up and put the plastic pants on for bedtime so she can get a good nights sleep. the older one has been real good lately. how about yours? chery l

Name: janaki
Country: India
my daughter is 9 years old and she wets her bed if she is not woken up to go to the toilet . can you suggest any councelling centers in chennai.

Name: Purnima
Country: India
my son is 6yrs old and is bedwetting all thru these 6yrs. i was waiting that this problem may stopped after 5yrs. but now i want a solution. can this be a hereditary problem. please do suggest me.

Name: Gabriella
Country: U.S.A.
i recently had no choice but to put my 13 year old daughter back in diapers due to her constant bed wetting. i decided just to diaper her at night, but one night she'd had numerous bowel movements so i decided on continuing to diaper her that day as this was unusual. unfortunately when we were at the supermarket i noticed she needed a diaper change so had no choice but to change her in the bathroom. i explained this to her and she simply nodded. when we were in the bathroom i laid her on the changing table and began changing her diaper, much to my surprise, with no fuss from her. a few hours later we were still out and she asked for a diaper change, no fuss. she continued with this behaviour for a few days, before revealing that she enjoys wearing diapers now. this is great as i can change her diapers when needed, without any fuss. but is this normal for a 13 year old? i'd love to hear others' stories too!

Name: Meggin
Country: U.S.A.
cheryl, hi, our youngest one still is soaked every night. her oldest sister has been relatively good, but is currently in discipline again for teasing her sister. our middle one has been good lately. times lately for teasing her younger sister. she will be in it for one month,and she must do her own laundry and hang it out on the line to dry , and then fold it and put it away as part of her punishment. hopefully she will finally learn not to tease her sister this time. keep in touch. cordially, meggin

Name: jean
Country: United Kingdom
i am a babysitter and i had 2 girls aged 7 and 12 and they both wore nappies and i was told to check them reguarly and had to change them alot they wore pampers and they did not seem to mind being changed when they pooed i could smell it was bad but they were very nice girls and were easy to change no problems

Name: karen
Country: United Kingdom
i have a girl that wets the bed and she is 13 and her frend also wets too so they both where nappies to bed and i think its good if your not the only one that does it

Name: lisa
Country: United Kingdom
karen my daugter is like yours she wets the bed and after dinner she goes up stairs to get ready for geting her nappie on also her frend stays round a lot and she also wets so they get on very well togither

Name: Frederick
Country: Gambia
hi. those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it. i am from niger and now teach english, give true i wrote the following sentence: "airline tickets to germany can be bought online and the airline tickets to germany can even got from the counters at the airport in the city where one." with respect ;-), frederick.

Name: laura
Country: U.S.A.
hey jennifer i am the same as u i started off just wareing them out side of school but now just ware a pull up to school no one knows what kind of diapers do you ware

Name: Jennifer
Country: U.S.A.
recently at a sleepover i was dared to wear a diaper. my mom took it as a joke too & in the morning said "lay down & i'll change you" but when she checked me i had actually pooed it. bad. she put another diaper on me & later (btw my friends had gone home) she checked me & i had done another bad poo. i didn't mean to but anyway she diapered me for the rest of the day & sure enough i needed the diaper. i had to wear diapers for a week & then my mom said that everyday after school i will get a diaper put on until the following morning & on fridays after school until mnday morning ibwould be in diapers 24/7. i now have this routine & i must wear diapers on any days that i'm not at school. i'm 13 & wearing diapers is okay but my mom changes me anywhere. i usually do a lot of dirty diapers which can be a little awkward but i guess that's what diapers are for. does anyone else have a situation similar to mine?

Name: shubhangana
Country: India
my son mihir 6 years wets his bed daily, he says that i feel lazy getting up from bed even the potty near the bed is useless

Name: Ulotol
Country: United Kingdom
i share a room with my younger sister and she is alway's wetting the bed i tease her but that doesnt get me or her anywhere . finally she stoppoed for at least a month and i was reileved but a few weeks later she started wetting the bed,i don't agree with nappies for children over the ages of 6 its unappropriate. so i don't volunteer for my sister to use a nappy. what should i do?

Name: no1
Country: U.S.A.
dear melanie holt, i think you need to confront your mom about this and tell her that your not a 2 year old anymore. maybe you should ask her why she is treating you like this. i hope this is helpful but i dont really know what you can do.

Name: gym. gurl
Country: U.S.A.
im 14 and i have wet the bed 2 times in the last 6 weeks. both times i have had a dream wear im locked out of the bathroom and i have 2 go very bad. every time i wake up and find that i have wet the bed. i have gotten up and washed my sheets without my parents knowing. if i tell my mom she will be very angry. what should i do?!?!

Name: karuna
Country: India
the child is 8yrs and is still bedwetting. she had stopped for 1month but has started again.

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