Not only during the first and the second trimester, but also good care and support from husband is needed during the third trimester of pregnancy. Let us take a look at some tips for a man to take care of his wife during the third trimester of pregnancy.The third trimester is filled with joy and hope for you as you eagerly await the arrival of your baby. The last stretch of pregnancy i.e. the third trimester is also the most crucial one as the body systems of the baby mature around this time.
From a pregnant woman’s point of view the third trimester marks the arrival of huge changes to her body. The pelvis expands, tummy enlarges to its maximum extent and the feet also swell up. These changes make her unwieldy and sometimes incapable of continuing her daily tasks with the same force.
Taking care of your wife in the third trimester will become even more effective when you follow these simple tips.
Doing Chores for Your Wife
In the third trimester it is natural for your pregnant wife to be unable to perform many activities which she had been regularly doing in the past. Be understanding and cooperative and take over a major chunk of responsibilities from her. She is likely to feel hungry all the time so keep getting her favourite snacks and fresh juice. Massage the small of her back every night as it is probable that your wife will suffer from back ache. Ensure that you place a hot water bag on her bed every night so that she gains relief from pain. Make sure that you speak to her doctor if it would be fine to do so.
Ensuring the Safety at Your Home
In the third trimester it is likely that your wife will become a little clumsy and off balance. This could mean that she is increasingly vulnerable to trips and falls; both events are life threatening for the mother and child. Ensure that you do the following things to make your home a safer place. Install strong night lights in all the halls and passage ways so that she does not trip over at night while visiting the washroom.
If you have slippery marble floors then place rugs over them to make them more comfortable for your pregnant wife. Place cushions over settees, dining table chairs, couch etc as your wife will always need back support during the third trimester. Ensure that there is no danger zones in your home like slippery area or places filled with sharp objects.
Going to the Doctor Together
In the
third trimester the frequency of the monthly
doctor’s visits changes to weekly. Ensure that you accompany your wife on each one of these visits and learn all the changes to the prenatal care procedure which the doctor will make. On every visit you will be able to learn of some new development in your baby’s body and this will automatically deepen the bond between you and your wife. You should also remember to make a list of all your wife’s medication and vitamins and take on the responsibility of giving them to her on time as she is apt to become forgetful and anxious around this time.
Preparing for Childbirth Together
Most men think that preparations for childbirth are only the woman’s department. However, if your wife is planning on having a
natural delivery hen it can be highly beneficial for both of you to join Childbirth classes together. You will be able to learn a lot about the right position of birth, ways to ease labour pain naturally, correct way to lie down etc. More than anything taking these classes will help you form a stronger bond with your wife and send out the signal that you really care for her and are involved in the parenting process.
Providing Strong Emotional Support
Your emotional support is something that your wife will need the most now. It is something that cannot be replaced with anything. Try to understand her and be with her whenever she needs you. You can also connect emotionally with your child growing in the womb during this stage. Try to talk to your child by talking to the womb of your wife. Place your hand on her womb gently and try to feel your baby’s movements. In this way you can not only provide emotional support to your wife but also can develop a beautiful bonding with your child that is growing in your wife’s womb.
With a little help and cooperation from you, the third trimester of pregnancy will become a magical phase for you and your wife. And very soon your bundle of joy will be in your arms. Your world is going to get changed completely. So, be ready for this wonderful change and many more beautiful moments to come.
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