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Role of in-laws:For delivery call your Moms..

2005-02-04

Name: Mrs Sharma Hi all,
My advice to you is don't call your MIL if she does not get along with you. Moreover hamare bade bujurg bhi delivery se pehle bahu ko mayake bhejte the? Do you know why? Becayse after delivery aise logon ke saath rehna chahiye jinse bhut close hain ladkiyan aur jo log unke mood swings ko bhi dhyan rakj sakte hain....Ye maa hi kar sakti hai sabse achhe tarah..Jinki MIL se achhi relation hai vo bhale hi mIL ko bula lein, but agar MIL is not sweet ya jamti nahi hai to MIL ko mat bulao..Storng bankar mana kar do.
I am ready to help my DILs with delivery but maine khud hi unki mom ko aane ko ola tha..Kyonki delivery se pehle aur baad mein bhi women kafi nazuk mental state mein hoti hai aur mil se zyada mom se sahara milta hai most cases mein..
vaise bhi agar humari maa kuchh bolegi to hum gussa nahi hite but MIL ki bat chubh jati hain..Same way maa ko uski beti kuchh kahe to maa bhool jaati hai but MIL barson ta yaad rakhti hai aur rishton mein kadvahat aati hai..Is se achha hai ki Mom ko bula lo ya unke ghar chale jjaao..I would support you if you don't want to call ur MIls for delivery. Tell them ki delivery maan ka ghar hi hoti aayi hai purane zamaane se..
(And to all thos timid DILS, please meri DILs se kuchh seekho!) after coming to this forum i am joking again...

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Hi all,
My advice to you is don't call your MIL if she does not get along with you. Moreover hamare bade bujurg bhi delivery se pehle bahu ko mayake bhejte the? Do you know why? Becayse after delivery aise logon ke saath rehna chahiye jinse bhut close hain ladkiyan aur jo log unke mood swings ko bhi dhyan rakj sakte hain....Ye maa hi kar sakti hai sabse achhe tarah..Jinki MIL se achhi relation hai vo bhale hi mIL ko bula lein, but agar MIL is not sweet ya jamti nahi hai to MIL ko mat bulao..Storng bankar mana kar do.
I am ready to help my DILs with delivery but maine khud hi unki mom ko aane ko ola tha..Kyonki delivery se pehle aur baad mein bhi women kafi nazuk mental state mein hoti hai aur mil se zyada mom se sahara milta hai most cases mein..
vaise bhi agar humari maa kuchh bolegi to hum gussa nahi hite but MIL ki bat chubh jati hain..Same way maa ko uski beti kuchh kahe to maa bhool jaati hai but MIL barson ta yaad rakhti hai aur rishton mein kadvahat aati hai..Is se achha hai ki Mom ko bula lo ya unke ghar chale jjaao..I would support you if you don't want to call ur MIls for delivery. Tell them ki delivery maan ka ghar hi hoti aayi hai purane zamaane se..
(And to all thos timid DILS, please meri DILs se kuchh seekho!) after coming to this forum i am joking again... TINA replied. mrs sharma ,i read ur mess & comments! really respect ur understand,ur cooperateness,ur patients,u r very much like idiol for us......i liked that on this broad such a nice, intelligent and sensible women is also with all good souls...really really very much impressed by all ur writings........
3 cheer for u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! augustborn replied. Dear Mrs Sharma(can I call you aunty)...
I am so glad that you have got back your good humour and you are feeling better...that last line of yours really made me smile. Thats the way to live - Keep your spirits alive.
See having an older and experienced lady amongst us made such a difference. You summarised the whole thing so naturally and so logically...
You truly understand people and relations and relationships...
Keep on sending your opinions, we would all surely benefit...
Hey I must compliment you on your internet skills. I have been begging my mom to learn how to chat and write mails, but she hasn't done it though she too is highly qualified(shes a doctorate)...So hats off to you!!!

Cheers!

2005-02-08

Name: TINA
Subject:

really very true!!!!

mrs sharma ,i read ur mess & comments! really respect ur understand,ur cooperateness,ur patients,u r very much like idiol for us......i liked that on this broad such a nice, intelligent and sensible women is also with all good souls...really really very much impressed by all ur writings........
3 cheer for u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2005-02-04

Name: augustborn
Subject:

We love your spirit!

Dear Mrs Sharma(can I call you aunty)...
I am so glad that you have got back your good humour and you are feeling better...that last line of yours really made me smile. Thats the way to live - Keep your spirits alive.
See having an older and experienced lady amongst us made such a difference. You summarised the whole thing so naturally and so logically...
You truly understand people and relations and relationships...
Keep on sending your opinions, we would all surely benefit...
Hey I must compliment you on your internet skills. I have been begging my mom to learn how to chat and write mails, but she hasn't done it though she too is highly qualified(shes a doctorate)...So hats off to you!!!

Cheers!

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