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Hi Rani and others,
Please don't make this forum a place to fight. All of us who come here for support are not getting any benefit by reading all these angry mails from Rani and other replies..
I read all posts by Rani and other people who gave response to Rani's post. I have to say that Rani's post was provocative and in some caes her advice would work but most of the caeses either MILor DIl are so not ready to listen that nothing can be done.
Rani, If you have read my post, you would be familiar that my DILs treat me with so disrespect. I have tried to be noce to them always but some people are heartless and don't understaand feelings.
Yahan jo bhi DIls aati hain unhone bhi apny MIL ke sath achha behaviour kar ke dekha hoga..Jab sab karke bhi MIL pareshaan kar rahi hain tabhi vo is forum par aayi hongi..isliye unse bhashan dene se unki prob door nahi hogi. If you are counselleor then please try to understand their point of view.Tum unhe bina unki kahanai jaane doshi kaise bata sakti ho??
But to get angry on Rani's posy in not a solution. If we don;t like her post, just ignore her.
Kal mujhe apni kahaani bata kar kaafi halka lag raha hai. I can't say these things to anybody..Purane zamane ke log hain to \";Ghar ki Izaat\"; ke liye relatives se kuchh keh nahi sakte..Bhabhi jaanti hain sab kuchh but vo apni life mein hi pareshaan hain..So i think best way to help each other ius share and give emotional support. Meri post ke jo jawab aaya hai us se mujhe kaafi achha lag raha hai..Aaj main jaldi sone ki koshish karoongi..Aur un sab baaton par bhi gaur karoongi jo mujhe is forum ki sweet betiiyon ne bataye hain..
i sometimes wish ki mere beton ki jagah agar betiyan hoti n to emotionally itna akelapan nahi lagta mujhe..
Magar is forum mein aakar lag raha hai ki koi achhi se beti yahi mil gayi hai:-)
Please don't fight and think about ways and solutions jis ki vajah se hum sabki life mein shanti aaye..
Mrs Sharma a daughter and a friend replied. Dear Aunty (Mrs. Sharma),
I am so glad that atleast we have a motherly figure among us now. I was very touched by your story. And I really feel that if I had been at your DILs position the story would have been different. I respect my MIL a lot but there's another episode to that and I just don't want to talk about it. You are a strong lady. I really appreicate that you still think about the well being of your kids and are not a burnden on them.
Yes, you can share your feelings, your day-today problems with us. All of us are not physically present for each other but emotional support which we gather from our friends in this forum has played a great role in our lives. Specially in mine. I really look forward to read the different posts here and get encouragement and also give my suggestions if I feel it is going to help.
Once agian, don't lose heart and now that you are a part of our forum we will always be their to support you emotionally. You can come and chat with us, just by going to the live chat. You will find one or the other person. I have made great friends there and often see many ladies logged in at certain point of time chit-chatting. Its nice and I really enjoy being a part of this forum. Good luck to you and we really look forward for your input when we ladies put forth our views and problems.
Take care.
a daughter and a friend! augustborn replied. Never feel alone...we are all here for you!
Do what all of us do here: we rave, rant, make fun, support each other and share a smile - you are most welcome here!

Cheers! x replied. Just wanted to say, we all are there for you Mrs. Sharma. We would love to have you on this forum. Being older to all of us, you will be able to help us and give us some great advice. Take care of yourself.