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Hi all,
I read the story of Mrs Sharma, and to my amazement, some readers here are so senseles that in her thread also, instead of giving her support or advice they are writing thier truobles with inlaws that they don't want to call their MILs for delivery.
Now I feel so bad for Mrs Sharma, when she reads these messages, she will definitely think that DIls are always criticizing their MILs( even the dils writing int hat thread are genuinely suffering!) This only shows that we are so indicidulasitc and self engrossed that we talk about only ourselves ..
Also, I wasnt to ask one thing, If just few words from me can generate such rage and anger in some DILs, theere is something wrong in them too as people who tend to get angey with any small thing tend to have bad relationships..I am not saying that all MILs are good may be the readers who post here, thier MILs are Horrible but imagine, my words (and in real world you will come across people who not always see eye to eye with you), can made you so mad, then how can I or anybody expect you to be sweet to your in laws???
Also, Mrs Sharma's DILs also would be bithcing about here in some forum? Imagine someone telling them that its not good, see urself first and they hitting back in angry mails!!
Instead of writing angry responses, you should think over this whole episode..If you can't tolerate a simple mail..(u could have ignored it, or could have siad that ur situation doesn't fit in this categore), you lashed out like mad dogs!!:-) ha..ha..
Dear DIls this anger is the rrot of your troubles..
I am a counsellor or not, you can believe whatever u like..I don't need a certificate from you..But Any body even he/she is not a councellor will teell after reading your posts that some of our readers are so individulaisitc that they can't tolerate anybody whether in laws or anybody..
I feel sorry for Mrs Sharma, she came to this forum for support and in her posts some DIls are criticizing thier MILs..
GROW UP GIRLS.. and don't bother replying this message because this islast time i am wasting my time writing here in this forum! Purvi replied. If I didn't know better, I seriously think you are an unemployed person who can't get a job and probably hasn't studied beyond high school.

Look at the way you are retaliating by just some women stating that they are highly educated and have good jobs. Now you sound like A MAD DOG (your words back to you)! Don't you dare call anyone names and get out of this forum before more women abuse you! NULL replied. All the DILs in this forum feel sorry for Mrs. Sharma and have tried to help her. There are even posts where DILs have said that their MILs are wonderful people and they share a great relationship with them. We all have problems with our in-laws but never thought or tried to give an impression to Mrs. Sahrma that all MILs are bad. If DILs in this forum felt that way they would have told this to her very clearly, just like we all told you clearly that we don't want you here. There is not a single post that I read where somebody told Mrs. Sharma that she is the one who is wrong, her DILs are right, and she is the one who needs to change. Everybody has tried to help her.

I think you were just looking at the replies to Mrs. Sharma's post to find something wrong with us, but since you couldn't find any such replies, you picked up a couple replies and made them look bad.

I am really glad that this is your last post. We visit this forum to find some peace of mind, but your posts are making everybody angry.
Just get lost! Very Angry replied. Look Rani,
I am sorry for replying as I just can't take it anymore. But leave us alone and just don't post anymore messages here and please don't bother us. We dil's are already too fed up of all the day today problems and don't need your suggestions what so ever from your side. Our heart really goes to Mrs. Sharma, she has full sympathy of ours with her. But you please don't give your advice, at least in this forum. And please take it seriously. We ladies are happy the way we deal with our problems. You are better off with your mumbai/NY counseling or what so ever. We are highly educated and mature ladies out here some of us have Phds and very higher degrees you can't even imagine about and are employed in high-tech industries and we don't expect any kind of gyan from you.
Thanks again!