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I feel depressed with my life during winter.

I think I need more friends but where do I get real good friends? I need a friend who is truthful and listens to all my Problems.I am not sure if I will ever find a personal girl friend.

I considered my husband to be a great friend and mentor but he turned out to be a jerk who cares only for his people.He has put me down to the floor and crushed me till I cried for my life. He carries his people photo in his purse instead of keeping his kids photo.forget wife.

I wish I knew some one who can make me smile just once. I feel angry and fustrated with myself. People rule my life sitting in india.
How can I be happy with a husband who does not care or love his wife? but just wants sex?
Why can't he understand that Love is more improtant than sex! How do I go on with just sex and no love?

Is there a way out of this?


quick idea replied. men think with their balls, therefore they think love is sex!

As for boredom in winter, there are so many activites you can take part in at the community centres.

Z replied. Hi !
Thats my life too !! But you know what I dont believe my happiness just depends on my husband anymore . Why must I give him so much of importance in my life .
In Winter I brigten my house with In Door Plants ,
Encourage my Husband to take me to malls just so we can see new happy faces as often as possible,
Try to cook interesting new dishes specially non veg ,
Its a good time to buy do it yourself - hobbies like paintings , cross stitch , T shirts from Micheal's or other craft stores , get books from library , get movies from Library .... by the way have you seen Veer Zaara hindi movie ... its nice ... i just saw it .
Idea is to think of keeping yourself happy . You are more important than any one else .
for y replied. The reason u feel depressed during winter is because the light levels are low which leads to depression.
I presume u have lived all ur life in India and now u live in a cold country like UK or USa.

The same same thing happens to me in winter. and its worse if u dont work.

U have just narrated my ongoing life in a nutshell. i have the same same problem.

During winter, i am depressed and have terrible mood swings. I guess some of us are more sensitive to heat and light changes.

I live in the UK. and feel ever so lonely and helpless.

AS a DIL, i have had my share of troubles with my inlaws. but thats not the worst. i have other problems and have problems conceiving.

i have no one around who can listen to me. i spend all my time doing housework or watching tv(cos my husband works in the evenings).

my husband never supports me when i complain about his people. i guess thats the way men are. i am sure most women feel that way.

if you want to be friends and have a heart to heart talk, let me know.

this message board is a good meduim to make friends