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Behavioural Problems:My 3 yr old Princess!

2006-08-21

Name: vidya rajesh My girl is attending nursery since 10days. The first 3 days she was more than happy to go to school, but after that the next 3-4 days was a fight to put her into the school bus. slowly she has settled down and though not happily she does get into the bus. the problem is she said somebody was trying to take her juice and things from her bag. when asked her teacher, she denied and when i questioned other elder kids, if that happened in bus, they too denied. Is my kid Lieing to me?
She was a very well behaved kid and hardly threw tantrums. these days she throws tantrums and sits down to cry if we do not get her the things she wants. all these changes are after she started school.the teacher says she is very good at orals and rhymes and activity, but when it is snack time at school she starts crying for me.
the teacher showed us ffew pictures and said that our daughter had done them with the teacher's help. the pics were too neat to be done by her even with help. is the school teacher telling a lie? please comment

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2006-09-02

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thanks, but hv a new problem.

thank you both for your views.i do strongly believe now all the paintings were made by her teacher, coz i tried ur own method. i made her colour a drawing and like u said she coloured everywhere except the drawing. the teacher said we did it by holding hands, i tried that at home.i held her hand, but still it did not turn out as neat as the teacher showed us.
now its almost a month and now she is a little settled, but a new problem has arisen. By nature she is very friendly, but she is choosy abt making friends. she goes by bus to school. she loves the time in her school, but hates the bus ride she keeps saying some KG 1&2 boys trouble her by pulling her hair, making faces or tease her. As per her nature she does not fight them back.i spoke to the boys mothers,but she brushed it off saying its her sons nature.i complained to the school authority, they said they will look into it. i am worried how to make my girl more bolder and also am confused as to how to go about this situation,please comment

2006-08-31

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Name: another mom of 3 yr old
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Reg My 3 yr old princess

I am also facing same problem (throwing tantrums, making fuss going to school) except that my daughter is not able to express what is bothering her at school. I had been to her school one day since she was refusing to go to school. Now a days these new schools have so many activities that its not possible to keep watch on what the children are doing as the teachers are busy trying to complete the activities like painting etc. Also i found that they scold chidren when they mess while having tiffin becuase of which my daughter refuses to have food. They also keep them so busy that they cant play by themselves even for sometime. I really dont know if its correct schooling. I am just waiting and will give her time to settle down otherwise i have to take some action.
Which school are you sending your daughter to.I am sending mine to Eurokids. Where do you live?

2006-08-30

#23

Name: hi
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Abt UR daughters painting/drawing .. I think her teacher is lieing ! This happened even with my son. His teacher showed me paintings like scribbling within a circle or square and paintings etc .. saying he has done it.
When I came home , I asked him to do the same thing .. He scribbled everywhere except the circle :). So i got to know in schools teachers do it and say kids have done it to impress parents. But I never took it so seriously. It happens in many places. So dont bother abt all these things so much.
Regarding tantrums, as school is new place its possible she is taking time to settle down . Give her some more time ! she should be fine !

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