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Role of in-laws:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

2014-11-20

Name: Kajal My mother in law is spoiling my child by giving him sugar to eat. Whenever he throws tantrums she gives sugar to him. Eating sugar is not good and can be responsible for worms in kids. I told her so many times not to give sugar to my poor little child but she does not listen.

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My mother in law is spoiling my child by giving him sugar to eat. Whenever he throws tantrums she gives sugar to him. Eating sugar is not good and can be responsible for worms in kids. I told her so many times not to give sugar to my poor little child but she does not listen. mohit replied. hello kajal
try to show her and explain her disadvantage and losses of sugar also its also harmful for your son, tell that to your mother in law, so she will understand and she will not give sugar to him. aniket replied. hello kajal,
don't argue with your mother in law on such a small issue, because this small reason may be cause may be create differences between you, that's why leave that topic and stay tension free. ramesh replied. hello kajal
dont take your mother in law in negative way because she also want his happiness and she is just pmapering him, nothing else and its her right, so you just explain the disadvantage of sugar for your child. radhika replied. hello kajal,
how much old is your son,and thats why you afraid to sugar sweetness, and you are worried about worms problem, so dont worry you can take proper suggestion from doctor, and dont go in negative way. lata replied. hello kajal,
usual every grand mother pamper her grand son or grand daughter,your mother in law just trying to keep him happy nothing else, so dont take it in negative way. prathamesh replied. hello kajal,
she is your mother in law and she definately in look towards her grand son happiness, so dont worry about this small things, and its ok small amount of sugar not harmful for kid health. Kinjal replied. Hi Kajal, do not worry she is just trying to keep your son happy and quite rather than throwing tantrums. Sugar will not be much problematic to health just see to it that he does not eat chocolates. Ashna replied. Your mother in law is just trying to make your son happy by giving sugar maybe because he likes it. Grandmothers usually pamper their grandchildren a lot and they hate seeing them in any mood but happy so don't worry. Nandita replied. Tell your mother in law that giving your child sugar is fine but once a day or something like that but not too much as it won't cause problem to anyone but the child. Explain her what all can happen if she give him/ her sugar. NN replied. How small is your child? Along with worms sugar also leads to cavities in their teeth which can be painful sometimes. To avoid that you can take him to a doctor for a coat on his teeth to avoid germs on his teeth. NN replied. All the grandmothers are very well known in spoiling their grandchildren but they do it out of love for them. Yes eating too much sugar does causes worms but if your child likes it then see if you can avoid the worms with something. Keerti replied. Hello Kajal,
You can explain to your mother in law what would be the problem to be faced so that she will understand and will not put to the baby and even she does not listen take her to the doctor so that your problem will be solved also. Madhu replied. Hi kajal,
I do not know what would be the problem would get for kids if they take sugar is it so harmful for kids.Can you post on it.And one things you need not to say repeatedly for you in law because it would lead to dispute. Lohita replied. Hi Kajal,
Why would you get tensed because such silly reasons will lead to disputes between you and you in law.So you just explain what would be the problem would occur if sugar is taken and she will cease it on her own. Nikki replied. Hi Kajal,
It would be better you need to change the pattern of explaining it to her you show it to her what would be the problems kids would get when excess sugar is eaten by kids then she would stop giving also. rakshita replied. mother in-laws dont understand the languge of kindness of sweetness. Tell her and show her facts as to how she is spoiling the kiddo. tell her to give him something nice and healthy when he throws tantrumss. be rude ravina singh replied. Why don't you talk your husband and both of you intervene? You can also get her articles and information about it so that she understands how harmful it can be. Don't be unduly harsh with her but put your foot down when there is a problem.

2016-10-09

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Name: mohit
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal
try to show her and explain her disadvantage and losses of sugar also its also harmful for your son, tell that to your mother in law, so she will understand and she will not give sugar to him.

2016-10-09

#22

Name: aniket
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal,
don't argue with your mother in law on such a small issue, because this small reason may be cause may be create differences between you, that's why leave that topic and stay tension free.

2016-10-09

#23

Name: ramesh
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal
dont take your mother in law in negative way because she also want his happiness and she is just pmapering him, nothing else and its her right, so you just explain the disadvantage of sugar for your child.

2016-10-09

#24

Name: radhika
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal,
how much old is your son,and thats why you afraid to sugar sweetness, and you are worried about worms problem, so dont worry you can take proper suggestion from doctor, and dont go in negative way.

2016-10-09

#25

Name: lata
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal,
usual every grand mother pamper her grand son or grand daughter,your mother in law just trying to keep him happy nothing else, so dont take it in negative way.

2016-10-09

#26

Name: prathamesh
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

hello kajal,
she is your mother in law and she definately in look towards her grand son happiness, so dont worry about this small things, and its ok small amount of sugar not harmful for kid health.

2016-09-26

#27

Name: Kinjal
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Hi Kajal, do not worry she is just trying to keep your son happy and quite rather than throwing tantrums. Sugar will not be much problematic to health just see to it that he does not eat chocolates.

2016-08-30

#28

Name: Ashna
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Your mother in law is just trying to make your son happy by giving sugar maybe because he likes it. Grandmothers usually pamper their grandchildren a lot and they hate seeing them in any mood but happy so don't worry.

2016-08-22

#29

Name: Nandita
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Tell your mother in law that giving your child sugar is fine but once a day or something like that but not too much as it won't cause problem to anyone but the child. Explain her what all can happen if she give him/ her sugar.

2016-08-22

#30

Name: NN
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

How small is your child? Along with worms sugar also leads to cavities in their teeth which can be painful sometimes. To avoid that you can take him to a doctor for a coat on his teeth to avoid germs on his teeth.

2016-08-21

#31

Name: NN
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

All the grandmothers are very well known in spoiling their grandchildren but they do it out of love for them. Yes eating too much sugar does causes worms but if your child likes it then see if you can avoid the worms with something.

2016-04-29

#32

Name: Keerti
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Hello Kajal,
You can explain to your mother in law what would be the problem to be faced so that she will understand and will not put to the baby and even she does not listen take her to the doctor so that your problem will be solved also.

2016-04-14

#33

Name: Madhu
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Hi kajal,
I do not know what would be the problem would get for kids if they take sugar is it so harmful for kids.Can you post on it.And one things you need not to say repeatedly for you in law because it would lead to dispute.

2016-04-13

#34

Name: Lohita
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Hi Kajal,
Why would you get tensed because such silly reasons will lead to disputes between you and you in law.So you just explain what would be the problem would occur if sugar is taken and she will cease it on her own.

2016-04-12

#35

Name: Nikki
Subject:

RE:Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Hi Kajal,
It would be better you need to change the pattern of explaining it to her you show it to her what would be the problems kids would get when excess sugar is eaten by kids then she would stop giving also.

2016-01-11

#36

Name: rakshita
Subject:

spoiling your child

mother in-laws dont understand the languge of kindness of sweetness. Tell her and show her facts as to how she is spoiling the kiddo. tell her to give him something nice and healthy when he throws tantrumss. be rude

2016-01-04

#37

Name: ravina singh
Subject:

Mother-in-law spoiling my child

Why don't you talk your husband and both of you intervene? You can also get her articles and information about it so that she understands how harmful it can be. Don't be unduly harsh with her but put your foot down when there is a problem.

2016-01-25

#38

Name: tina
Subject:

yaah showing her such articles on it will help. she also love his grandson so it will be helpful fr her to understand. use sometimes harsh words. it is not right to spoil a kid like this.

2016-01-12

#39

Name: rakshita
Subject:

yea Ravina, this is definitely a great option. when she talks to her husband ,they both can definitely come a good solution for it. Mother in laws understand only the language of their son and he would definitely be successful in making her understand.

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