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Role of in-laws:sud stray with inlaws or separately

2012-12-21

Name: rekha hello friends... i am getting married after fifteen day.. but i still cant make up my mind whether to have separate house or stay in a join family.. my in-laws have told me to decide but i am very confuse.. hoping for a god suggestion

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2016-05-04

Name: Kali
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RE:sud stray with inlaws or separately

Hello Rekha,
So you are not prepared mentally for your marriage but how is your marital life can you share it because you have married and it has been almost four years also what kind of message will you give to the people.

2014-03-19

Name: Priya
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Take the time

My personal suggestion is staying with inlaws helps you understand the family etiquette and protocols and some of the traditions which you may not be fully aware. Lot of work gets offloaded if you wish to go out for work. Money you spend is also very less. However if you are a person who can accommodate different styles of people and keep your focus on your health, career, etc then joint family works. But if you look at building a good rapport with your husband and make a family of your own, it is not really possible full swing. Husbands often don' t get out of their safe zones as long as they are with their parents but if you have a person who can understand (which is a rarity) then go for a joint system. I think it would take sometime to understand your spouse too so take the time and then decide. Otherwise being in a joint system for 4 years, I would not suggest it.

2016-02-01

Name: kim
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yaah totally agree with u priya at the initial stage it will help but after some years she can get seperated she should clear it with her in-laws well in advance. it will be great living with in laws as well as difficult to adjust too.

2013-01-29

Name: Gina
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inlaws

Stay separate so you dont have interference.

2012-12-21

Name: jia
Subject:

tell me

now are u in join family o onli u and ur parents???

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