My sister in law is very troublesome. She comes to stay with us every weekend but she never leaves without creating any issues. Me and my husband fight a lot because of her as she is the one responsible for creating issues in our happy married life. How to take care of this issue?
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My sister in law is very troublesome. She comes to stay with us every weekend but she never leaves without creating any issues. Me and my husband fight a lot because of her as she is the one responsible for creating issues in our happy married life. How to take care of this issue?
kanchan replied. hello lopakshi,
some people is like your sister in law only, so keep yourself away from them, it will helpful for us, only, they didnt get any chance to hurt anyone, so they will be hurt self only.
archana replied. hello lipakshi
try to talk with your husband when she is not around you, or not at home, so may be new way you can find out, its little sensitive matter, so handle it so nicely.
kalpana replied. hello lipaksha
why you fight with your husband that time keep your mind calm and dont give stress to your brain, let her go at her home, then sorted out all issues between to you.
dinesh replied. hello lipakshi,
if your mother in law trust on you, then there is no issue will create at your home if she told her anythig, its not affect on your family, so stay calm and handle problem smartely.
ruhi replied. hello lipakshi,
some people are more interested to give pain to others, i must tell you, and this type catagory people is 90 percent in world, so make strong yourself, and make yourself happy.
manoj replied. hello lipakshi
stay calm yourself, whenever your sister in law, come at your place, you knew that she will start doing and making fight between you both, so show your smartness to her, and dont argue with your husband that time,
prachi replied. hello lipakshi,
if you know very well that your sister in law, tried to fight between you and your husband, then why you fight with him, you just stay calm and quite, and everything will be go nicely.
bani replied. hello lipakshi,
i dont understand simple thing is this, if your mention in your problem that your sistere in law create all issues at home and you know that, then why you fight with your husband.
lopa replied. hello lipakshi,
tell her nature and how she behave with you and at home, all tell to your husband and mother in law too, so they will also know how her daughter behave in home.
rekha replied. hello lipakshi,
there is so simple way, that just ignore her, if she tries to talk with you, just clearely ignore her if she knows that you avoid her ignore her, so its good thing, let her know that, her bhabhi started ignore her.
priyanka replied. hello lipakshi,
i advice you just ignore and avoid your sister in law this is the best option to you have. silent is a big weapon always keep in mind that, it will create huge difference in situations.
nagma replied. hello lipakshi,
tell all things to your husband and mother in law that how your sister in law created issue between your family, if they know then definately take your side and there problem will solve.
harshada replied. hello lipakshi,
why you done fight with your husband if you knew the issue created by your sister in law, then avoid such fights on any topics with family member, and you also keep your mind calm.
mayuresh replied. hello lipakshi,
you take your husband and your mother in law in your trust place. and request your sister in law to dont create any issue on small reasons, try to keep her happy always.
irshita replied. hello lipakshi,
i tell you some people are more interested to give pain to other members your sister in laws from one of them, so keep her happy and let enjoy her moment to created issue in your family.
swanandi replied. hello lipakshi,
my friend suffer from same situation, she always discussed with me her in laws behaviour towards her, but i suggest her don't keep quite, give good answer to in laws, because if she keep quite, they will create more isuue in her life.
jigar replied. hello lipakshi,
why you entertain your sister in law so much, you knew very well her behaviour, so just keep your family talks stop in front of her, if she will not get any topic for issue how she will create issues,
Girish replied. Hi Lipakshi, it would be good if you can change the house or insist your husband to get transfer to some other city. Or else this issue is not going to solve if you tell your husband about it.
damyanti replied. hello lipakshi,
you had posted this post long back ago so what is situation at your home, is still your sister in law created issues in your family or not, or you should teach her any lesson.
prajal replied. hello lipakshi,
as per my suggestion, and suggest you, directely ask your sister in law face to face if she created such issue, ask her whats her problem and why she created such issues in your married life.
hello lopakshi,
some people is like your sister in law only, so keep yourself away from them, it will helpful for us, only, they didnt get any chance to hurt anyone, so they will be hurt self only.
hello lipakshi
try to talk with your husband when she is not around you, or not at home, so may be new way you can find out, its little sensitive matter, so handle it so nicely.
hello lipaksha
why you fight with your husband that time keep your mind calm and dont give stress to your brain, let her go at her home, then sorted out all issues between to you.
hello lipakshi,
if your mother in law trust on you, then there is no issue will create at your home if she told her anythig, its not affect on your family, so stay calm and handle problem smartely.
2016-11-22
#5
Name: ruhi Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
some people are more interested to give pain to others, i must tell you, and this type catagory people is 90 percent in world, so make strong yourself, and make yourself happy.
2016-11-22
#6
Name: manoj Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi
stay calm yourself, whenever your sister in law, come at your place, you knew that she will start doing and making fight between you both, so show your smartness to her, and dont argue with your husband that time,
hello lipakshi,
if you know very well that your sister in law, tried to fight between you and your husband, then why you fight with him, you just stay calm and quite, and everything will be go nicely.
2016-11-22
#8
Name: bani Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
i dont understand simple thing is this, if your mention in your problem that your sistere in law create all issues at home and you know that, then why you fight with your husband.
2016-11-22
#9
Name: lopa Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
tell her nature and how she behave with you and at home, all tell to your husband and mother in law too, so they will also know how her daughter behave in home.
2016-11-22
#10
Name: rekha Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
there is so simple way, that just ignore her, if she tries to talk with you, just clearely ignore her if she knows that you avoid her ignore her, so its good thing, let her know that, her bhabhi started ignore her.
hello lipakshi,
i advice you just ignore and avoid your sister in law this is the best option to you have. silent is a big weapon always keep in mind that, it will create huge difference in situations.
2016-10-17
#12
Name: nagma Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
tell all things to your husband and mother in law that how your sister in law created issue between your family, if they know then definately take your side and there problem will solve.
hello lipakshi,
why you done fight with your husband if you knew the issue created by your sister in law, then avoid such fights on any topics with family member, and you also keep your mind calm.
hello lipakshi,
you take your husband and your mother in law in your trust place. and request your sister in law to dont create any issue on small reasons, try to keep her happy always.
hello lipakshi,
i tell you some people are more interested to give pain to other members your sister in laws from one of them, so keep her happy and let enjoy her moment to created issue in your family.
hello lipakshi,
my friend suffer from same situation, she always discussed with me her in laws behaviour towards her, but i suggest her don't keep quite, give good answer to in laws, because if she keep quite, they will create more isuue in her life.
2016-10-17
#17
Name: jigar Subject: RE:troublesome sister-in-law
hello lipakshi,
why you entertain your sister in law so much, you knew very well her behaviour, so just keep your family talks stop in front of her, if she will not get any topic for issue how she will create issues,
Hi Lipakshi, it would be good if you can change the house or insist your husband to get transfer to some other city. Or else this issue is not going to solve if you tell your husband about it.
hello lipakshi,
you had posted this post long back ago so what is situation at your home, is still your sister in law created issues in your family or not, or you should teach her any lesson.
hello lipakshi,
as per my suggestion, and suggest you, directely ask your sister in law face to face if she created such issue, ask her whats her problem and why she created such issues in your married life.
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