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HI IM A MOTHER OF A 3 YR OLD BOY. I RECENTLY MOVED OUT OF MY PARENTS HOUSE BECAUSE MY CHILD WAS BEING SPOILED ROTTEN BY EVERYONE. BUT IM IN CLOSE CONTACT WITH THEM AND VISIT THEM DAILY AND HAVE TO LEAVE MY SON WITH THEM WHENEVER I HAVE TO GO SOMEWHERE.

MY SON BEHAVES PRETTY WELL WHEN HE IS WITH ME ALONE BUT WHENEVER THERE' S COMPANY HE GOES HAYWIRE. EVERYONE SPOILS HIM IN FACT THE NAUGHTIER HE IS THE MORE THEY LAUGH WHICH LEADS TO EVEN WILDER BEHAVIOR. I AM TALKING ABOUT KICKING, SCREAMING, BITING, THROWING THINGS, RUNNING ON THE ROAD, ETC.
I HAVE TRIED TALKING BUT MY PARENTS JUST LAUGH IT OFF. AND MY DISCIPLINING HIM ALONE IS NOT WORKING TOO WELL, BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT MUMMA IS NAUGHTY. HE WILL RUN TO ANYONE, EVEN PEOPLE HE HAS MET ONLY COUPLE OF TIMES AND REFUSE TO COME WITH ME. THIS IS ALL BECAUSE OF THE NUMEROUS SERVANTS AT MY PARENTS' PLACE WHO DO ANYTHING HE SAYS.
I HAVE TRIED LOOSENING UP A BIT, BUT IT DIDN' T WORK. I NEED HELP DESPERATELY. I' VE REDUCED CONTACT WITH EVERYONE BUT THAT' S NOT GOOD FOR BOTH OF US.
DOES ANYONE HAVE A SIMILAR PROBLEM? ANY SUGGESTIONS?
Shobha replied. In the situation you explained the behaviour of your child being spoiled by the servants in parents house in natural.

All children are naughty i.e. childish. They have to be groomed well as to teach them what is right and what is wrong.

Although parents always protect our children and take care of the children but unwantedly they some times do the harm which is never forecasted by them.

In your situation isolating your child for some time will be helpful in inculcating sense of discipline in child.

Best of Luck
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