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Role of in-laws:why does this happen
2010-04-08
Name: sriniva b



trying to make our relation work by all means, but the discussion goes hayway all the times, We are married for 2 years now and its a love marriage. For all those idealistic things we talk we both work and my wife is on maternity leave now.

There is always this problem of who is the best thinker among us. I dont understand where the problem is because I cant simple blame my wife however she does not understand what I am telling her:-)

Would it be ok if she says her mom and dad are important for her where we could not lead a independent life

Its ok to support your family but not at the cost of your individual happiness right?

I would not say a married woman should not bother about her parents, but here the situation is that we are trying to save thier heads just because she has to.

I still did not get to the point. I feel that my wife is unnecessarily supporting her family financially where she does not have control over the things back at home.

I dont understand why she does not want to think on her own rather than her mom' s


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