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Name: priya

Pls advise, i am 1st dil to my inlaws. They tortured me like anything especially my mil acting too smart before all others and my husband and fooled me by comparing me to my cosister who was married wihtout informing to their parents. when after 6 months of my marriage they used nag me by saying i dont have children and by god grace i became pregnant and had one wonderful child. Now my cosister was conceived after 4 years. They dont treat both me and cosisters in a same way. They give great respect to her and degrade me in every extent before others to me even before my hb. My cosisters hb supports her very much so they dont open their mouth and she got love marriage and me got arranged marriage. My dh allways degrade me in everyextent by comparing to others. I was strong those days and started doing job and studying and by keeping my son with them this many days. But now the problem is my Inlaws are going to 2nd son ( as her wife is pregnent). my dh also asked them to go for one year. The main problem is during their frequent naggings maximum times i dint answered back and after few days i started self defencing myself then i started stop talking to them. so now they are going there. My main fear is that my son i want to join in day care but i have an inner fear whether it is good my motherly views have a fear to join him in day care( One thing my inlaws used to take care nicely to my son). i also have a fear that if she ( Cosister) gives birth to any son my hb acts too priority to their family and also now i cannot go to their houses for that functions. Allready my mil started her own comments indirectly to me. I also have a fear that if something happens to my inlaws at their house, my dh wont excuse me and says that u only the reason for that. I am really confused. I truly want to take care of my son. Pls deadly i need of good suggestion. What i have to do. Right now i am not talking to them and they also not ready to speak to me. pls help

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