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We stay in one of these GCC countries and I have my in laws here.My mil is wth us and my fil stays in a different place close to where he works. My mil comes on visit every year for 6 months. My fil comes to our place every weekend. Now my problem is my husband doesn’t spends time with me..On weekdays he will be talking to his mother and comes to the bedroom only after I go to bed. (I have a small baby) and on weekends he spends time with his father and mother talking to tehm.he doesn’t respect anything called a private time for us. He says father comes only once in the weekend so he got to spend time with him. I have confronted him with this many a times and once or twice he managed to spend time for me but then again goes back to square one. He seems to be scared of his parents aswell..i think he is worried like what others think if I spend time alone with my wife. Now I want to keep my pride up and want him to come chasing for me. What can I do. Im just so so frustrated. Now his sister is also coming for a months visit. nOw they will all be occupied. I usually join them whenever I get time. But I get bored after some time. They talk about the same things repeatedly like how was it when the kids were small, what they did etc etc. please help what can I do to make my husband yearn for my presence. hi maria replied. Try to convince him to move to a different location , away from inlaws (with out telling reason tht u want to stay away from them)..like US or some where for professional growth..this is the only way u can get rid of things. lakshmi replied. Try to convince him to move to a different location , away from inlaws (with out telling reason tht u want to stay away from them)..like US or some where for professional growth..this is the only way u can get rid of things.