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Role of in-laws:Inlaws Problems
2008-10-23
Name: Vani Pai



Me and husband were staying before with his brother.now we shifted as it is very far for us to travel to office.We both stay in rented house,
My inlaws stay more time in our house than brother' s house as they have all the luxury to enjoy in this house as we both go for work,
I have problems with inlaws ,,, they always try to act as if they very caring infront of my husband,, morning they both getup early start cooking ,breakfast,,and every thing... Don' t let me do anything at home. Evening after i am back to home also my FIL wants to watch all favourite channels.. litrally he keeps telling my husband to put that channel.My husband is a kind of a person he will never say anything to them.. he supports them all the time...
Getting frustrated,,,, We shifted the house for our conveienece but inlaws took that advantage and always try to do the same what ever i do.. If i get some thing for house ,,very next day they also get the same kind of food,,,
I don' t like my inlaws..
Please suggest..
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2008-12-20
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Anonymous Name: Anjan
Subject:  Relax!!



Dear vani,

Relax don' t give so much of importance to your in-law' s actions, just ignore them and their actions, everything will fall in place, have a open talk with your in-laws in presence of your husband, make them understand you need your space, if they really want to see thier son' s family happy, they would oblige or else ask them to take off for a while, but ensure you are candid enough dont hurt them or thier feelings handle with emotion.

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2009-01-20
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Anonymous Name: Vani
Subject:  In laws problems



Thanks for your message..
I had asked this question infront of my inlaws, husband many times.. But they will not say anything and sometimes they have told that i am working in office like that. My husband will never support me and just bounce back on me and there will be a huge fight.They are completely different infront of his daughter,,,if she will come home ..she will accompany her mother and she will only cook and all.. My inlaws try to prove that their daughters are very smart and great in front of my husband.
They just dominate me in everything... thinking all these things i had gone to depression twice...whatever may the case my husband will always support them,,, if i just talk anything about his parents and sisters he will bounce back on me and it will be a big fight...
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