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Role of in-laws:house property sharing

2004-07-27

Name: nancy My husband is the only son with none of the parents living but he is having 3 sisters 2 married and having own house with rich inlaws and good family, one is still single yet to get married, we need to have our own house the prob began when my husband spoke to his sisters and said that he wants to sell the house in which we are not living only the sister is staying who is not married and he told his sisters that we need to buy a flat and that our old be sold and the single sister who is not married the money which comes after selling the house a flat be purchased for that single sister in law and remaining money we put in buying a flat for us.
Nobody agreed they want equal share in it and they dont like the idea of buying a flat for the single sister also they say she will get married one day but till then what
Has anyone got any soln to this prob

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2004-07-30

Name: Archie
Subject:

Sister-in-law

Dear Nancy,
Sharing property is their right, no matter whether they married to rich or poor inlaws. It should be that they should not be interested in it. If they are interested in property, legally they have all rights.

About younger sister-in-law, being him a sole brother he should or her other two sisters support her stay with one of them. An idea of having a separate flat for single girl is not a great one. Especially if you live in India.

I know none of the points I raised would be appreciated by you but if I were in your shoes I would follow what's mentioned above.

Sorry, seems no win situation.
Archie

2004-09-02

Name: nancy
Subject:

house property

Dear Archie,
Thanks for your suggestion. I am sorry, today only I came across your reply. I would like to tell you, the sister-in-law does not like to stay with the brother, she and the others hate him and me too. They think I will not treat her properly, whereas, this is wrong. I supported her for 3 years without giving her a single household job without asking her a single question, she would do what she wants, still she dislikes me. Whatever it is, I waited to have a baby, thought she should be settled and then I should begin my family, but bcoz of my inlaws perfectionism she refused all offers, we both shifted a place closer to my office, so that I could conceive yet be working.
The sisterinlaws want shares if we share the property amongst 4 of us equally, the smaller sister-in-law gets only one fourth amt which cannot fetch her a flat, since she wants to be independent, and her sisters were grubling of her eating at their place too. Since I feel it is our responsibility towards her to get her a property, even though when my mil was alive she fought and got all my mil's savings in her name and that time my mil said the house will go to her son. We did not take anything in writing. But is it wrong to think of her. Today we can earn collect money and pay our initial payment for the flat we thought of buying but what about her.
REgards

2004-07-30

Name: rrr
Subject:

Sister-in-law

I agree with what Archie says. Property should be shared among all the siblings, no matter if its a brother or a sister.

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