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Role of in-laws:another problem

2004-07-21

Name: sonia I have told 2 people in my extended in-law family about my troubles with my in-laws...the problem is one of these people has mentioned it to the other...I told both of them in confidence but did not tell the aunt I had told a Bhabhi.
The Bhabhi has mentioned it to the aunt.

I spoke to the aunt yesterday...she was concerned about how many people I had told...she was genuinely concerned about the situation.
She does not want word to get to my in-laws that I have been telling everyone how bad they are sometimes to me.

Should I phone the Bhabhi to beg her not to tell anyone else?

IT was my mistake but she knew I told the aunt so she was probably just asking how everything was going...but I have no idea who else she may have mentioned it to.

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2004-07-21

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You could call your Bhabi and ask her not to mention, but the cat has already been let out. Such stories catches on fire very fast. Anyways, if the stories reach your ILs, they wont do anything more than shouting at you. Be prepared to listen to their shoutings.

2004-07-21

Name: sonia
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dil....

I spoke to Bhabhi and she has reassured me that she has not told a soul. She spoke to the aunt in confidence too thinking aunt knew I had spoken to Bhabhi...I've learnt my lesson though ...no matter how much I trust these 2 people I won't even talk about my in-laws to anyone anymore.

It's not worth the tension hoping nobody will spill the beans!

We have to sort all these problems out ourselves at the end of the day.

Thanx

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