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I have a daughter who is hyperactive and also a poor sleeper. i was working before she was born. my husband and i had a normal relationship but of course we never could communicate properly to each other. like i am the person who keeps talking and he doesn' t talk much or listen with much interest. i wouldn' t say we are much compatible but nevertheless the relationship is going without major hitches. now with the child who is 2.5 yrs old and with no parental support from either side, it is exhausting and when he comes home i really want to talk to him and i want him to talk to me. but he never relishes talking to me and never keeps a cheerful face no matter how muchever i try. this makes me very unhappy and i have asked him many times to talk to me. but he never changes. instead says that because of me he is not concentrating on his job and criticises me for many things like the house is not neat, you are not taking of the child properly etc etc..
i am not in a position to take any decision. my child falls sick every 1 to 1.5 months and there is no parental support from either side. so it is difficult to make a decision to take up a job. what do i do to improve my life ? so replied. get a fulltime maid, with the help of ur parents/in-laws.. get someone whom u can track down from ur parents hometown etc. and continue with ur job.. astrologer shefali replied. my dear,
you havent mentioned why there is no parent support from both sides.secondly how is your financial position.reason for your husband behaviour is you only you will have to ask him what he wants from you when he critisizes you .as per the alligations he puts on you he want you to be a good housewife and take care of kid .