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Role of in-laws:husband told mil off

2008-02-28

Name: lovely Before i start my ram kahani just want to say i know its my fault but what do i do know ladies??
My fil calls me up and tells me to do few things, i get angry and let my husband know that i am soo busy on my own and now your parents want me to drop everything and do it. ( I was angry at him and stressed out due to my baby and lashed out) well this dumb idoit (my hubby) told her mother to not bother me with her stuff. Now my mil hasn' t called me or spoke to me for days.
i feel so bad now what do i do. Obviously my husband was mad at his parents aobut something else but just use me as an excuse

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2008-02-28

Name: sonu1
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I can understand how u feel as u busy with ur things and a daughter so obviously u will get angry sometimes....ur husband should not use u as an excuse to lash out at his parents....tell ur husband to go back and speak to his parents and tell them what he is really mad at or else if he refuses then u do it urself....and its his duty to do for his parents aswell not just u...husbands think that just becasue they are marrried their repsonsiblities for the parents is gone and it is passed on to the wife..but hello they are ur parents so deal with it....

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