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Role of in-laws:upset

2007-12-12

Name: anita Friends i m really upset today..my mil and hubby both shout at me like hell wenever they find some work being left out by me ..i do almost cleaning part of house,mil also does help me out to some extent..even i m human being some times i tend to forget some part of the house cleaning as i have othr work also to do..i feel soo alone ..i know im sounding stupid but i m really upsett..sometimes they act as if im maid and bonded labour to there house ..house belongs to them also even they can sometimes clean the mess...but wen my hubby does some mess they explain him with lot of affection overflowing and wen i do the same they will shout at me and create drama out of it..Friends i seriously feel there should be law where household work has to be equally divided my mil and dil' s..mil' s shuld be served only if they cross 60yrs of age..

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2007-12-19

Name: aa
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Hi Anita, i understand what you are saying, my mil/fil shout at me all the time....they think i am stupid(even though i have the same degreee as my husb). when they shout at me, my husb just sits there, ignoring me...i cannot stand this type of behaviour. If the law was that mil' s keep their mouth shut, i would have such a happy life/marriage. ignoring/walking aways is the only best thing to do.

2007-12-13

Name: gg
Subject:

hi...

anita...there should be some law very first law..mil' s should keep their mouth shut...
all of our probs will be solved...
see anita ...u dont hv to feel bad or miserable..u should be use to it by now....
if u are expeting ur mil to be nice with u same as she behaves with ur husband then ur expecting stars n moons..which wl never happen
she said ...she always does that ......anita we all hv gone thru this...if they dont put us down how will they prove their importance?
cheer up...n just ignore her...

2007-12-14

Name: anita
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to gg

Thankx for those wonderful words..ur right i am used to all this and wen i was posting this message same thing was going on at the back of my mind tht i should ignore but some times wen my emotions get out of control i look for some shoulder..basically im very strong to face things and i fight for my rights very boldy but u knowww sumtimes i also feel timid..i just hope tht we dont turn out to be like our mil in future...i think " MIL" this term itself makes them act like psyco sumtimes they are soo good tht i pity her but wen they turn out to be worst they r worst humanbeing in whole world..strange rt

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