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give me suggestion
i will not write very long
when i read all your trouble i just doonot understand why a girls have to adjust so much
i have sufeered a lot due to blind hubby and a very balming mil
now i feel paani saar ke upaar se nikal chuka hai
i could not tolerate any long
my parents have never drink a cup of tea at my place with respect whenever they come they are being told that their daughter is good for nothing
i am working in good job but my hubby have never given me one rs help nor he has taken good care of my child he loves him but does not take care of him i go for job my mil is whole day at home but never agrees t o take care of child even when he is ill either i have to take off or ppor child have to go to cretch wht is use of grand ma if she is sitting whole day idol and her ill grand child is at crecththey doonot pity really ridiculous my fil expired due to hear attack whole blame was put on me that due to bad realation with my hubby he was all time thinking so it happened i am tierd listning to long list of thier blames and hubby with them when i think of they hubby is also included in list
6 years have passed when u all tell to be soft to hubby slowly try i feel why a girl only have to compromise so much boys are also married na so why they doonot make even 1 adjustement
if i want to attend any of my realtive marriage my hubby doonot accompany me either i have to go alone ordoonot go in majority of cases if they have to go to any wedding even distant realative they all go and i have accompany them
if their daughter comes 10 dishes are preared and if my sis ter comes she is served with 10 taunts and no welcome
my parents came whrn my baby was born my hubby abused them so much with his parents that i can never forgive my hubby whole life for that
so whta is use of these kinds of realtions when they are all the time abusing you
even my husband is all times making faults in me
how can he be my life partner when he actually doonot love me his supprt channel is almost nili doonot what to do i m tierd finding solution to my life plz help me gg replied. i am feeling very bad for u...i hv said this in one of my msgs..its very easy to live with stupid ..cranky in laws but its very diff to live happy if u dont gt along with ur husband...ur life becomes miserable...
i am sure soemwhr u must hv done same mistake what i did...i too never conc on my husband ...i wish i wud hv done that long ago..
all thanks to my sil...i hv really learnt from her...i raellly think of her as a gods gift...ganapati has really blessed me with her..so that i realise my mistaks n do soemthing about it...y dont u try to get close to ur husabnd...this is the only way u can detach him from her mother...
i hope god helps u...
i wud tell u one thing dont hate ur husband so much..it will only make prob worse ...he is doing all this coz of his mother.... Chandra replied. i read ur message...and it got me very angry..
my husband has not said anything about my parents directly or to them, but i have noticed some indirect ways. and i put a stop to them. i told him if he has nothing nice to say, not to say anything at all.
IF he does not listen to me and goes against this wish of mine, i would NOT be with him. Simple as that. we werent born as girls to be treated in such a cruel manner. I refuse to live my life under torment and ridicule....i know, it is easier said than done, leaving is not an option for some people. but why not?
i would rather live a life with my child alone and content then with a family that cant respect my own parents.
i do not believe in divorce or separation, but more importantly, i dont believe in a life of misery. we live once....why put ourselves thru so much. no way. these people think we are unable to leave because we are girls, we have to take their comments...says who?!!?

think to urself, if you are really that miserable...why? do something about it. IF you can ' live with it' then there you go.

they arent gonna change. its up to you to step up and do something, or like i said, if its harder to leave, then put up with it.

sorry if this sounds rude or mean to you. its not meant to be. it just makes me so angry how people can torture their daughter inlaws and think they can get away with it. karma...i truly believe it. what goes around comes around.