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Role of in-laws:inlaws visiting us in USA pls help

2004-06-16

Name: jackie my baby is 4 months old and my inlaws are visiting us to see our new baby,i am terribly presurized because of that. my husband is avery nice guy and understanding, but my inlaws are extremely bad. My FIL insulted me and my parents a lot in india in my husband's absence. my MIL has also never been nice since 3.5 yrs of marraige. she always expects me to cook and serve for them, my husband did not take my side in india and so i am very sad. but he says he has matured now, no doubt he loves me the most he says he will be on my side, and he was wrong that time but i am too depressed now that they are coming.

i dont know how i should behave with them, my fil is totally rude in speaking and insults me and my husband both(But my husband never feels insulted) my MIL is a very lazy person she does not cook ,clean anything. i am studying rt now and with small baby i dont know how will i manage things, any ideas pl help.... i feel i will not talk to them at all id ont know what to do, please suggest gals

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2004-08-19

Name: Smacks
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Why I ought to....

Folks any kind of abuse. These types of abuses deserves a smack and a whip. I am outraged with this illicit behaviour. Why are people so evil? Sure prayer, music, etc., help. Really, no one no one belongs in the home....except the intended people. You, should be nice and firm with these people. For the love of God..avoid negative people including family at all costs.

2004-07-07

Name: Kasturi Sivanandam
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Don,t worry!!!!!!!

Hai jackie,try to talk to your husband and ask for a helping hand while there are with you,Just keep on do your ruotine and be very strong.People will be silent when we just ignore their comments and insults.OK,try to reply me bye.

2004-07-07

Name: jackie
Subject:

thanks

yes kasturi u re right thts what i am doing i try to avoid them as much as possible, i already had a tift with my mil bt wl try to follow ur advice

thanks

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