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Role of in-laws:inlaws need to move

2007-10-07

Name: desigirl My fil wants to move back to our country cause he loves it there and he is tired of dealing with his son' s who always put him down. I have a baby and my hubby' s brother (devar) just got married too. So mil use to say i won' t move till devar ki shaddi hou jai now that he is married she says that she can' t move cause of my baby!!. I dont want her to use my baby as that excuse ..that is my responsibilty ..you can live your life they way they want but nooo my mil wants to use the little 10 month old baby!! so my fil says to me that my mil won' t move b/c she says you don' t take care of your boy (lies) how do i get them to move. My new SIL, my hubby wants them to move but i do have my hubby' s sister who is also on mom' s side.
i know this confusing has anyone ever went thru this.

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2007-10-17

Name: SG
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Be clear

As we only u thru ur msg...so pls be clear with some details...then only this board will be able to console / help u in finding a solution.
R u in abroad with everyone living with u?
What is prob with in-laws?

Everyone on this board is going thru the same prob that' s why they all r here sharing there problems.So u r not alone.At home we feel like all other girls r happy & only some unlucky like us r facing such problems but when i come to this board i actually realize that its a worldwide issue.

2007-10-08

Name: Namita
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confusing

can u ans. few questions
1)Are you staying in a joint family?
2)I got a impression that you are ready to stay with ur devar and new SIL(devrani?
3)So where will ur inlaws go? Do they hve some arrangement?

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