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Role of in-laws:hi

2007-09-28

Name: ujwala Hi gg,at least ur in laws cooperating for ur child, for me when i go home they will give my baby to me acting as they r very tired and now releived from a tough job, she start listing the things she has done for the baby in that day including times my baby did su su, my husband giving me tough time saying its you b' cos of whom they have taken decision of leaving the house, everything is tiring, i feel i will loose my mental balance

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Hi gg,at least ur in laws cooperating for ur child, for me when i go home they will give my baby to me acting as they r very tired and now releived from a tough job, she start listing the things she has done for the baby in that day including times my baby did su su, my husband giving me tough time saying its you b' cos of whom they have taken decision of leaving the house, everything is tiring, i feel i will loose my mental balance SG replied. hi,
Why dont u put a parttime(at least for 6 hrs) maid even if u hv MIL at home. even they r old people & cant take take care of child whole day.We also get irritated sometime at the end of the day with our own child.
If u already hv parttime maid to take care of house / baby then tell ur MIL or maid that dr has asked to increase her diet.Mk a list for them.
U can also start sending her to a nearby playgroup for 2 hrs after she is 1.6yrs.
Once left the job then its not easy to get another after a long break. Rekha replied. My MIL would not even take care of my son for 5 mts.I had to leave such a secure job of WHO.Its been 10yrs, since I left ,my job but still iam happy that Iam looking well after my kid.She is capable of doing anything maybe harming my son too.Anyway she is too fond of her friend circle,kitty parties etc. etc..I too used to lose my mental balance but now I feel that all the years of toil has made my son capable and intelligent too had he been in my MILS supervision I dont know what would have happened. gg replied. yes i will agree on this..even if my mil hates me or whatever is the realtion between us she never takes revenge on my daughter. touchwood u will see me daughter sittting on her chest all the time n playing with her
my mil tells me so many times u go from my house but leave ur daughter with me
even daughter wont leave wo her, 4get about my mil my fil is just crazy about her.
one thing is there even if you have maid u cant compare maid with ur elders in family. be it any1 even ur mother. they can really take care well of our babies and they are experienced also.
u cant rely on any1 else

i pray god nothing goes wrong with my mil other wise i have to sit at home n leave the job

2007-10-17

Name: SG
Subject:

Keep maid

hi,
Why dont u put a parttime(at least for 6 hrs) maid even if u hv MIL at home. even they r old people & cant take take care of child whole day.We also get irritated sometime at the end of the day with our own child.
If u already hv parttime maid to take care of house / baby then tell ur MIL or maid that dr has asked to increase her diet.Mk a list for them.
U can also start sending her to a nearby playgroup for 2 hrs after she is 1.6yrs.
Once left the job then its not easy to get another after a long break.

2007-10-04

Name: Rekha
Subject:

My kitty party MIL

My MIL would not even take care of my son for 5 mts.I had to leave such a secure job of WHO.Its been 10yrs, since I left ,my job but still iam happy that Iam looking well after my kid.She is capable of doing anything maybe harming my son too.Anyway she is too fond of her friend circle,kitty parties etc. etc..I too used to lose my mental balance but now I feel that all the years of toil has made my son capable and intelligent too had he been in my MILS supervision I dont know what would have happened.

2007-09-28

Name: gg
Subject:

yes i will agree on this..even if my mil hates me or whatever is the realtion between us she never takes revenge on my daughter. touchwood u will see me daughter sittting on her chest all the time n playing with her
my mil tells me so many times u go from my house but leave ur daughter with me
even daughter wont leave wo her, 4get about my mil my fil is just crazy about her.
one thing is there even if you have maid u cant compare maid with ur elders in family. be it any1 even ur mother. they can really take care well of our babies and they are experienced also.
u cant rely on any1 else

i pray god nothing goes wrong with my mil other wise i have to sit at home n leave the job

2007-09-28

Name: ujwala
Subject:

my dauughter is more happy with our maid, even if my MIL is carrying her she will jump to the maid after seeing her, afternoon my mil will feed her khichadi and after going home i give her biscuit or cerelac at 8 - 8.30 i evening till then she has just 150 ml of milk

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