Name: xxx
hi,
well i read this board regularly and today i myself want a solution to my problems-
when i got married,everything was fine for atleast 1 year.i live with in laws and hubby.as time passes by somehow my in-laws have become very irritating.i thought maybe by time they will have more confidence in me as well as hubby in managing our lives,but somehow they still treat us as kids.i mean sooooooo interfering.my hubby thinks thats they are concerned.
see they dont illtreat me or say bad things,but they are very much discipline types..its good i know but not always.if we are late some nights they keep on worring specially my MIL ....too much interference.She cant thinnk of lying a back seat now.she is so sensitive if we try not to listen what she says.
nowdays so many boys live separetely from parents,my hubby is so respectful and caring towards them but my in-laws demand a little too much from us in terms of respect and care...not money.my MIL is always scared that we should not leave them...she will die of lonliness.i think she is a crack.very insecure and very emotional.this is what i dont like.i dont mind taking responsibilities of house but i dont want them to dictate me terms.y will i do something wrong with them?
i dont know how to put in exact words what i mean but as they are getting older they are becoming weird.specially my MIL i dont know whats happen to her.i feel she should go to a pychatirist.uselessly sitting at home and watching serials.dont to like this,like that..whole day kit kit.im so irritated.
I WANT TO SEPARATE and stay somewhere closer to their house but not with them.i told my hubby to change his job to some other city but right now he is not in applying anywhere as he is content with his job.WHAT SHOULD I DO?he is only son i feel guilty also in thinking of separeting..but im now fed up with their stupid interferance and irritatting habits.they think they r elder so they have more experiance in everything...and we both are fools.