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Name: Anindita B

Hi people..
I have a boyfriend and we have been seeing each other for the past 3 yrs ut its not before another 3 years or so tat we get married.

My would be mother in law is a very very sweet person. She' s a real fun to be person and I really like her a lot.

My problem isn' t with her. Its my mother in law' s mother in law whose going to be a big problem in my life and my mother in laws sister in laws. As far as I know, they have been very torturing since the day my mother in law got married and came to the family.

My bf is the eldest among five children and that means I shall be the eldest DIL of the family.
My future mother in law wants me2 be as calm and compassionate with her in laws as she has been all these years even if they are wrong.

I am studying law at the moment. And the kind of nature I have and the kind of profession I am into I dont think I can take this kind of attitude and wrong behaviour from anyone. Nor can I tolerate anyone saying anything to my mother in law in front of me for no fault of hers.

But my mother in law dislikes this and wants me2 be quiet in front of all of them. My bf says I shouldn' t stand all that his mother had to. I dont want to disrespect my mother in law but I cant stand this. She is very sweet and I also want her to voice her opinion. ButI know she wont.

Bein a lawyer in a few years I dnt think I can manage with this behaviour from people. Moreover I have to stay in the same joint family.

Wot shud I do...........??

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