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My sister-in-law is the most rudest person I've ever met.

She has never liked me, even though she claims she does!

Her problem with me is a very simple one....she is a very jealous person. She is almost 32 and not married yet..she is not good looking at all...and ruins everything by talking in a very blunt and rude manner. She thinks she is better than everyone else and her arrogance and ego are her downfall.

She finds fault in everything I do...including being a wife and a mother...both of which roles she has no experience...she will say that she can do better than me when she is a wife and mother!!

she wants to have a good relationship with my child but she does not ever talk to me.
She wants to have a good relationship with my husband but he says that they have never had a good relationship even b4 we got married.

She not only is rude to me but also makes comments about my parents and brother. I will not tolerate this kind of behaviour...I have never told her that she is rude and that si why she carries on like this spoilt child.

I want to say something to her but don't know what to say.
My in-laws will never admit she is wrong and although my husband knows what she is like he has not ever told her to stop this behaviour.
I have told him to confront his younger sister...he has agreed when the time is right.

We'll see what happens...but in the mean time I don't talk to her on the phone....she did not even have the courtesy to say 'Congrats' on the phone when we told the family we were expecting another child.
The good thing is I am in the USA and she is abroad.

It is all about jealousy with her....what goes around comes around...the rule of Karma. kiran replied. Hi,
I had the same problem with my sil. She was always very rude to me and my parents. I totally stopped talking to her on the phone. Only times We call her are to announce any good news about our family. She gets more and more jealous at this. But, I kind of feel good about my self ... I'm making somebody jealous!!! So stop thinking about all the shit she talks. It will take time but I'm sure you'll get over it. It took 5 years for me to do so. Don't expect your husband to confront her. You show her that what she says do not matter at all to you. Don't talk to her even your husband calls her on phone. I used to run into bathroom and shut the door when my husband called his parents or sister on phone. Otherwise, they would want to talk to me also and then say some thing very mean to me. When I avoided talking to them, my husband understood that I did not want to talk to them. I'm very happy since. Hope this helps you. Good luck with your new baby on the way.