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Hello, I am just depressed as my hubby elder sister is interferring too much in our lives, she tries to dominate with my hubby and tells him what to do and what not to do, which irritates me a lot. Can anyone suggest how do we keep her out of interferring in our lives. tks mdh replied. my sil is also same she always shows the love between her and her brother and always try to challenge me like i can't interfere in brother and sis relation.the way i do also wrong.some times i remove my anger on my hb.but he can't do any thing in that.because is he stop his sister then she might feel very very bad and try to cut offf from my hb.noe that my hb don't want he said that only few people are our own and we don't ahve to brokeup the relation with her.if u wish to side line her then simply ignor her big time.don't talk with her tiil then she really want to talk to u or even avoid to discuss her topic in home with everyone.that makes u feel in uper level.u can maintain ur ouw level(thinking level and living style).
nb2004 replied. Frankly SIL will never e out of your life. YOu just have to tune yourself out of it. What she tells your husband that he will have to answer.
IF she tells you something you can just cut off the conversation saying that you have to go etc etc. IN sme time she will realise that you dont really appreciate her advice.
Dont have to show her that you are angry or anything. DO what you want to do. Infact even tell her that you did thins this way and she will see that you dindt take her advice. That will be more than enough to let her know that it doesnt matter what she says. You do what you feel like doing. If you are in USA we can talk :)
Love and Luck Divya replied. thanks vinaya,
I try to ignore her, but sometimes i get so angry that i remove my anger on my husband Vinaya replied. I am in the same position as u, so i can understand ur pain. It is hard life, to manage this SIL. Try and see if u could just ignore her.