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Role of in-laws:just like that

2006-09-16

Name: Rashmi Hi all,
I just thought of writing down my random thoughts for no particular reason.
I always find similarities between my hubby & his mom in the way he laughs, he talks etc etc. It's not his fault though but still sometimes suddenly I don't know y I just hurt him(for no fault of him) by saying mean things when he reminds me of his mom. I can't believe that I have so much hatred towards that woman. I have never hated anyone in this life like i hate her.I am not feeling guilty because I hate her but I am feeling guilty due to the fact that I hurt my hubby by saying mean things to him because of her. Hopefully,after writing this post, I might be able to control my tongue.
Thanks

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2006-10-03

Name: Suja
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Same boat

I too do the same at times but i have stopped it now dont want to hurt him anymore. I love him so much. Dont do it Rashmi no fault of his. Bechara. What ever i scold him next time he comes to me like a baby. Feel sorry for that. Know he loves me but i hate his mother what to do.

2006-09-17

Name: aba
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next time b4 u speak nasty to ur hubby, just imagine how u wld feel if he was mean & nasty to u coz he hates ur dad(or mom) like anything just becoz u like like him/her........don't spoil ur married life coz of 1 woman. & COUNT TILL TEN BEFORE U OPEN UR MOUTH :-)(believe me it works)

2006-09-19

Name: rashmi
Subject:

Thanks gunita,renu,aba
Aba,ur idea really seems to be working
tx

2006-09-17

Name: gunita
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get over it

even i have a very clever and cunning MIL but dont accuse your husband because he is her son.atleast he is with you and that is the greatest strength one can have.just ignore the mannerisms of your MIL,look for the positive points in your husband try to keep him happy

2006-09-17

Name: renu
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same here

I do the same thing sometimes too.....unnecessarily get angry over hubby bcoz his behavior/habits sometimes remind me of his irritable mom.....can't help it...!!!

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