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dear
wud you like your mom 2 b treated like that
no matter ure relatives dont say anything but sympathy will always go with your mom in law
visit her as if your obliging her
dont want to forgive/forget fine dont do it
No need to be mil fearing BUT be GOD fearing
kuntala replied. Agreed, no one would want her mother to be treated like that. But what would you do if you saw your mother doing that with your sister in law. When I see my mother behaving badly, I certainly correct her and have done that. In my case, when my mil is unduly dramatizing, my sil (who is well educated) joins in and adds more fuel. Just reminds of those old \" Sati Sakku bai\" type movies where mil and sil join together in spoiling dil's life. If you say you are god fearing, you should read the gita. Whether you are fighting your own uncle or mother, it does not matter. The battle is good vs evil. The Gita says \" Be content and silent with any lot\" and thats whats meant by ignoring nasty people. My mil too is god fearing and so am I. But when it comes to ego, there is only one god, that is yourself. karma replied. Dont try to be so saintly..

You are surely one of those hypocrites who says something and does something else..

Must be a man...whose wife is giving your mother hell..I hope she continues to give her hell that she deserves!! kuntala replied. I don't think fdgdf has written so bad about how she handles her mil. It is you God-fearing people who don't understand the real meaning of karma and make dils go on guilt trips. You people scare with things such as \";If you treat your mil like this, then one day your dil will treat the same\";. Need not be. I dont think this hypothesis will work always. What if you treated your mil like god but still got a dil who treated you like s*** ? Won't you say \";Why am I being treated like this, I was God fearing, never hurt anybody and all the other bulls***\"; ? Its just hypocrisy. I too have inlaws who call themselves broadminded, openminded but pounce on anybody and everybody for the pettiest reasons. Its the same with god-fearing people, you tie up with age old baseless superstitions and not true religion.