Love  Discussion Forum

I am a Chinese girl and I love an indian guy. He is nice and kind hearted, attractive. He is abt 29 and single. But he said he is going to get married soon cause his parents want him to do so. He said he likes me, but I should go and find some other nice guy to get married with. He will also look for an indian girl to get married with even he doesn' t love any woman and he doesn' t want to get married. We still meet and stay together.It is really painful for me. The more I meet him, the more I love him. But we don' t have future. He said he will just get a tall and good looking indian girl to get married.Is that very hard for a indian guy to marry a chinese girl?Please give me some suggestion whether I should give up this guy,thanks.I just love him and I don' t care abt the race,the religion, culture,etc.But why it is still so difficult for me? Ishika replied. Really sad story i wish i could have helped you in this matter but then dear this is not possible as you will not be accepted by the family and you will not get the love back from the family and you will suffer in the end. Ishan replied. Hello madam this is really sad to hear but then nothing can be done as your caste and religion are way different and also you are not an Indian so please do keep the faith that the person will come back to you as he will not. Priyanka replied. You have the guts but then the person you are loving is not having the same, so please its waste of time and you are thinking that he will come back to you then you are making the biggest mistake of your life as he will not come back. Priya replied. You broad minded and you said you dont care about the race religion and caste but then here these all are taken in account and based on this marriages are happening so please do not waste your time here as nothing can be done. Preeti replied. Hi dear stop over thinking so much and get yourself a break as you need one badly, also after the break decide where you want to go in life as life is very short and you just cant waste in this small problem. Pooja replied. Hi there this is very complex issue as here in India people are very much into religion and caste as they feel their religion is far superior then others that is the reason India is way behind the other countries. Pinky replied. Hi dear we are pleased to inform you that we run a dating app and from there you can find a like minded person for yourself, please feel free to contact me and we can guide in this properly. Awaiting to hear you soon. Pari replied. Hey dear this is bad what happened to you but then nothing can be done as it was not in your hands and you should think that it was destined so please stop worrying and just think about your future and nothing else. Kinjal replied. Please be calm and relax as that person is not worth for you and you should think positively in this matter, if you want i can help you in finding a good match for you as i run a matrimonial site and we have lot of options for you. Kiran replied. Hi dear my sincere love to you, but you are not here to make things ugly for you as you are young and independent and i am sure you will get a good match for yourself its just some time is required for you to do. Kavita replied. According to me you should think that you are the best and also lucky that you have been saved by getting into a wrong relationship as he was not worth for you, trust me you will get a better person then him just wait and watch. Karuna replied. Hello my friend please do not feel sad about it as that man was not faithful for you and he is also not deserving for your love, please find a suitable match for yourself and you will not get alone as you need find him properly. Kamini replied. Hi there i am sure you will get a good match for yourself and that too an Indian as i am sure that every one will get their life partner its just that some get early and some has to wait for it, in your case you need to wait dear. Ginni replied. Hi there i am really feeling the pain for you and also thinking that why are you so eagerly waiting for that person when he clearly said that he cant marry, please do not wait for this man as he will not come back. All the best dear. Geetanjali replied. Hi dear this is really sad to hear this but please do not feel alone as there are many people who dont get their love and its fine, do one think just give some time to heal this pain and then search a good person for yourself. Gitika replied. According to me you stop thinking about him as we will not come back to you, please do not feel about it but then he is also not in a state to leave his parents for you, i hope you are understanding the situation. Geeta replied. Hi dear please do one thing instead of thinking so much why dont you start searching a good match for yourself as that is not the only person left in your life and i am sure you will get a good person. Garima replied. Hi dear this is very common issue when it comes to inter caste marriages, please make room for yourself as this will really not work for you guys and the man you are dating is not worth for you. All the best dear for your future. Sujata replied. Hello dear please do not worry at all as this is very normal and we say that once you get heart broken in life so this is that moment, please be calm and relax and just focus on your life and make it better for yourself. Shreeja replied. Hey dear this is not a normal case as here marriage to different caste is not allowed and you are to from different country, please do not feel bad about it but the its difficult for you to find a perfect match here.