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Role of in-laws:going to india

2006-06-17

Name: rita dear friends
I'm going india with my baby to stay with inlaws and parents for 6 months.
it will be a hectic time with inlaws asusual they are very pricky and mil cannot stand me in front of her. god should help me get through this trip and my baby is small and i'm already worried about their health and their adaptation to indian enviroment. my life is such a way that i cannot stay a long time with my parents too. The same old sil,mil and fil problems i have like most of girls...pl. tell me and advice me in advance how to tackle any things happening...especially if they interfere in the baby's health matters and prick on me...i'm still breast feeding my baby(9 months now)...i want to do it for few months more than a year..becasue i'm afraid to start cow's milk in india...i heard it causes allergies and once coming back to usa,they may have milk allergy...if there is a problem with milk in india...i will want to breastfeed them as long as possible..till i come here and start whole milk..with god'd grace i'm still getting milk...their main aim is that i shd stop my milk and give formula...i have to tackle such problems, be a good dil and come back with good health of my babies...pl. advice.
thanks
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rita.

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2006-06-29

Name: HP
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carry some formula milk with u

my baby is also 6 months and i m working too... (i m from india, delhi)
its not poss to give breastfeed whole day to my baby.. so i have strated giving him Mother dairy milk.... babies generally cannt digest cows/ buffallo milk....

i suggest you carry aome formula milk powder with u while going to india..... bec if u give any indian product formula milk/ baby food than ur baby might not adjust back in usa /uk where ever u are...

so carry the things with u while going there bec after 6 months when u come back by that tm ur baby will be 1.5 and u have to start some solid food also....
by this u can always show to ur MIL that u are giving extra food to ur baby

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