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Role of in-laws:what shud i do

2006-05-03

Name: amitha My inlaws insulted me & publicly ostracised me in my BIL's wedding.The only possible explanation i can figure out is that my husband did not finance his wedding fully.I cant blame my husband too as even we aren't very strong financially.bil is a professional & earns well(but he's a poor fellow as he earns in rupees).Fil is a complexed & complicated person who is still living in 18 th century
i am still bitter about the whole issue I have to go to india for my brother's wedding but the thought of visiting my mean in laws kills the whole enthusiasm of the trip

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2006-05-08

Name: Amitha
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thanks

dear friend i will keep this in mind

thank you very much I was desperately waiting for ure response

2006-05-08

Name: DIL
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Amitha!

Hi Amtha,
Actually, This is very common problem every DIL faces with inlaws.(Reasons might be different).

So ,Don't worry! u r not alone.Do u have ur hubby's support?If u have it,Just stay cool andN'joy ur brother's wedding. When it happens to go ur inlaws home...bear their comment with a q'mark face.I know u r thinking me as CRAZY to advise so...Because this is IMPOSSIBLE even in thoughts.But ,never that impossible in doing ,dear!
Practice it and if u really wants to save your terms with them...Just be cool and be dumb to their comments...

First of all, tell ur hubby to warn them not to scold in front of people...
If this time too it happens again to abuse in public......STOP TALKING TO THEM FOR A MONTH.They mght realise.

Ok dear,Best of luck! Dont spoil ur mind with those thoughts.N'joy wedding and spend less time witht hem and return back wth only good memories and not those illmemories.

2006-05-05

Name: DIL
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Dear Amitha

I have good idea and will suggest u on monday..My hubby is on the way and I dont want him to c this board ...

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