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Role of in-laws:Cannot forgive them!!!

2006-04-03

Name: so worried I cannot forgive my in-laws for all that they have done to me.My FIL is an insecure crazy man.All he wants is we should go back to India so he does not get bored anymore.
I am fed up girls.
My hubby is nice but gets emotional.He thinks it's valid for them to crib so much.
The main problem is i am going crazy. I want him to tell me that they are wrong and that he understands.
It's so difficult.He loves me but bcoz of how much i hate them i kind of wish he loved them less or at least resented them for all that they have done.I want him to say he will not go back to india just bcoz of their blackmailing.
I know i know that will never happeN,BUT HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF UNDERSTAND???

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2006-04-14

Name: Niyati
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Hi relaxed

hi,
I had same problem. I did the same thing keep busy myself with work but when come home the same problems and this will keep more tense because of work tiredness and unsatisfaction.
What i feel is by going out i am run away from problem. And my problem is what is my life. With my husband.
That i don't want.He is not a life partner.
still i am searching for solution. I come up with option. do live alone or create situation so my husband come with me and stay with me.
Because i am dam sure that i will not live with his parents. They effect me in such a way that i don't like to see their face.

2006-04-04

Name: xyz
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hey so worried,
I wonder if u-Sandhya and B r the same person who posted their messages on this board.
You all sound so similar!

I just wanted to make this point clear, no matter what ur inlaws did to u ur hubby he will always respect his parents. Its a universal truth (accept it or not)

Okay let me ask u this question: Will u disown ur parents if they mistreated ur hubby. (If u cannot disown ur parents then don't accept a son disowning his parents, that too who is an Indian.)
My suggestion would be get urself busy with something (work or any other thing) otherwise the thoughts of ur inlaws n as u said ur r going crazy will surely affect ur health.
Take care!

2006-04-04

Name: xyz
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