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Hi,

When i got married, i always wanted to treat my inlaws just like my parents. I learnt later that they esp my father in law treated my family very badly during our wedding. He shouted at them for trivial reasons. I tried not to remember all those unpleasant things. But whenever he visits us, he says always bad about other ppl, keeps talking bad about other relatives (our family, his relatives). Mil keeps quiet, but i try my best to keep quiet. He is a bad person. everyone knows this. But none of his relatives say anything to him. How come? Somepoint in his life, someone should try to stop this behaviour. Why doesnt anyone say that. My hubby is at office and so doesnt know the exact details. Please give me suggestion as to how to handle him when he visits us or we visit him. I respect them, but i wish God changes his character (which hasnt happened till now). sr replied. Your father in law is very jealous. He feels very small in the presence of your father and others. He is a very insecure person. I suggest you get him a good shrink.