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Role of in-laws:Problem with MIL's sister

2005-11-28

Name: M Hi,
I am a mum of 2 1/2 yrs old daughter. My inlaws are good people and my husband is also very good person. But my problem is my MIL and my husband use to follow my MIL's elder sister's advice. She is acting in front of my hubby as she loves my hubby than her son. My hubby believes that. My MIL always she will listen to her words. The worst thing is she will daily call her talk over phone(booth) atleast half an hour. And she will tell the entire story to me. What all my MIL cant exypress to me those things she will tell\";my sister adviced me so we will follow that one. She will do good things only for us\";. Since four yrs i am bored with this dialogue and i couldnt do anything as my hubby was also their side. But now slowly i told what all she did during my delivery and my hubby is changing. Now we are in UK and we r returning shortly. My MIL's sis is ready to come and stay with us with her 85yrs old motherinlaw. Whenever she comes she wont allow me to sleep with my hubby. during delivery she came to my place and she didnt allow me to talk personally with my hubby who had to return for job. I dont want her interference in my life. At the same time i dont want to hurt my MIL's and hubby's feelings. Help me to tackle and avoid her interference.

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2005-12-01

Name: s r
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don't ...

Girl,
Dont let the stupid cow stay with you...
Ask her to make her own arrangements.
And if she does end up staying with you then she has to stay under your rules!

2005-12-02

Name: M
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Thanks

Hi,
thanks for ur reply.Though her stay will be a short term, it really changes my hubby and my efforts to change him goes waste. If she comes that month budget will shoot up. I am really upset if i think about her.

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