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Hello everyone,

Please give me advice....i am so angry and i am bursting want to thrash them...

Here is my story...

Recently when i was in India i lost my pregnancy at 5 months .My husband was here in US.After hearing this my DH immediately flew down to india to be with me.

The thing is i don't have a good relationship with my MIL and BILWS...They have insulted my mom infront of my eyes and i will never even in my dreams i forgive them...When we9me and DH) were going thro' lots of shit....None of them in his family came to see us....His another brother who is here in US came to india(that too to the place where i was)...he didn't even come to see us...atleast not for me ...for the sake of his brother also no one was there except my family..
I was worried abt my husband and was depressed so i didn't talk anything abt it ....then we left to US together....When i was there my Co-sister was telling me that she wanted to come to see me ...but her Jack ass husband said...y do we have to go and see her...she is fine only na like that...i realized that his brothers are sick bastards who will not even give support to his own brother when he needs them more....

My husband was crying after hearing this news and he was alone here in US.When i called my co-sister and asked her husband to call my husband and talk some few words ...she told me that everyone is sleeping...what is the urgency to call now...I was very shocked to hear those words...If i was well...i would have been thrased her left to right....Later i went to his house..I was feeling hungry since that was 5 months baby and there was no one to feed me also....I have told my husband several times that i dont want to go to his house but still he doesn't listen...

Now she has function for her son(sacred thread fn)...and she wanted me to come and help her...How do i go..?How will my heart allow me to help those kinds of cheap mentality ass holes..Whenever i think abt them ...my husband wanted to go...but i told him that we r trying for a baby now and this is the most important thing for us and we will not go...and anyways our visa also expired....so he some kind of promised that we won't go to india now...but whenever he talks with those a$$ holes he changes his mind...i feel like writing an email and copying everyone in his family...to let them know what kind of a$$ hole they are....I just waiting for the right chance to tell them....But i don't know where this can lead us....My husband always supports his family like other guys do....if i say something....i am worried abt relationship between me and my husband...My MIL is one evil...i don't want to talk abt her anything ....If she dies i bet she will go to hell....Sometimes i get very angry with god....He is seeing everything and won't harm bad people at all...

Now we are trying for another pregnancy and almost everyday i think abt them and i get very angry...i know it is not good for me..but i cannot avoid it...until i tell them what i felt and feel abt them.....my heart won't be at rest...any advice ...please

RS

RS sonu replied. hi RS,

there are many DILS like u in same boat.Dont worry.Mine is not like urs case,but partiality is always done to us.My husband also supports his family n get bad name.

Its also a long story.anyways i would only suggest u to take care of ur health n only concentrate in TTC.thats it.more u be negative more u will feel difficult to conceive.So just stop thinking about such peoples who are just no worth to think of.Better u think about Ur hubby n how could u conceive,do some yoga so u be sexually active n ur organs get strong enough to conceive fast.

Really RS i also suffered many things while i was pregnant .n was deeply depressed but then i thought about the tiny little beautiful baby inside me who wud be also suffering bcz of me. so i stopped thinking about such worthless people.Though because of them my pressure arised n deliverd by caserion.but by lookin at my baby all sorrows vanished.

So please have faith in GOD. GOD is always there with good.what do u think such people stay happily after making suffer other people??? No my dear some how today or tomrow they will suffer.Y u r trying to be like them.U be always good to get good fruit.

U know in Bhagwad gita its written do good n never expect for fruit.today or tomrow u will get it.

Take care n all the best RS
sonu