Hi Archie
It`s really good that ur back.How was your trip Hope u enjoyed.How`s advait.
It`s a month passed doing D&C but wounds in heart r still fresh.How much me and my husband wanted this baby.But we lost it.May be God has stored something good for us so he took this baby from us anyways whatever he does is always for good and i know soon he will bless me with baby.
I am really trying to come out of this.And i know friends like u around will never let me remain sad u have always helped and encouraged me
Archie doctor has told me to take 3 months gap and then try to conceive.Archie u said in ur mail that this happened bcos of chromosomal disproportionality what does this mean can u pls explain me in detail.Sorry if i am bothering u
Archie thanks for everything.Love to darling Advait god bless u all
Take care
Sangeeta


archie replied. Dear Sangeeta,
I don't know whether I will clarify it easy way.
When you conceive it's union of egg and sperm (two sets of chromosome -one from each parent) and then after a few cell division it's settled. DNA while replicating makes some error and usually they are fixed but sometime they remain to be fixed and results in mutation(s). Some of the mutations cause defects or some cause death. This is what I meant.
Sometime the sets of chromosomes are not exactly the way it should be and that also result in defective fetus formation and results in abortion.

In a way or other, it's always good to have such fetus aborted before developing with some anomoly. Baby with anomoly if brought to the world is big physical challenge for the child and parents have to see through life, which I think is worse than loosing it before birth.

Good side is that you both are healthy and now the path is clear, I would recommend giving a shot after two cycles and soon you will be blessed with healthy baby.
Remember to take Prenatalvitamins while trying to get pregnant. Eat healthy and make storage for future baby.

Remember the more you think of loss the more difficult to conceive. The one you lost was not fully formed and you need to put this behind. I know easier said than done, but I think I have done this.

Archie