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Is your boyfriend or girlfriend avoiding you? Is your partner ignoring your calls? Read on to know what to do when a loved one ignores you.
Pooja and Manish met online through a dating website. They confessed their love for each other. For first few months everything was going good. Late night phone conversations, kisses and hugs, lying at home about a relationship and watching the sunset together, all felt so nice. Few days later Manish felt that Pooja is ignoring him. He confronted her about her behavior. She said she wanted to end the relationship. Manish did not probe too much and moved on. Do you think Manish did the right thing? Moving on without knowing the reason of ignorance is not always possible. If relationship is stumbling, it is better to end it on a good note instead of making things worse. If your partner is avoiding you, having a word with him or her can improve the situation. There can be some misunderstanding. However, being pushy does not help. Is he or she ignoring me? When suddenly there is something wrong with your partner, when you feel everything is not okay, when you start finding loop holes in a relationship and when your partner ignores you, you know it is time to do something to save your relationship. Following are signs that show your partner is trying to ignore you.
What to do if your partner is avoiding you If you are sure that your partner is avoiding and ignoring you, you need to make a move. Do not overreact, do not be overanxious, the problem with your relationship might be trivial. Once you have identified the problem, it is time to bring it to the notice of your partner. Hard as it may seem and be difficult to do but it can save you many ugly moments. Communicate Communication, commitment, trust and love are the characteristics of a successful relationship. If your relationship is missing even one of these qualities, it may tumble. Love is like a delicate thread and open communication is the best way to keep the bond strong. If you are feeing that your partner is falling out of love, go and talk to him. Ask him why he is ignoring you. He may keep his cell phone switched off just to avoid you. Meet him in person. Avoid discussing things over the phone, through text messages, via e-mails or through chats. Do it face to face. Seek explanation Tell him that you have noticed that he is avoiding you and you need an explanation. Tell him that you would not go without getting proper answers to your doubts. Do not say something that will hurt your partner's feelings. You are still together. Your partner may be going through a bad phase. He may be depressed as he got rejected in the job interview or he is hesitating to tell you something. Find out the root cause of his behavior. Life will surely get on track once again. However remember you do not have to be forceful and keep calling every minute, demanding an explanation. Give some space Sometimes emotions are hard to understand. Give your partner some space. Leave him alone for a few days. When he will be okay, he will get back to you. Meanwhile spend time alone. Let your partner spend time alone so he will get time to know the situation in better ways. Do not argue or blame your partner. Do not say things like, ‘you have changed' or ‘you are not the one with whom I fell in love at first sight.'It is said, that time heals. Be patient and see whether things improve. Think again If you have discussed the reason for his disinterest in you, if you have given him enough time, if you have waited enough to improve the situation and nothing is coming out of it, then it is better you move on. Let go. If the person is the one for you, he will come back. Otherwise that person is just not meant for you. If it is clear that your relationship is going nowhere and is on verge of break-up, do not cling to it. Believe in yourself and have patience. Avoid explaining to your partner how nice it would be to be together. Stay calm come what may, you will be glad you did. Trust yourself and go on with life. It is not worth a person who does not need or deserve you. Is your partner ignoring you? Have you faced difficult situations in a relationship? How do you handle ups and downs of a relationship? To share your views and experiences,click here. |
Name: jane
City: uk
Comments: Hi everyone, pls permit me to share with you a story that´d be of use to you and everyone else in need of having a second chance. My husband left me for my best friend it hurt so much. I hated them both for a long time as I wanted revenge until I met Jai Mata Sunlight with her counsel and advise that I need no revenge but to have my family back to be completed. Of course, she was right she consider. I want my husband back for my family to be complete. She showed me so much love and kindness that I real can’t explain her goodness to me.. then she made a love charms for me. And instructed me how to physically activate the rituals correctly right where I am in California. And as she instructed, I did my path and the lovespell was casted. About two days later my husband and my best friend had a nasty falling out and he came crawling back. We went through couple’s counseling and are on a better path because of JAI MATA SUNLIGHT HELP. Words really can’t explain how happy I am this message of testimony to the world to show my gratitude to the Jai Mata Sunlight of Ezioguru. I’d like whoever reading this testimony now to know that this is %REAL. This comment is to empower anyone in need of help via family issues or business, life, and properties. that you are not alone in that your situation. That, there is someone who truly still cares about you, that you need to know. Via ( Sunlightmata At Gmail Dot Com ) my advise i have for you, believe you shall receive. thank you so much maa´´ !!” – Jane, Boston.
City: uk
Comments: Hi everyone, pls permit me to share with you a story that´d be of use to you and everyone else in need of having a second chance. My husband left me for my best friend it hurt so much. I hated them both for a long time as I wanted revenge until I met Jai Mata Sunlight with her counsel and advise that I need no revenge but to have my family back to be completed. Of course, she was right she consider. I want my husband back for my family to be complete. She showed me so much love and kindness that I real can’t explain her goodness to me.. then she made a love charms for me. And instructed me how to physically activate the rituals correctly right where I am in California. And as she instructed, I did my path and the lovespell was casted. About two days later my husband and my best friend had a nasty falling out and he came crawling back. We went through couple’s counseling and are on a better path because of JAI MATA SUNLIGHT HELP. Words really can’t explain how happy I am this message of testimony to the world to show my gratitude to the Jai Mata Sunlight of Ezioguru. I’d like whoever reading this testimony now to know that this is %REAL. This comment is to empower anyone in need of help via family issues or business, life, and properties. that you are not alone in that your situation. That, there is someone who truly still cares about you, that you need to know. Via ( Sunlightmata At Gmail Dot Com ) my advise i have for you, believe you shall receive. thank you so much maa´´ !!” – Jane, Boston.
Name: Sramana mandal
City: Kolkata
Comments: I love my boyfriend. But from last few days he avoids me like about his illness and I am tensed about his health but he doesn’t like me I can feel it. He tells me he loves me but i can feel he avoids me clearly. I can’t understand the proper cause. He is very humble and good human being. If he lost his all feelings for me then why he doesn’t tell me clearly I can’t understand. If he want i leave my place then he will be happy? If that happens then why he doesn’t tell me. Am I being bored for him? I can’t understand. He doesn’t want to discuss about anything with me. I am frustrated. Is he indirectly want to leave me! I have no problem but he doesn’t tell me clearly.
City: Kolkata
Comments: I love my boyfriend. But from last few days he avoids me like about his illness and I am tensed about his health but he doesn’t like me I can feel it. He tells me he loves me but i can feel he avoids me clearly. I can’t understand the proper cause. He is very humble and good human being. If he lost his all feelings for me then why he doesn’t tell me clearly I can’t understand. If he want i leave my place then he will be happy? If that happens then why he doesn’t tell me. Am I being bored for him? I can’t understand. He doesn’t want to discuss about anything with me. I am frustrated. Is he indirectly want to leave me! I have no problem but he doesn’t tell me clearly.
Name: Jineetha
City: Lahore
Comments: My husband is always avoiding me.he is working in abroad and when I call him,he won´t respond or even call back.when I text him,he won´t reply even if he is online . He don´t like chatting with me. He loves chatting with his frns and going out with them. he don´t wanted to spend time with me and talk much to me.i don´t know what to do..I can´t hate him or avoid him as he is doing.
City: Lahore
Comments: My husband is always avoiding me.he is working in abroad and when I call him,he won´t respond or even call back.when I text him,he won´t reply even if he is online . He don´t like chatting with me. He loves chatting with his frns and going out with them. he don´t wanted to spend time with me and talk much to me.i don´t know what to do..I can´t hate him or avoid him as he is doing.
Name: 강주은
City: Seoul
Comments: I am in a relationship and my girlfriend keeps avoiding me. Well thats what i think. She doesnt text me anymore, she doesnt know i have plans for us, she just ignores nowadays. I want to know why she is doing this. I love her very much but it seems like she doesn´t have the same feelings like I do to her. I try to make a conversation but then she cuts it short by not replying or by saying "I gtg" please help me. Give me ideas on what to do please.
City: Seoul
Comments: I am in a relationship and my girlfriend keeps avoiding me. Well thats what i think. She doesnt text me anymore, she doesnt know i have plans for us, she just ignores nowadays. I want to know why she is doing this. I love her very much but it seems like she doesn´t have the same feelings like I do to her. I try to make a conversation but then she cuts it short by not replying or by saying "I gtg" please help me. Give me ideas on what to do please.
Name: Mitali Nayak
City: cuttack
Comments: Hi, I´m Mitali. I really love my boyfriend,but starting ignoring me,I don´t live with out him. Some time before he does not live with out me ,anytime called or message me or we r meet, Nd most part is he always tell me truth what´s going on him,he share with me everything, but Suddenly he was change, He don´t call me or message me,nd don´t meet me, When I call him ,he cut the phone every time,Nd sometime received phone or tell me he z in office, or his classes, tell me I call u back,but he don´t call me or message me back. I really missed him ,love him very much,I can´t live without him, Plz help me. Always I call him message him but he don´t, Some time talk with me nicely and when I tell ilvu ,he reply me he loves but,but he restart don´t call or message, I´m tell him sry for everything,plz forgive me,I don´t live with out u.
City: cuttack
Comments: Hi, I´m Mitali. I really love my boyfriend,but starting ignoring me,I don´t live with out him. Some time before he does not live with out me ,anytime called or message me or we r meet, Nd most part is he always tell me truth what´s going on him,he share with me everything, but Suddenly he was change, He don´t call me or message me,nd don´t meet me, When I call him ,he cut the phone every time,Nd sometime received phone or tell me he z in office, or his classes, tell me I call u back,but he don´t call me or message me back. I really missed him ,love him very much,I can´t live without him, Plz help me. Always I call him message him but he don´t, Some time talk with me nicely and when I tell ilvu ,he reply me he loves but,but he restart don´t call or message, I´m tell him sry for everything,plz forgive me,I don´t live with out u.
Name: vishal
City: patna
Comments: hey i am vishal ,i really love my gf very much ,but they still ignoring me why i dont know what happened with her. suddenly their behaviour getting changed .however i just send this message to her ..she cant give me replay,or dont text me plzz help ..i am useless without her. why someone do like that ,why play with anyone heart .. i really miss her and loved her.. i cant live without her plese help me.. i wanna said one thing last however this message reach with her ..howmuch i lover her. and please foregive me if u read my message ..
City: patna
Comments: hey i am vishal ,i really love my gf very much ,but they still ignoring me why i dont know what happened with her. suddenly their behaviour getting changed .however i just send this message to her ..she cant give me replay,or dont text me plzz help ..i am useless without her. why someone do like that ,why play with anyone heart .. i really miss her and loved her.. i cant live without her plese help me.. i wanna said one thing last however this message reach with her ..howmuch i lover her. and please foregive me if u read my message ..
Name: Shadrarokerer
City: AssumelsWet
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City: AssumelsWet
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Name: Shadrarokerer
City: AssumelsWet
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City: AssumelsWet
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Name: Emy
City: Batoda
Comments: My fiance was crazy bout me v used to talk day n night and now a days he gets angry on me very soon for small things what should I do
City: Batoda
Comments: My fiance was crazy bout me v used to talk day n night and now a days he gets angry on me very soon for small things what should I do
Name: minal
City: delhi
Comments: hii this side minal , now m going very frusted about my boyfriend , he is ignoring me all times , m felling very sad , i dont know why some people do like that , why play with someone heart , i just want to say to my boyfrnd that , don´t do this love game with any another girls , i will dont love agin in my whole life
City: delhi
Comments: hii this side minal , now m going very frusted about my boyfriend , he is ignoring me all times , m felling very sad , i dont know why some people do like that , why play with someone heart , i just want to say to my boyfrnd that , don´t do this love game with any another girls , i will dont love agin in my whole life
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