Bragging is a harmless evil but it has many repercussions. All children brag at some point of time. Bragging is a disease and if it is not stopped early then it may become a habit. Children who brag lack self confidence.
Nehal was at school and she turned
to the girl next to her and said "I got a 93% and you only got 70%." The girl next to her cringed and
gave Nehal a mean look. Nehal did not care and told everyone her
grade.
"You always brag, Nehal," said one
boy.
"I do not. It is not my fault
I always do better than you," said Nehal mockingly.
Why do children
brag?
Children might brag for many reasons.
First of all they might lack self-confidence and brag to make themselves
feel better. By projecting faults on others and uplifting their own
spirits, they begin to feel that they actually are something important
in this world. Bragging also occurs among children because they might
not know their place in school or at home. By bragging, they will
get attention and will feel they belong somewhere. Children could
brag about anything ranging from grades to sports and to wealth.
If children are lonely, they might be under the wrong assumption that by
bragging, people will like them better and they will make more friends.
What you can do?
If your child brags, you have to
help your child gain his self-confidence. You must show him that
everyone will like him more if he does not brag and he does not need to
brag to get attention and feel wanted. Bragging is a disease and
it is a vicious one. If your child does not brag, you must make sure
he does not lose his self-confidence because of other children who do brag.
Show him that he does not need to brag about his achievements in order
to be appreciated. Also by praising your child at home, your child
will feel less of a need to brag and will not be affected by children who
do brag because he knows that you think he is a great person. Children
are very vulnerable and they need love and encouragement. When your
child brags, he is sometimes indirectly asking people to notice him and
feel proud of him. Show your child what he means to you and how proud
you really are.
Bragging is something that children
engage in. It should be stopped as soon as possible because as children
get older, they might brag more and it will be harder to stop. Bragging
is a very unsocial manner and can hurt your child in many ways.
Nehal was at school and she turned to the girl next to her and said " I got a 93 and you only got 70."
The girl next to her cringed and gave Nehal a mean look. Nehal did not care and told everyone her grade.
You always brag, Nehal,said one boy.
I do not. It is not my fault I always do better than you,said Nehal mockingly.
Why do children brag?
Children might brag for many reasons. First of all they might lack self-confidence and brag to make themselves feel better. By projecting faults on others and uplifting their own spirits, they begin to feel that they actually are something important in this world. Bragging also occurs among children because they might not know their place in school or at home. By bragging, they will get attention and will feel they belong somewhere. Children could brag about anything ranging from grades to sports and to wealth. If children are lonely, they might be under the wrong assumption that by bragging, people will like them better and they will make more friends.
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