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I have reached my end of endurance,i am sure i am in depression, dont feel like doing anything, and wnt to sleep all the time, not talk, not excercise, etc
i have tried 3 iuis, all failures, had endometriold tb, now cured, now i am adviced to do laproscopy. can u pls tell me how the proceedure is , and how painful...what is LIT

pls reply soon. and who was your doctor. or can u suggest a good doctor for ivf sowdha replied. Hi Star,
I knw what you must be going through, I went through all that for more than 3 yrs, it was horrible. I did not do laproscopy and have no idea abt it.
You have done just 3 iui' s, i have had 6 iui' s, 2 miscarriages so don' t feel bad people out there are worser than you. I became pregnant after 8 yrs of marriage naturally and lost the baby in 60 days and that time we were in no mood to chk the foetus report or anything and after 3 months i met another gynae and she asked me to chk for a test where your blood is tested to look for abnormalities and then it was found that my white blood corpusules are more in number and they kill anything foreign in the body and so inorder to lower it i had to undergo this treatment (Lymphocyte Immunotheraphy - LIT). The treatment was done in a special lab in delhi and very few doctors do this treatment but in delhi i used to see patients coming from all around india for this treatment. I underwent this for 3-5 months and then i went in for iui and conceived the 3rd time, miscarried it once again and this time we found from the foetus tht i had TB, underwent treatment for 9 months and again 3 failed IUI' s and i was in huge depression and was so irritated with everything when I found out i conceived naturally and all the efforts paid off well.
We prayed so much, had faith in God and don' t worry, don' t be depressed. Are you working? if not, search for a job, divert your mind, go around a trip with your husband during your fertile days, forget all treatment for 3 months, take a break, go learn something of your interest, I was teaching in a college and that surely helped me a lot, I had lot of friends in the college and i had great fun, be positive and i can assure you that once you have a baby all the pain which you have undergone will disappear.
Are you staying in delhi? My doctor sits in Noida and She is the BEST, very KIND and if not for her and my husband i will not be playing with my son right now. they both stood like pillars behind me. Don' t worry have faith and you will surely have your baby. All the best.

sowdha sm replied. Dear Friends

Don' t get frusted.We have child after 8-years!!Depression/tension is the biggest enemy in the way of frtility.Thought positively.
As we come to know about our problems by Dr. Shembekar,(Gynec.Obs.),we gone through Leproscopy and according to report,we both are treated and the outcome is with us!!
With Best wishes/Sanjeev