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We had been suffering with unexplained pregnancy and it' s been really a roller coaster emotional ride .. Married for 10 years and trying for 7 years now .. Had a natural pregnancy once but miscarried , and since then multiple IUI and 3 failed IVF ...
Tried positive thinking and visualization , yoga , meditationetc etc ..
And now I really want to release my emotions creatively and send it out to universe ... May be many of you would relate to it ..
So here is my heartfelt blog I started today .. Release that pain , let go of that bottled up emotions .. We need to clear some space to receive
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Aditi replied. Hey, there. I hope you're alright. I heard your story. My prayers are with you. Good luck to you. Infertility is a big problem. It's caused so many issues for so many women. This was a really nice post. You're right. People need to let their frustrations out. It's super important. My prayers are with you. I hope things get better for you people. Don't worry, alright? It's a really testing issue. But, these things need patience. samantha replied. Hey there, Noopur. I hope you're in good health, dear. I feel very sorry to read about your infertility. No one can feel more helpless than an infertile person. I've been through the same situation as you. I know that it isn't easy to face so many failures in life. I've faced 3 miscarriages, they were dreadful. After that I decided to give rest to my body. Which is why I went for adoption and adopted a beautiful girl.You have to stay strong and never lose hope. I'm happy to see that you started a blog. Writing down your feelings really helps you feel good. I also like writing down my feelings. I wish that you get all that you desire. Best wishes to you! Amber06 replied. Hey there! Hope you are doing fine. Infertility is really a curse happen in a life. This issue becomes common nowadays. I am also an infertile person. I had faced infertility for so long. Then a friend of mine told me about surrogacy. I opted for it and went to Europe. Surrogacy proved like a blessing to me. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. I suggest you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy completes many infertile families wish of having children. I hope you will be bless with a child soon. Best wishes. God bless you. Roxiee replied. Hi there, How are you? Is everything alright with you. Please, don't worry. There is nothing to take tension. Everything will be alright. Please, take a good care of yourself. Well, I just want to say that its already too much that you suffered. It's now a time to think about this. It would be great. Well, don't worry, everything will be fine. You don't have to take tension. Many people survive that. It's really great. simran_kaur replied. Hi dear, hope you are doing well. I am new to this group. I am from Norway. I can relate to your situation. I know how hard infertility is. I am also an infertile. Its been 7 years now that I am trying to conceive. It is very difficult to keep going. I get so depressed at a point that . My husband loves me very much. He has always been there for me. He took care of me in this phase. It is due to him that I feel better now. He supported me in my bad time. He motivated me to try again and I am now trying to gather courage to try once again. picky_poja replied. hope you are doing well. Its picky from cannada. I am so sorry hear about it. I can understand how you must be feeling now.I can feel your pain. I am an infertile too. I had been TTC for 8 years. It has been a very tough for me and my husband recently.I had 2 miscarriages and after that we just lost hope.That was the most hardest and depressed i have been in life. Infertility is so cruel .god blesss you .good luck for future. hope you are fine.i pray for you picky_parkash replied. Hi there i am really sorry for what happened with you and your wife but then its the same story with me also as my husband and myself were unable to start our family so finally we then decided to adopt a kid and then we did that and now today we are very much happy. katherine replied. Hi Noopur, hope you are doing well. Its katherine from UK. I am so sorry hear about it. I can understand how you must be feeling now.I can feel your pain. I am an infertile too. I had been TTC for 6 years. It has been a very tough for me and my husband recently.I had 2 miscarriages and after that we just lost hope.That was the most hardest and depressed i have been in life. Infertility is so cruel . Jiana replied. Aww dear, I am so sorry. I have no words to console you. You are such a brave soul. You had been through a lot. I can understand the pain you have felt. I am also an infertile. I have endometriosis. I tried IVF twice. But it failed both times. I can understand how difficult it is to bear a failure. I had so many hopes while trying IVF. It left me shattered. It even took my husband from me. He divorced me afterwards because he was not able to bear my disease. Infertility has taken away a lot from me. emily replied. Hey Noopur, hope you are doing well. Its Emily from Ireland. I am so sorry buddy. I feel for you. Your story is very emotional.I can definitely feel your pain. I am an infertile too. I had been TTC for 10 years. It had been a very tough journey. I had conceived twice in start. But both were ectopic pregnancies. So I had to undergo abortion. That was the toughest time. I had to let go my baby who lived in my womb. Infertility is so cruel . soni replied. Hi, how are you? This is very sad to hear from you. I know it's very hard to suffer from such problems. I can feel your pain. It was really very hard for you. Everyone is suffering from such issues. No one is completely happy. It really doesn't mean you should lose hope. When there is no way. There is still a way. I am a mother too. I can understand how much it will be difficult for you to suffer like this. I wish you a bundle of happiness. I wish all your problems get resolved. My best wishes are with you. Best of luck Laxmi replied. Hi dear this is upsetting and you should not worry at all as there are options other then this and you guys and think about adoption as an option and will always be an easy way to opt for it, please be patient and love your wife to the fullest. Eureka replied. Hey dear this is really sad what you have gone through and really painful also as your wife had to go all through the pain and i can understand her situation, being in your place i would have motivate your wife and start telling her to start thinking positive in life. Esha replied. Hi dear this is really sad to see that what you went through, please be sure that you make your wife feel that nothing has went wrong and then its all destiny and you should respect the gods decision on it. All the best dear for your future and make your life meaningful. Dimple replied. Hello noopur please share your reports to me as i am doctor and can just you some alternate options and can also guide whether you should try it or not, please mail me the reports immediately so that i can study it properly and then can reply to you. Diana replied. Hi noopur please do not feel bad at all as this happens in life and then its common, the same story is of mine and even we were very depressed but then after a year we started researching for adoption and then we adopted a girl child and we are very much happy. Deepali replied. Hey noopur its fine what happened with at least you both are safe and you can decide what you will plan for your future, also you guys can decide for adoption and then it will be easy and can also be stress free. Plan it accordingly and enjoy your life. Deepika replied. Hello dear this is good to see that you have at least open up must say that you are having the guts to accept this, please make sure your wife is also with and should not be in negative, and one more thing that you have a long life to live. Seema replied. Hi there please do not take this as negative but then why are you trying so much please let your wife live a peaceful life as some times it happens when women are unable to conceive that not a big problem and you guys can find a another way out in this. Suman replied. Hi noopur sorry to hear this and my best wishes are with you and will always pray for you and your wife that you guys are blessed with a child very soon, I think you should not worry at all and start your future planning on it and just leave it to god.